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My boyfriend and I want to have a threesome - where do we find another girl?

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Question - (21 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid,

I want to have a threeway with my boyfriend and another girl. He has agreed, and we have discussed it quite a bit over the past few days. My only concern really is that he will like a girl that I'm not into. So my question is how do I go about it? My boyfriend has done a lot of reading on it as well and told me that I need to initiate it with the other girl so then she takes it seriously otherwise it seems as though he talked me into it. Where do I find a girl who would be into it?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2008):

I agree that hiring a call girl is the best option. Find one online or somewhere, don't just pick up drug addict on a street corner.

Either that or YOU should register on an adult dating website and advertise for one. I think you should try and find one in a city a fair distance from your own. That way it is guaranteed you aren't going to bump into her in a supermarket the next day. Make sure you are in charge of finding the girl, although involve your hubbie obviously. That way you know you are going to enjoy it.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008):

This is more of a statement rather than a direct reply: Ale - Hiii!!! I agree with your answer. This is obviously something they need to get out of their system. The way I see it, they are 'only' girl/ boyfriend so if the experience blows their relationship apart, then it is experience and a lesson learned. Maybe it will teach them to value more, the relationship they already have.

Anyway, good luck everyone!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008):

If you are gonna do this, hire a call girl.

This way she's only there because ou pay her to be and she'll form no attachments at all to either of you.

This way, there is no jealousy because you don't see her again after its all over.

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A female reader, °Ale° Colombia +, writes (21 July 2008):

°Ale° agony auntI want in!

..kidding. Are you absolutely sure you want to have this? it could really break your relationship and take you into a completely different level- if you even survive.

I strongly suggest you think it over & good luck :)

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