Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?
Q. Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on ...
A. 30 January 2014: Two questions for you:
Do you trust him? Is he doing anything wrong (inappropriate)?
It's not his fault he's good looking and girls hit on him. As long as you trust him and he continues to behave appropriately then what's the problem?
If,... (read in full...)
Husband corresponding with his ex despite agreeing that he wouldn't. Need advice!
Q. I just found out that my husband is still corresponding with his ex. I feel so betrayed because I thought he finally understood how I felt about him talking to her and for the simple fact that he assured me that he wouldn't talk to her for respect ...
A. 29 January 2014: Remember that it's perfectly possible to be 100% platonic with an ex. They were likely good friends for quite awhile and that doesn't always end even though the romantic relationship does.
On the other hand, this is how cheating begins.
So, ... (read in full...)
How much value should I put on something my boyfriend said in his sleep?
Q. My boyfriend was mumbling in his sleep the other night and he said: "no I don't want to get engaged!" Now I know I'm probably being silly but do you think that's how he actually feels? Wish fulfilment and all that. He has expressed that w...
A. 29 January 2014: I don't understand how everyone is dismissing this. I've never in my life had an engagement dream, but I've sure as hell had anxiety dreams about real life situations.
That being said, him not wanting to get engaged doesn't mean he doesn't ... (read in full...)
How do I ask her out and what should I wear on the first date?
Q. This us a very short question. Okay I have been seen this girl for 1 month now he haven't met yet we speak everyday non stop, she's great a lovely caring girl I like her a lot, I am going to ask her out in person when we meet. What do I wear and how ...
A. 29 January 2014: Asking a girl out is a piece of cake bit it's different for every girl. For the most part you simply ask them to come out with you on this date and time.
Wear a tuxedo. ... (read in full...)
I know I'm just being jealous and my friend is just having fun but I feel like I'm being cheated
Q. Last night my friend and I went out on the town, I dressed up, put on a nice dress, did my makeup properly and for once made an effort. My friend came out in jeans and a t-shirt. She's put her boyfriend back in the dating zone (he still loves ...
A. 29 January 2014: Time for new friends. Whether she's the problem or you are doesn't matter, you're not compatible friends any more.
I think she doesn't sound like a person I'd like to be friends with tbh with you. ... (read in full...)
Found out that my ex had been cheating on me almost the whole time
Q. I have just found out that my ex partner has been cheating on me with his best freinds wife I have found sext messages on his phone he Denys it we were together for 5 years but broke up awhile ago this is the second partner I have had that's ...
A. 29 January 2014: He's just a jerk, c'mon his best friend's wife?
Don't shed a tear over this guy. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend never initiates sex!
Q. Dear agony aunts and uncles I am having a slight problem with my bf he never initiates sex. We have been together for almost a year and I can remember only about five times when he has and we have sex at least four times a month I asked him why ...
A. 28 January 2014: It may work, but it probably means you'll have to wait even longer for sex. The truth is likely that you do have a higher sex drive than him and that will very likely never change.
There is a slight chance he's bored, but given how little t... (read in full...)
We are back together but nothing has changed!
Q. Well I'm back again for more advice. I got back together with my ex, it's been about 6 months or more now. While I think he is a good dad and a great provider. I can't seem to get the feelings back for him. We have undergone counseling and ...
A. 27 January 2014: Why would it get better? If all he does is eat and watch TV I'd leave and find yourself someone that knows how to properly live life.
Not to mention, he couldn't be that good of a dad if his focus is on tv and not you and the children. ... (read in full...)
Should I keep on pursuing her and what can I do to make things in forward direction ?
Q. Hello cupid I have been pursuing a girl for three months and I seem to like her. I have started to see a pattern where I have to always initiate the conversation and when I do, we seem to talk for quite a long time (in person or text)! If I don't,...
A. 26 January 2014: It doesn't sound like you're pursuing her at all, just friend zoning yourself. If you like a girl don't let things be stagnant, move them forward. The longer you wait the more likely another guy will come along or she'll lose interest.
How y... (read in full...)
Why do I feel bad for having these feelings for him?
Q. I think I'm in love and I hate myself for it! For the past about 18 months a guy has been trying to pursue me romantically despite the fact I had a boyfriend. His family own a numerous businesses where I live, including the one I work at so I see...
A. 25 January 2014: Guys know what to say to get laid (or whatever he wants), but when he gets it he'll be an asshole to you too.
I suspect you feel guilty for liking an asshole. I used to hate this girl who I didn't know very well. Eventually we were in close qu... (read in full...)
How to friendzone a hookup?
Q. I met this guy at a party last semester and we really hit it off!!! we hung out a few times and ended up having sex twice... unfortunatly the sex was terrible and his pen15 was ridiculously small... it makes me really sad to say but it kinda ruined ...
A. 25 January 2014: Yeah definitely don't tell him his dick is too small to satisfy you. That's a good way to ruin a guy's self esteem for a few decades.
I'm guessing he won't be interested in friendship. If he's like most guys, the only reason they want female f... (read in full...)
My ex still contacts me and it's hard to move on
Q. My ex and I broke up a year ago. Months we wouldn't talk and others we would. He always initiated contact, I never did. Last year for around 1 month we started hanging out. Somehow we knew that all we were doing was just having sex. However, I still ...
A. 25 January 2014: I feel like you have a good handle on what's going on and, for the most part, are behaving appropriately.
The only thing I would suggest is making sure you've really told him what's going on: that you still have feelings for him and aren't i... (read in full...)
Why do men cheat?
Q. Why do men cheat?? Ive had thought my partner of 4 yrs was cheating on me ... in November he moved away 50miles to work saying he qohld come bk every weekend. Well he sumtimes came bk bit also only for a day or one nite ans half the day I kept ...
A. 24 January 2014: I don't think saying "it's nothing you did" is always correct. Usually it has nothing to do with you, but people will cheat if they feel unloved, lonely, if you don't sleep with them often enough, etc. There are plenty of things that can drive ... (read in full...)
Should I jump on my ex about liking his ex's posts? Whats the mature thing to do?
Q. My child's father and I are working on getting along and being friends and possibly a couple again.. I saw that he has been liking his ex girl friends post a lot.. Should I approach him about it and cut off our plans to work on us or should I keep a ...
A. 23 January 2014: If you are already pissed at him for being himself, maybe you should re-think your possible reunion.
Just remember that you're not in a committed relationship with him and these are simply Facebook likes we're talking about. ... (read in full...)
I feel insecure. What does he see in me? I'm so different from his ex!
Q. Been together with my boyfriend for 3 years, I love him to bits but one thing makes me feel insecure and i'm honestly not sure why, was hoping for anyone's thoughts on this. His ex who is mother of his children, so he obviously loved her at some ...
A. 23 January 2014: FYI many people are good at hiding their true selves until after you develop feelings for them. If the relationship started with them being terrible people it probably wouldn't get too far, would it?
Regarding her looks, maybe she is is "type", ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my guy that I slept with a friend while we were broken up?
Q. I'm in a messed up situation that I can't see out without losing my boyfriend who I have been with for three years. Basically, last September I had a miscarriage during my 9th week of pregnancy. We had only known for 2 weeks when I lost our baby...
A. 23 January 2014: I wouldn't tell him, unless for some reason you feel you can't move on unless you do.
The reality is that it shouldn't be relevant- you were broken up. So confessing you slept with someone then is the same as confessing you slept with someone ... (read in full...)
Do I choose my husband or my boyfriend?
Q. I need advice very badly. I'm in a predicament I never thought I would find myself in though I have seen it on the site before. I am having to choose between two men. Each have their strengths and weaknesses. One is my husband, not what you think or ...
A. 23 January 2014: You and your husband didn't work out for a reason. No use taking a step backwards because what made you unhappy will always make you unhappy.
Why don't you work on the sex part with your bf? ... (read in full...)
How long is it reasonable for him to keep his profile up on the dating site?
Q. I met this guy on an online dating site. We have hit it off very well. We talk on the phone everyday and make time to hangout with each other once or twice week because of our busy schedules. He's talked about inviting to his baseball games a...
A. 22 January 2014: Yeah, there's no reason for him to take it down until you guys have a committed relationship.
If you feel he just has to take it down because it bugs you too much, then go ahead and tell him. But don't be surprised if that bugs him. ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend talks about new sex positions that remind me that she cheated on me
Q. My girlfriend of two years did the unforgivable sin of cheating on me with my enemy, and dating him in fact. After lots of pleas, I forgave her and tried to look past it Now the problem is, since after the incident, she doesn't have sex with me...
A. 22 January 2014: This is a deal breaker, plain and simple. How could you ever move on from this?
Find someone else, there are a ton of women out there. ... (read in full...)
Do girls do this if they are interested?
Q. why do girls do this? I went on a date with a girl last night and she was on her phone for the momst of the time and talking about other guys that are interested in her, talking about previous love interests, and acting cold. she even invited ...
A. 22 January 2014: There's no way to know why other people do everything they do. I'd file this one into "who cares" and sever contact with her. This is a no brainer.
If that's not enough for you then, no, it doesn't sound like she's interested, but again, who know... (read in full...)
A crush slept with me and used me as a rebound after breaking up with his girlfriend!
Q. So I did a stupid thing the other night and slept with an old co-worker of mine. We stopped working together June 2013 and had talked/hung out very little since then. Well last Sunday night he text me to go out to a bar we use to hang out at. I ...
A. 21 January 2014: No offense, but you don't really have the ability to be picky about emotional details of a drunk one night stand.
Had you spent time getting to know where his head was at that'd be different. I'm sure he didn't lie to you either, he just wanted t... (read in full...)
Little contact from my boyfriend while he's on vacation. Should I be concerned?
Q. My boyfriend of a year has been on vacation for a month in another country ( visiting family). I went for ten days but now I've been home for 11 days and he has called me just once. I sent a two messages on FB and he did reply both times but very ...
A. 21 January 2014: By concerned are you referencing cheating? If so I wouldn't worry about that, they're completely unrelated.
He probably doesn't feel like conversing, I'm that way sometimes too, especially on vacation. ... (read in full...)
Should I continue to reach out to this woman who doesn't appreciate anything I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I have my own apartment and I am disabled and where I live there are people who are seniors and that are mentally ill. We are aloud to have pets which is nice. But one day I noticed some stray cats outside and I didn't know that the...
A. 21 January 2014: If she's not a friend, why bother reaching out? ... (read in full...)
Does he like me? Should I pursue a friendship or just leave it?
Q. Basically, I met this guy in church along with his sister. He was really friendly, even though I was shy and awkward, and tried to start a conversation. He even introduced one of his friends to me and invited me to the youth church. On the days when ...
A. 21 January 2014: Maybe he does but you have to give him signals. "The bored look" isn't very encouraging. You could even ask if he'd like to go out sometime... I don't remember what kids your age do... the worst that would happen is he'd say no. It's not a big deal ... (read in full...)
Do you think I've been used and he's just playing me along?
Q. So a few weeks ago I met a guy out on a night out, and we hit it off quite well! (he's related to an acquaintance of mine). We kept bumping into eachother on nights out and eventually exchanged numbers. We were on and off texting for a few weeks and ...
A. 21 January 2014: Wait longer than a day and you'll find out! There's no use speculating when the truth is all that matters. ... (read in full...)
Why is he treating her better?
Q. Me and my ex split up last year and stopped talking then I decided to get back in touch with him. WWe were speaking and seein eachother now and again. Nothing had changed it was just like how things used to be when we were a couple. I then kept ...
A. 21 January 2014: If there is one thing people do on Facebook, it's make their life seem better than it really is. Stop assuming something you couldn't possibly know and you'll be okay. ... (read in full...)
This habit is killing me from the inside!
Q. hello .. i am 21 and a virgin... my problem is that though i do gymming and practice yoga at times .. i have a bad habit of masturbating on every alternating days. i don't have any girlfriend . i watch too much of porn and i can't stop myself from ...
A. 21 January 2014: If masturbating and watching porn are killing you then stop masturbating and watching porn. It's not that hard to do, it just requires some self control.
Maybe it'll help you get a girl because you'll be more motivated to get out there and make... (read in full...)
No birthday gift from him! I'm feeling hurt!
Q. Hi, I recently had my birthday and I received nothing from my boyfriend and it really hurt my feelings. A while back he asked me what I wanted for my birthday and I said that I really don't want him to spend his money on me. he said that he wou...
A. 20 January 2014: Well, this is who your boyfriend is. I agree it was insensitive to say the least, so you can add it to the list of things you don't like about him and move on. There's not really a wrong or right here, it just is what it is. He's insensitive. ... (read in full...)
Is it too late for me?
Q. Going through the site, I see people talking about sex, relationships like it's some kind of everyday thing. It's pretty difficult not to cry trying to write this out, how is it just happening for everyone else, but for me, I've never dated, had a ...
A. 20 January 2014: It sounds to me like your strategy is "befriend a girl so she can see what a nice guy I am, then she'll surely want to date me."
Befriend a girl who you want to be friends with. Ask a girl out who you want to date. If a friendship turns into som... (read in full...)
I feel neglected in this "unofficial" LDR
Q. This unofficial relationship is driving me crazy! Here it goes, the guy and I live 4 1/2 hours away from each other. We divided soon, we want to get serious. I had sex with a man while we weren't really "talking" and he got upset. We promised after ...
A. 20 January 2014: Dump him and find someone who will give you what you want. Whatever you guys have going on is not working. ... (read in full...)
Tired of my boyfriend's crap!
Q. Not sure where else to post this but hoping for some advice. My boyfriend, who is 34, and I have been living together for 3 years and I have asked him to clean up after himself in the bathroom many times. Specifically, he sits on the toilet in su...
A. 19 January 2014: This, to me, is as big of a deal breaker as cheating. ... (read in full...)
Why would my Facebook friend make this comment?
Q. I am in my 40s and the question I want to ask is not actually a love question but I am querying a comment someone put to me on facebook. A friend posted about cheap travel on facebook and I replied about how cheaply I had travelled as wel...
A. 19 January 2014: Your reaction to their comment seems odder than the comment itself. It was simply conversation. ... (read in full...)
Unplanned pregnancy after 1 month of dating and my baby's father isn't staying in regular contact with me!
Q. I am a 28 years old and pregnant for the first time. The pregnany was unplanned and came as a shock as it happened exactly after a month that me and this guy had started dating. I was living in a muslim country and since I was unmarried I had ...
A. 19 January 2014: Your entire problem stems from your lofty expectations from a guy you don't know. You're not dating him. If you want money ask for it. If you need something ask him. Don't expect him to do anything because he doesn't seem interested.
In all hone... (read in full...)
I stood him up twice due to anxiety and now I don't know how to fix things
Q. I was supposed to go on a date with this absolutely amazing guy and I told him I couldn't make it... This was only because I suffer from anxiety issues and the thought of going on a dare with him prettified me. I know I'm always ok once I'm on the ...
A. 19 January 2014: Work on fixing yourself or you'll be dealing with this for the rest of your life.
In the meantime it wouldn't hurt to tell him the truth. I'm guessing he has given up, but that's not guaranteed.
Maybe you should agree to a date that starts... (read in full...)
Oral sex doesn't make him hard?
Q. why cant my man get hard even when he is down eating me ?...
A. 19 January 2014: I don't either anymore. How about you return the favor? ... (read in full...)
She has a boyfriend but tells me her relationship is falling apart! Should I make a move?
Q. Hi! A year ago I posted here with regards to the break-up from hell. Well, I can safely say 12 months later that's all in the past Moved on with my life and it's all going well. So there's this new girl. Problem is... she has a boyfriend. Yep, ...
A. 18 January 2014: It's always a grest idea to begin a relationship with someone who's cheating on their significant other.... ... (read in full...)
She told me she didn't want a serious relationship, then turned around and started dating someone else!
Q. So this girl was dating for a few months ended things with me over Christmas. She at least seemed to be a really down to earth and nice girl but broke up with me after SHE missed one of our dates. So a few days we talk and i tell her that i'm...
A. 18 January 2014: Just because you may be better looking doesn't mean the two of you are relationship material.
What she told you was pretty much the truth: she wasn't looking for a relationship WITH YOU. Don't be offended, you guys just weren't compatib... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to hope that maybe a couple of years down the line my ex and I might rekindle our relationship once we are both out of university and he has matured?
Q. Hi, I've just recently gone through a break up with my boyfriend of almost 2years. It was pretty much a mutual thing and we ended on good terms, neither of us really wanted to end it as such its just that we have been going long distance since we ...
A. 17 January 2014: Stupid is a strong word, but I don't think it's realistic... He will probably be that way forever. ... (read in full...)
Has anybody else's relationship become stronger after a cheating episode?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half - we talk of marriage and babies and make future plans. I even had a pregnancy scare and he reassured me by saying that (while it wasn't the best time) we would be fine if we had a baby and ...
A. 16 January 2014: I've had this happen... It can make you realize things that you didn't notice before. ... (read in full...)
I want to win my ex fiance back
Q. This is long...been in a relationship with this guy for the past 4 years but we broke up 8 months ago. We also were engaged. We have had alot of ups and downs and hurdles. Now as soon as we were about to work on trying back again I had a ...
A. 16 January 2014: How good could things have been if it only took some pms for him to run off with someone else?
I'm asking because you may be a little heart broken, but that shouldn't keep you from being rational. Are you sure he's the right guy for you?
If s... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my girlfriend and hope things get better, or leave her for a girl who may leave me for a girl when she decides I'm just a phase?
Q. im currently in a relationship with a girl and ive been with her for five years, i loved her in the beginning and i still care for her but im finding it hard to say to myself that i still love her and for the last year ive felt less intrested in ...
A. 16 January 2014: Don't use your gf as a crutch until you find something better. That's very disrespectful.
If you want to dump her, do it regardless of whether or not there's someone else in the picture. ... (read in full...)
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