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Unrequited Love with an American Girl!

Q.   Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...

A.   1 June 2008: Ah... yes yes I get it now :p tell you what, send me a private message here (oh man.. that's sounded wrong! it must not be my day) but I do have much more to say just not enough time for now. But do keep in touch, okay?... (read in full...)

Unrequited Love with an American Girl!

Q.   Hi. I'm a 15 year old male from England. My Best Friend has a wide family. His Dad left for an American Girl and they ran away together to America to live happily ever after. Well, he has a Sister (she's not even his Sister, they just treat...

A.   1 June 2008: Well, the connection is there, right? Perhaps working on pursuing a more significant relation- even if it means a long distance one, would be the goal. You seem to be so preoccupied with all these reasons as to why you two wouldn't work, rather t... (read in full...)

He wont have sex with me should I seek it elsewhere?

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for a few years and we used to have sex a few days out the week if not everyday but now ill be lucky if i get it once a month sex or any type of affection and we have been arguing alot but still im not feeling loved im ...

A.   31 May 2008: Grrr! If you love the guy, then stick to him like glue and freaking work it out. Because if you don't, honey,you will regret it. But if you're not satisfied nor in love, keep on Moving!... (read in full...)

I cannot feel the threads on the IUS!

Q.   A girly topic here.. Has anybody had any probs with their IUS? This weak I cannot feel the threads, I know it is still there because I felt the very tip of one thread. I know there is no perforation, as I am not in agony. I do feel a ...

A.   21 May 2008: You need to go see your doctor- since you have to check every now and then to make sure the strings are straight and not in a knot. If you don't feel them then you need to see your doc. Are you sure you're checking the right way? Good luck... (read in full...)

I want him back, but it's up to him. Now I have some questions:

Q.   I've been posting about how my ex broke up with me because I lied about my past. People often reply that they have to know what I've lied about to help me. Here it goes, be prepared for it's long. Oh, something to keep in mind, I've always had ...

A.   19 May 2008: You owe me a cup of coffee!... (read in full...)

My mum wont let me become a vegan, please help.

Q.   I've been a vegetarian for 5 years (I didn't eat meat or fish) because I think it's cruel to animals. A few weeks ago, I decided to become a vegan. I asked my mom and she said she would think about it because she doesn't think it's healthy. Afte...

A.   18 May 2008: As much as I agree with the anonymous male reader, I got to say, they really can't force you to eat something that you don't want. You can still be a vegan and not spend tons of money on things that you can prepare at home. I suggest you do your... (read in full...)

Why the sudden loss of energy to have sex with me?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. We get on get and have talked about moving in together and booking a holiday in August. However the past four months he has gone off sex and we have not slept together. We still kiss, hug, cuddle etc ...

A.   18 May 2008: Hmmm... Is her schedule at work changed? Is there something in particular that he's doing now that he didn do before? Maybe he really is too tired to have sex. Another thing could be that if he's always the one that has to initiate everything and ... (read in full...)

Should I end my friendship with my ex to make my boyfriend feel more secure in our relationship?

Q.   I married my high school sweetheart before he deployed to Iraq. Predictably, our young age and the effects of him being at war destroyed our marriage. We ended up divorcing in 2006. Despite that, we still remain best friends. Now I'm a new relation...

A.   12 May 2008: You pretty much answered your own question already. Assuming you want what must of us do in a relationship, a man who can understand us & never leave us, then go for the one you know will give you just that- Jay. Or you could always keep wasting ... (read in full...)

When he hears your voice and instantly turns, is he interested?

Q.   when a guy hears your voice and he instantly turns around does that mean he is interested?...

A.   8 May 2008: haha... that's cute... (read in full...)

I don't know whether I should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy.

Q.   I'm in a relationship which has lasted a year and a half, suddenly i start texting this guy who's really really nice but i don't know whether i should throw everything away with my boyfriend to be with this other guy. I dont even know whether i stil...

A.   6 May 2008: I went through the same dilemma, and I ended up loosing the love of my life over a stupid crush. I strongly suggest you look very carefully into your relationship before you make any mistakes that you might regret later. Ale... (read in full...)

What am I doing wrong that I can't get a girlfriend?

Q.   Hi... I'm 20 almost 21 and and I have never had any girlfriend, nor have I kissed, hugged, touched hands... etc, etc... And it's driving me insane!... when i see the couples on the park i just turn around... I'm on med school, I speak 5 langua...

A.   5 May 2008: I could say something like: Oh you hang in there! the girl of your dreams will come to you, and all the waiting will be worth it. But then reality hits, if you're that GREAT of a catch, why aren't the chicks making a line outside your house? What... (read in full...)

I'm fifteen and want a baby with my boyfriend (16), should I wait?

Q.   Ok your gonna all think I'm absoultely crazy and some may tell me I need mental help but please tell me your thoughts about what I'm about to tell you ok. Ever since I was very young I've wanted a baby.I'm 15 years old now . I know I'm going t...

A.   26 March 2008: Of course you should wait! Things in real life aren't as peachy as you might seem them. For starters, you need to have both, financial and emotional stability. You can't possibly count on moving in with your parents and have your 16 year old bf ... (read in full...)

I'm fifteen and want a baby with my boyfriend (16), should I wait?

Q.   Ok your gonna all think I'm absoultely crazy and some may tell me I need mental help but please tell me your thoughts about what I'm about to tell you ok. Ever since I was very young I've wanted a baby.I'm 15 years old now . I know I'm going t...

A.   26 March 2008: Of course you should wait! Things in real life aren't as peachy as you might seem them. For starters, you need to have both, financial and emotional stability. You can't possibly count on moving in with your parents and have your 16 year old bf ... (read in full...)

What do I do If I love my girlfriend, but don't like to be seen with her?

Q.   I have been going out with my girl friend for sometime but the problem is that I love her alot but when I'm around other people I don't like to hold her hand, hug her or anything. I just don't like to be seen with her, although she is beautifu...

A.   25 March 2008: I personally don't think that "being mexican" or hispanic for that matter, has anything to do with being shy, and therefore not show any physical affection towards the person you love while in public. That would be something you'll have to work ... (read in full...)

Is it abnormal to prefer to find chat mates here rather than get to know people in real life?

Q.   Just wondering if there are some people to talk to on here. I need some friends, and maybe then I can think about other things. I don't know many people, and honestly, that is the way I prefer it. My question is this? Is this normal for someone ...

A.   24 March 2008: I wouldn't say that you're nerdy or weird. If you're able to make friends over the internet then you should be able to do the same in real life. If you can connect and have things in common with people here, what's the big difference on doing the ... (read in full...)

My husband wants a divorce and for us to go back to dating each other....

Q.   This is long...I have been married to my second husband for 3 years. Together a total of 5 years. He has never been married before. I have two teenagers from my previous marriage, they were 7 and 9 when we got together. About 4 months ago, I mo...

A.   24 March 2008: I agree, a person who truly loves you, would do anything and everything to be together. He sounds like he has been ready to move on with his life, not only that, he's been trying to find the perfect excuses to do so. I suggest you talk to him and ... (read in full...)

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