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I'm 16 years old.

I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 2 years.

I found this website when I was looking for advice on something and I got it from this website. So I signed up for it and now I try and help other people =]

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Concerned about my weight - an impediment to having sex with thin girls?

Q.   dear cupid i would like to know do skinny girls have sex with fat people or is it just skiny with skiny? coz im fat and would like to ask this skiny girl out and if it lead to sex, would it be possible me to have sex with her? and would she laugh...

A.   3 February 2008: Im not exactly skinny but I'm under weight apparently. My boyfriend is bigger than me and we still have sex. If a girl did laugh at you then she's just using you for sex. It doesn't matter what you look like without your clothes on... personal... (read in full...)

What is the best position for first time sex??

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are ready to start having full sex. What is the best position for first intercourse? I know my boyfriend will be gentle but i was thinking a pillow underneath to raise my buttocks and legs as far apart as possible might ease pen...

A.   3 February 2008: From my experience, I'd say the best position for first time sex is just the normal position with him on top and you lie on your back. It doesn't hurt too much, and it olny hurts for a small amount of time. If you haven't been fingered then it ... (read in full...)

We fight every single day because he doesn't understand me...but our familes are excited about us getting engaged.

Q.   hi everyone... Well... my problem is similar to many girls here. I've been goin out wih this guy since almost 7 yrs now. Both our families knows all bout it infact his parents talked to my parents and its all good. We mite get engaged very soon but...

A.   3 February 2008: I think you seriously need to think about how much you love this guy. And if you don't think you do then you need to call it off. Do you think you would be able to spend the rest of your life with someone who has you last on their priority list and ... (read in full...)

Is it wrong to pursue a relationship with somebody 1-2 years younger??

Q.   dear cupid, I would like to know is it wrong for a person to go out with someone who is 1-2 years younger than themselves. I recently saw this good looking girl, went over to her found out how old she is and that, she seems to be 1 year younger tha...

A.   3 February 2008: I think it's perfectly fine. I'm in year 10 and my boyfriend is a college student and we have no problems and no one says anything to us and mym mum and dad have no problems with it. You just need to keep in mind that she isn't legally old enou... (read in full...)

I am still not comfortable with anyone touching me or any sexual contact after a teacher's harassement! What to do to get past this?

Q.   Hi, i'm 13 and when i was 12 there were about 6 or 7 boys who liked me and kept asking if i'd wanted to go out with or sometimes they asked if i would be their girlfriend but everytime i refused cause i wasn't ready for that kind of thing, at times ...

A.   31 January 2008: Tell the boy how you feel about people touching you. He should understand because of what you've been through and there's no reason why you can't make a go at it with this boy. Just make sure you let him know you're unhappy with other people tou... (read in full...)

13 and havent had my period...is this normal??

Q.   Hi i'm 13 and i haven't had my period yet. Is this bad? also even if i haven't had my period masturbation is still ok right?...

A.   24 January 2008: You can come on your period anytime between the ages of 10 and 16 so don't be worried that you haven't started yet. Try and make the most of it... sometimes my period stops me from doing things i enjoy doing. And masturbation has nothing to do wi... (read in full...)

My friends say I am pretty but when I see myself-I see an ugly freak! Whatis wrong with me?

Q.   i am 14 years old and i think there is somthing wrong with me. my friend said i am one of the prettiest girls in the year but when i look at my self i see a ugly baby faced freak i hate everything about my self my lips my nose my eyes everythi...

A.   22 January 2008: You have the same problem I had. I used to hate everything about myself but now I'm not so horrible to myself. I think what you need to do is to take note of what your friends are saying to you [You're pretty and all the other stuff they say] and ... (read in full...)

He likes to receive, but won't give. Why not?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a year. he's my first boyfriend and i really relaly love him. we've been having sex for half a year and he's the one who always initiates it. i do go down on him when i feel he wants it, but i ...

A.   18 January 2008: You need to talk to him about it! It's not fair that you should give him pleasure but he won't give you any [apart from sex but that's you both together] If you talk about it with him maybe you could come to some sort of agreement about ... (read in full...)

I have had opportunities to have sex but I always withdraw in thought of possible pain and I'm also not confident about my body. Any advice?

Q.   Hi, im 19yrs old and still a virgin. im beginining to think that i'll never lose it, i don't believe in getting married before havig sex. i have had plenty of opportunities to lose it, but for some reason i always get scared and withdraw. i just ...

A.   10 January 2008: Having sex for the first time hurts, but only for a little bit. Or it only hurt a little bit for me. Once It's in everything is fine and it doesn't hurt =] 3... (read in full...)

She cannot feel pleasure if she gets very lubricated? How to give her an orgasm?

Q.   i cant give my girlfriend an orgasm whats going on? During sex my girlfriend gets to wet and shes stop feeling me? help me please...

A.   10 January 2008: I had the same problem! Me and My boyfriend just tried out different positions and it was great! Maybe you should try out new positions with your gf if she's okay with that cause she might not be. 3... (read in full...)

Is my being a bit overweight affecting our sex life?

Q.   I need tips for girl on top sex! My boyfriend and I have been having sex for almost a year and I really want to try to shake things up in the bedroom. I know he would enjoy some sex with me on top, as would I, but every time we try we can't seem ...

A.   10 January 2008: Weight doesn't really have anything to do with it in the bedroom. There's loads of different positions with girl on top that you could try and I'm sure you could get the angle right in some of those. Mail me if you wanna talk about it or anyth... (read in full...)

What do women need to hear?

Q.   I really need your help here women! I know we men love to hear few things during sex such as moaning of the woman, complimenting our tool size, or how good it feels inside....but what about women? What do women love to hear during sex? I would...

A.   10 January 2008: I personally love it when my boyfriend whispers i love you in my ear when we have sex... But some people might not like that. Other people like it if you say their name when you have sex... it shows that you know who you're having sex with and she... (read in full...)

If I get pregnant, should I tell my mum or is it better having an abortion without telling her?

Q.   Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only ...

A.   5 January 2008: Thanks For All Those Answers =] xXx... (read in full...)

If I get pregnant, should I tell my mum or is it better having an abortion without telling her?

Q.   Me and My Boyfriend Have Been Together For Over A Year and In September We Decided To Have Sex. Everything Was Fine When We Has Sex But The Other Day We Ran Out Of Condoms So We Had Sex But He Pulled Out When He Was About To Cum. The Only ...

A.   3 January 2008: Thanks For The Answers =] xXx... (read in full...)

I really liked him - what can I do to get over him?

Q.   help i was kinda seeing this guy from college and we split up his decision. but i cant get over him i really liked him,what can i do to get over him?? he was my first relationship if you can call him that,and i dont find it easy to meet guys.all...

A.   3 January 2008: From Past Experience... You Just Have To Get On With Life. It Seems Really Mean But There's Nothing Else To Do. Just Go Out, Chat To Other Guys && Try To Forget About Him. I Know It's Earsier Said Than Done But That's What You Have To Do. If He... (read in full...)

My ex is going out with my friend, and I fear it might be wierd. Any advice?

Q.   ok, so i broke up with my ex 5 months ago. we met each other through church. now i find out he might be going out with another girl (one of my closest friends) from my church. i have no problem with him dating again (i already have a new boyfriend). ...

A.   2 January 2008: Just Act Normal Around Them. If You Change The Way You Act Around Them They Might Feel You Don't Want Them To Be Together. Whenever You See Someone You Had A Relationship With It's Always Going To Be Awkward and Weird... You Just Have To Try and Act ... (read in full...)

How do I get my girlfriend to open up to me?

Q.   Heya again I posted a question yesterday about my girlfriend being distant from me i think the title was any ideas as to why my gf seems to be ignoring me?? (i got some helpfull answers thanks).Anyway i decided to talk to her and find out what her...

A.   2 January 2008: Don't Force Her To Say Something She Doesn't Want To. That Could Cause You & Your Girlfriend To Break Up If You Carry On Bringing Up The Same Subject When She Feels Uncomfortable Talking To You About It. Just Give Her Time & If She Wants To Talk To ... (read in full...)

I have pushed my boyfriend to the limit and feel I have ruined our relationship, can it be saved?

Q.   I love my boyfriend so much but I think I am killing my relationship. I cant stop myself from being so intense and bitchy. I know we're at breaking point as I think I have pushed him to the limit. he's been so pateint and he used to love me so ...

A.   2 January 2008: Tell your boyfriend how you feel. If you tell him how much you love him and all that then maybe he won't dump you. And if you talk to him about how you feel you could ask to start a fresh and forget about everything that's happened between you both. ... (read in full...)

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