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How can I overcome my nerves?

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Question - (11 July 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, *hris for jodie writes:

im going on a date with my girlfriend this saturday and i really need help! im thinkng of kissing her . jus like a small kiss to show her that i love her but i am practically famous for my nerves and i need advice on what to do! someone plase help!

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A female reader, graciie; United Kingdom +, writes (12 July 2008):

have a wank before

its supposed to relax you

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A female reader, °Ale° Colombia +, writes (11 July 2008):

°Ale° agony auntAwww how cute...

Im not very sure what to tell you about the nerves. Just try to relax and and enjoy your time, things will go peachy :)

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (11 July 2008):

DoubleM agony auntI'm a much older and experienced man, but my best advice is simply to give her a hug as soon as you meet for the date - not a kiss yet - just a brief, friendly hug. Everyone loves a hug, and it is not overly forward of you. You MUST do this immediately as you approach with a big smile - like you are so glad to see her - and do it no matter what, dude!

Why? Because it breaks the ice, and at some point during your date, give her another hug or two, possibly adding a little kiss on her cheek or neck. You can use this approach throughout your life to "open the door" for more intimate experiences. But please, do NOT try to become sexual at your age. It would be more damaging to your life, and to your psyche, than you can possibly imagine at this point in your existence on Earth. Trust me. Best wishes.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008):

just relax.. if you're around your gf you should be comfortable.

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