My girlfriend turns off her phone when she goes clubbing with her friends. Should I be worried?
Q. This is a question for the girls... My g/f likes to go out clubbing with friends. When she does she usually sends me a text message saying that she'll not be home until the morning. Not a problem, but then she switches off her phone... and tha...
A. 13 September 2008: Well, you've been given pretty good points. But call me crazy, my cell seems to fit every time I go out, and I also happen to enjoy knowing that my guy misses me every time he texts to say so. But that's just me.
Maybe she's a practical-not very... (read in full...)
My Husband doesn't want me anymore - what do I do?
Q. My husband and I were best friends in high school and about a year through it, we started dating. He adored me and everything about me. I broke up with him sometime before our senior year. It crushed him. After school, I got married and after 4 ...
A. 11 September 2008: Somebody PLEASE coment on what "Happylife" had to say...... (read in full...)
How can I convince people that my 25 year old boyfriend is not wrong for me? I'm only 14
Q. ok this is hard...im a 14 year old girl...and i have a 25 year old boyfriend...i know he loves me very much...we have promised eachother that we will wait for sex till im 18..and till then we act like normal people...except till we talk on the ...
A. 1 September 2008: Look at this- http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-got-her-pregnant-at-14.html... (read in full...)
Is this doctor "slumming"?
Q. Help not sure if he is slumming!!. I met a man that I like very much.One problem , he is a doctor who is very busy with work. I am a single mom of 3 .He lives in a gorgeous huge house!!..I live in a 2 family .We have a great time when we are toge...
A. 17 August 2008: That's how one can make it big. Find a rich man and charm your way to a wealthy life. Tons of people like yourself out there. Enjoy it and lets hope this man actually loves you :)... (read in full...)
I really don't like who she is now, what do I do?
Q. Hello, My GF and i started dating about a week ago, and we hung out like 4 times before becoming official, and it was so much fun, we laughed alot and i really liked who she was alot. But mysteriously she changed as soon as we started da...
A. 15 August 2008: Completely agree with the posters- so what's left to do? Talk to the girl!
Let her know what bothers you and where you stand. Ask yourself if you're willing to deal the with the package. If you're not, say your goodbye's and keep on moving.
Reall... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy talks to your mum on the phone? Is he sucking up?
Q. when a guy talks to your mom on the phone just to see how she is does that mean he is sucking up to your mom and wants to date u or does it mean something else? ...
A. 15 August 2008: Perhaps she just happened to answer when he was really trying to get a hold of you? what a good way to make an impression! :)
Or maybe, just maybe! he's a sweet kid :)
Either way, be thankful he's not a punk and was rude to your mommy.... (read in full...)
How can I show my boyfriend that I am committed and faithful?
Q. well my boyfriend and i live together, and we are talking about getting married. of course i am so happy but he told me he was "uncertain about my commitment". how can i show him that i love him and will be faithful to him?...
A. 15 August 2008: Right.. you can only show by doing. If he's not sure about your commitment then you really do not need to be talking about marriage. Time will be your friend on this one, use ito get to know each other, to show your love and commitment and when the ... (read in full...)
I'm a 12 year old girl and I'm obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should I do?
Q. im a 12 year old girl and im obsessed with boobs and sex and having sex, what should i do?...
A. 15 August 2008: Emivia is absolutely right- you will be all over the place sexually. As you get older you'll learn to control such urges. In the meantime, be cautious about the things you do to fulfill your sexual needs.
Be safe kiddo :)... (read in full...)
Is my Boyfriend on the Downlow? (secretly gay).
Q. Hello My name is Natasha and i wanted to know if my boyfriend was on the Downlow? We dated for six months and he waited until i was ready to have sex. Which is Rare in men but we had sex and it was good. What makes me think hes on a Downlow hes ...
A. 15 August 2008: Ooops!
At first I thought he could just be metro sexual. But the "booty shake" and the circle of friends, plus the hair and make up. Hmm... that's a little pink flag going on. Perhaps he's Bi? Why don't you try talking to him?
... (read in full...)
Should I accept sharing my boyfriend with another woman???
Q. I have a boyfriend who had this other not so serious relationship before we met. He continues to see that woman and tells me everytime that he sees her. As this bothers me, I do not know how to address this issue to him. I do not want to give him up ...
A. 15 August 2008: Wtf?!
Why would your boyfriend do that? and why in the world would you be ok with that?
He has never been yours and he is getting the best of both worlds. Unless you're willing to stay in such uncomfortable situation, I suggest you pack your fee... (read in full...)
I am irritated with my girlfriend because of her flaws, what should I do?
Q. I have a big problem. My girlfriend is lovely and everything but there are some things I don't like about her. I know this myght sound like bitching but most of the time she doesn't keep up her promise: she tries hard and everything but s...
A. 12 August 2008: Seems like everyone agreed that you're the one at fault. I personally think you're right by saying flat out that 80% of this girl is annoying as can be. What I don't understand is that if shes not what you need then why waste your time?
People don'... (read in full...)
My Red Flag has gone up... Should I be suspicious?
Q. My boyfriend is 12 yrs younger than me, and we have been living together for 2 yrs now. I have never trusted him due to an ongoing issue of him gawking at younger women. I am not beautiful, but I am not too bad. My self esteeme level is diminished ...
A. 11 August 2008: I think you answered your own question. You gave yourself a list of all the things that make you feel suspicious of this man. Trust your gut feeling, its usually right. If you're in the position of moving on and find your happiness, do it. If not, I ... (read in full...)
Am I still a virgin after like 'semi' sex?
Q. me an my boyfriend had like semi sex, he didnt get far really, but he was in far enough to break my hymen. am i still a virgin?...
A. 5 August 2008: I licked the frosting off the cupcake and took a little bite. Did I eat the cupcake ?
Sorry honey-bunches, you're not a virgin anymore.... (read in full...)
Are there any Agony Aunts who speak French and wish to practice Spanish?
Q. This is not a relationship question. I was just wondering if there's an agony aunt who speaks French as a native speaker and wishes to practice Spanish. If there is anyone, would that person be willing to receive messages off and on, so that we ...
A. 5 August 2008: Count me in buddy!... (read in full...)
How can I support my boyfriend during this trying time?
Q. Hello- Was wondering if you guys could give me some insight on this situation: How to comfort a loved one during and after the death of a family member. My fiance's grandmother is very ill and has just recently stopped eating (which is usually...
A. 31 July 2008: Thank you so very much, Tisha. Your words were very kind and thoughtful. I realize how critical it is for me to be by his side and opted for a plane ticket (and invest the money I wouldve potentially paid for the phone bill!)
I thank you agai... (read in full...)
Here I am on top of him next thing I know, I get poked.....
Q. So i finally met my Man for first time....wow he's amazing, he brought me into kay jewlers and bought me a gold diamod ring, he did it when i wasnt looking, i love him but he won't tell me how much he spent or how many Ks it is. Anyway, we went out ...
A. 30 July 2008: See.. I don't know what to get out of your post. First I thought you were in it for all the wrong reasons when you mentioned the ring situation, yes its awfully lovely that he got you a ring, but why oh why are you so preoccupied with the prize? I ... (read in full...)
I hurt one of my friends badly, what do I do?
Q. My friend Hannah (not her real name) lost her Dad (he was 42) in a car accident and she been annoying me ever since it happen. One day Hannah wining about her Dad and I lost it (didnt mean to) and told her shes being obsessed with him and needs to ...
A. 21 July 2008: I agree with Miss Tremor here- be a man and tell her yourself. Your really made a huge mistake by being so cold to your friend.
Go say you're sorry and call it a day- after all, you already got slapped for it.... (read in full...)
Is it a bad idea to get a tattoo of his name? He wants to get one of mine.
Q. my boyfriend and i been 2gether for 3 years and we been living 2gether for 1 of those 3 years. Anyways, we want 2 get married but dont have alot of money and have been saving for the perfect wedding but my boyfriend wants to get my name tattoed on ...
A. 21 July 2008: As much as I agree with the people here- who wants to wait 30 years ?
Luckily with our technology now, if you do end up breaking and hating each other's guts then you can have it removed. of course it will be painful and probably a bit costy too,... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and he's 20, is it ok for us to be together or should I wait?
Q. Okay. So here's the deal. I met this guy.. lets call him Justin (not real name).. on Friday... well no I've been talking to him for SO much longer... I've been talking to him since i was 13 and he was 18 but now I'm 15 and he's 20. I actually...
A. 21 July 2008: Well.. you took every little risk imaginable and things 'worked' out for you. Err.. not so much,dear. If the guy really cares for you, why would he agree to come into your house and lie to your family? I question wether this guy has good intentions. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome - where do we find another girl?
Q. Dear Cupid, I want to have a threeway with my boyfriend and another girl. He has agreed, and we have discussed it quite a bit over the past few days. My only concern really is that he will like a girl that I'm not into. So my question is how ...
A. 21 July 2008: I want in!
..kidding. Are you absolutely sure you want to have this? it could really break your relationship and take you into a completely different level- if you even survive.
I strongly suggest you think it over & good luck :)... (read in full...)
Is anyone on here a Godmother who can give me some good advice?
Q. Hello, I'm a 15-year-old girl and my big brother and his wife asked me to be the godmother of their future child,few months ago.The little boy will born in September (probably 20th according to the doctor).The baby will be their first child.I ne...
A. 20 July 2008: Awwww... cuteness!
Perhaps you're taking this a bit too seriously? I think it was a sweet gesture of your brother to have asked but I don't think they're expecting much of you in that department and especially you being young. Maybe somewhere down... (read in full...)
How did you meet your partner?
Q. Hi everyone, I've had a lot on my mind today so to lighten the mood I wanted to find out somthing dreamy. You see, every guy I have ever been with I have met after a big night at a party or the pub/club. Im not an alco or anything I just like (well ...
A. 15 July 2008: He was a doctor at a hospital I used to work for. He would always smile at me when we walked pass each other. One day we were both in the cafeteria and he said "You're gorgeous, let me buy you a cookie!" We have been eating cookies ever since :)... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 14 July 2008: Hola niños, como estan? I'm buttin' in again :)
I think you two should just get together! :) kidding, Daniel. Maybe you have some special lady lined up already? And you Sara, I guess nice guys are hard to find, period. It doesn't matter if they... (read in full...)
Would a Latino take me seriously as a girlfriend or wife?
Q. I would like to hear from you latino guys about this? If you are a white, American girl is it possible that a latino guy will ever take you seriously as a girlfriend? I'm worried that I'll never be happy. I would like to have a boyfriend, but the ...
A. 13 July 2008: Didn't you post here before? and didn't they tell you that you're hispanic yourself?
Mmm... where's Daniel when you need him? He gave you a pretty good answer before, im sure he has another one now. And I will just keep my comments to myself. ... (read in full...)
How can I overcome my nerves?
Q. im going on a date with my girlfriend this saturday and i really need help! im thinkng of kissing her . jus like a small kiss to show her that i love her but i am practically famous for my nerves and i need advice on what to do! someone plase ...
A. 11 July 2008: Awww how cute...
Im not very sure what to tell you about the nerves. Just try to relax and and enjoy your time, things will go peachy :)... (read in full...)
Before our three-way relationship even starts I know I want him to myself. How?
Q. Just to start off I have a deep love for my ex and now we're planning to get back together but there's a catch. You see he doesn't have much trust towards women due to what many have done him wroung including myself. So he's been talkin to someone ...
A. 11 July 2008: I meant to leave a comment before but didn't. The way I see this going, well.. I just don't think it will end in good terms. You've mentioned you have very strong feelings for this man, and even though he cares for you, I just don't think he's in ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to be a good lover?
Q. I really work hard on being a good lover. I´ve really thought and read alot on the subject. Only thing is the woman I´m with, as shes more on the recieving end-doesn´t do much but reap the benefits, and I feel like I´m walking a one way street. I ...
A. 10 July 2008: I did post a question asking if you spoke Spanish but for some weird reason it didn't post. But, do you?... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the death of my mistress?
Q. sad storey that i cant get over,i was having an afair for over 25 years. she was a wonderfull person,she had a husband me a wife,we went out together 3 times per week and it suited both of us, 2 years ago at christmas time new years eve to be corre...
A. 9 July 2008: Ooops... and I thought I was harsh! Since someone thought so from my last reply.
Anyway anyway, I forgot to offer some tissues !... (read in full...)
How do I deal with the death of my mistress?
Q. sad storey that i cant get over,i was having an afair for over 25 years. she was a wonderfull person,she had a husband me a wife,we went out together 3 times per week and it suited both of us, 2 years ago at christmas time new years eve to be corre...
A. 9 July 2008: Well... that is a sad thing and I am sorry that happened. If you really loved the woman then why haver her on the side and act in such way for so long? Now that shes gone you can try on focus on your marriage and love those that are in your life so ... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend pay me any attention?
Q. Okay so I’m dating my ex boyfriend again. He broke up with me last time cause apparently i was being to “bitchy”. Anyways he had dated for about 3-4 months and we broke up. Ever since the break up i couldn’t take my mind off him. We took a break ...
A. 8 July 2008: Awww... sorry you feel that way, sweetpea.
By the way, the name is Ale- not Alec :)... (read in full...)
Open marriage plus money worries plus kids... What do I do now?
Q. I’ve been married 14 years and have a 10 year old son. We have been poly for about 9 years of that time and this has been with various people for both of us. There is one person I have been involved with for almost 7 years of that time. About two ...
A. 7 July 2008: Huh?
.. You really are getting the best of two worlds here, buddy. I think its obvious you need to sit down and think very VERY hard on which direction you want to go before you ruin the people that are in your life. Most importantly your son's, s... (read in full...)
Why won't my boyfriend pay me any attention?
Q. Okay so I’m dating my ex boyfriend again. He broke up with me last time cause apparently i was being to “bitchy”. Anyways he had dated for about 3-4 months and we broke up. Ever since the break up i couldn’t take my mind off him. We took a break ...
A. 7 July 2008: Um... Ughh... Ok... Perhaps the poor guy got tired of waiting on you- since you were treating him like a yoyo! I suggest you move on and let the dude alone.... (read in full...)
Family fights all the time, I am miserable, I must leave, is there someplace to live for free temporarily?
Q. Hi, Im writing becasue I can't seem to find peace at home and I don't know what to do. My parents have been married for about 23 years, but my mom's had to deal with infidelities, indecision physical and physiological abuse (IN THE PAST). I ...
A. 7 July 2008: Being in that situation isn't easy. I myself went through something similar with the exception that I had a job to fall onto. Theres a million and two things that you need to not only have in consideration but also have a secure access to. Moving ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to tell her I'm in love with her. Can you advise me please?
Q. Hi am Josian.... and i want it to ask you a question about love. I have a crush on a neighbour, but i am to shy to tell her that i love her. Please - do you have some advice for me? Thank you. sincerely Josian....
A. 7 July 2008: That's a pretty name :)
The best way to spill the beans is to be charming yet straight forward. Next time you two are chatting try to find a window to invite her out for coffee or go on a walk and find things you have in common and act very exc... (read in full...)
I don't hear from her now we've broken up, and it's bothering me.
Q. I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's ...
A. 27 June 2008: Yikes.. I've just been reading lots of things here that I totally sympathize with, one of them being your situation. When I found myself staring at my screen wanting to see my love show up online, not only did I realize how very much in love I was ... (read in full...)
I don't hear from her now we've broken up, and it's bothering me.
Q. I know this may seem like a weird thing to say but...I broke up with my girlfriend about 3 weeks ago...and about a week ago...I haven't heard anything from her (by that I mean she hasn't been on my messenger) I don't want to sound worried but it's ...
A. 27 June 2008: Yikes.. I've just been reading lots of things here that I totally sympathize with, one of them being your situation. When I found myself staring at my screen wanting to see my love show up online, not only did I realize how very much in love I was ... (read in full...)
I am obsessed with the girl my ex fiancee cheating on me with
Q. I found out my ex-fiance had slept with a co-worker behind my back. i posted a distressing agony on here. but the thing is i am obsessed with this girl. and i say girl becuase she was only 17. I just cant explain it, but im obsessed. i hate her and ...
A. 27 June 2008: Oh dear... your post is something I would have written not long ago. You have to stop looking at her things online, you're only hurting yourself every EVERY single time you do that. I know its hard not to do, but she was a MISTAKE you can't possibly ... (read in full...)
Why did I dream about sex with a girl? I'm straight!
Q. Okay so basically, I'm a straight 16-year-old girl. But last night, I had this dream where I was me trapped in a guy's body. Then this really beautiful girl walked over and made me lie on my back. Then she started touching all over my back. And then ...
A. 20 June 2008: Well, I have absolutely no clue as to the meaning of your dream, but that was bizarre!
However, you did mention that in the dream you were a guy, so its not like you're picturing yourself otherwise. Maybe you're just sexually frustrated ?
Who... (read in full...)
I drunkenly told her I liked her - How can I let her down easy?
Q. K, so I'm wondering what to do about a girl who totally won't get the hint. She ALWAYS wants me to call her, she wants to hang out everyday, the whole bit. We hooked up at a party a week ago, I was completely smashed, and while we were hooki...
A. 20 June 2008: I agree with Tremor- You should just tell her. On the other hand, you seem to care a bit for not wanting to hurt her feelings & let her go easy. Maybe you like her?
... Maybe you like the attention she gives you.... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love with an American Girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...
A. 1 June 2008: Ah... yes yes
I get it now :p tell you what, send me a private message here (oh man.. that's sounded wrong! it must not be my day) but I do have much more to say just not enough time for now.
But do keep in touch, okay?... (read in full...)
Unrequited Love with an American Girl!
Q. Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...
A. 1 June 2008: Well, the connection is there, right? Perhaps working on pursuing a more significant relation- even if it means a long distance one, would be the goal. You seem to be so preoccupied with all these reasons as to why you two wouldn't work, rather t... (read in full...)
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