Having doubts about starting a relationship with this woman. Am I being too sensitive?
Q. Hello, I have recently met a girl who is very keen on having a relationship with me, it has only been 2 months since we met and I want us to take our time to get to know one another better. She doesn't want to wait and keeps on rushing me. Afte...
A. 11 May 2014: Thanks for the update ... (read in full...)
Does asking for pictures make him a bad guy?
Q. I can't believe it has come to this again. Last week a met this guy through Uni and instantly started messaging me on Facebook once he tracked me down. And has not stopped since. He was shaping into such a nice guy, even invited me out for ...
A. 19 February 2014: I don't think it guarantees anything, but it's something to be aware of. Wait a little to sleep with him and see if he's still interested. ... (read in full...)
I just met this guy a week ago and already we fight all the time!
Q. hi everyone. I just met this guy its been a week now, my problem I just don't understand him at all. we suppose to be happy but to my surprise we fight all the time. when we have to see each it must be on the street because where he stays he was ...
A. 18 February 2014: Dating means spending time with someone until you realize one of two things:
That you want to marry them or that they aren't right for you. Any other option seems like a waste of time to me... life is too short to date the wrong people.
So w... (read in full...)
I feel stuck and I would very much like your advice on how I can improve the quality of my life?
Q. I don't know where to begin. I feel empty inside. I don't have any friends and I've only been with a girl for like a month back when I was a freshman in college. Back when I was younger(I am 25 now), I use to blame all my problems on my identity as ...
A. 18 February 2014: Go to counseling and work on your social anxiety. I don't know where you're from, but if you genuinely think you have to worry about standing out you may live in the wrong place. ... (read in full...)
How do I work my nurse's uniform for my boyfriend?
Q. My boyfriend has mentioned few months earlier that he like me in a nurses uniform...I have bought one as a special surprise for h..but I worried to how should I preform when I have it on .,,help...
A. 18 February 2014: That's a question better suited for him. Does he like role play or does he just like costumes?
Also I hope it's a sexy nurse uniform because real ones are anything but. ... (read in full...)
Do I keep blocking him or unblock him? I think how I've moved on is the best revenge?
Q. I had a few posts here and got really good advice. My ex dumped me nearly a year ago. We talked a few times. I initiated contact most of the times. I couldn't let go and get over him because we planned to get married before we broke up and he's my ...
A. 18 February 2014: Revenge shouldn't even be on your mind if you want to move on. Just go about making your life as good as you can. ... (read in full...)
He said he doesn't believe in Valentines -- should I be hurt?
Q. My boyfriend of only a few month. Didnt see me on valentines day. And didnt get me a card or present. When i asked about it? He just said he didnt believe in all that none sense. I'm a little bit hurt about it but not sure whether i'm being over ...
A. 16 February 2014: Valentine's day is a sham. However if he's not the romantic type and you are then you're in for a lot of complaining. I think that's a deal breaker. ... (read in full...)
Does my husband's odd behaviour mean he's cheating or am I being paranoid?
Q. Is my husband cheating? I woke up this morning to him throwing on clothes in a hurry. I asked him what he was doing. He at first didn't reply and then said he was going to the grocery store and would be back in an hour. Before I could even get out ...
A. 16 February 2014: No you're not being paranoid, you should demand answers and pay attention to the way he answers.
His behavior doesn't necessarily imply he's cheating either. ... (read in full...)
.Women I am attracted to run when they learn I am also involved with a man
Q. Hey everyone... I'm having some struggles with my sexuality/sexual identity. I am a female, and I am in love with a man. We plan on getting married, we are both very attracted to one another and we're super happy. The thing is, I am also very att...
A. 15 February 2014: I say do whatever you want as long as it doesn't hurt anyone. If your bf is cool that you want to date other people why wouldn't you. Although you should share, that's only fair.
However, by not telling the truth about your relationship status y... (read in full...)
How can I be intimate with my fiancé without upsetting my daughter? She hears us despite us being quiet.
Q. Ok, need help on this one! This is sort of embarrasing but I need someone to tell me what I should do. I have 3 children from my last marriage. I am widowed. I finally meet a wonderful man, and we are engaged to be married in July. I have a cape c...
A. 15 February 2014: I have a couple of ideas: add sound deadening material to her ceiling or get her a pair of in ear headphones and tell her that sex is perfectly natural but you completely understand that she doesn't want to hear it.
When I was a kid I occasion... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid or could he be cheating?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and have lived together for 8 months. Recently, I've started to feel a bit paranoid that he might be cheating. I noticed he was getting emails from a swingers website about parties and ...
A. 15 February 2014: I think you're being paranoid. ... (read in full...)
My sister is using funerals as a way to pick up guys??
Q. I'm concerned about my older sister, recently we've attended two funerals (neither individual knew the other, one was a business colleague of my Dad's, one was a neighbor killed in a car crash). I'm 19, my sister's 24, and single. It's her attitude...
A. 13 February 2014: For some people, funerals are one of the only places they get to meet a lot of new people, so it's not surprising that, just like weddings, people end up hooking up.
If your bothered by the fact that it's a funeral then don't go picking up guys ... (read in full...)
Why is it okay to criticize big boobs?
Q. Every time there is a question about small breasts, I've noticed a lot of people take it upon themselves to criticise big breasts and call them 'ugly' and 'saggy' it's really insensitive, and quite offensive. The latest question I'm referring to is ...
A. 13 February 2014: Because the truth is that men prefer them so they feel less guilty about trash talking them if it makes someone with small boobs feel better. That doesn't make it okay though. ... (read in full...)
Does this mean he's losing interest?
Q. hello im a 36 year old female in a long distance relationship. i really love him and he says he loves me too but, lately i have had some strange feelings. we use to talk every day now we really dont. he use to call me two and three times a day now, ...
A. 12 February 2014: LDR's suck, so yeah he's losing interest. It's hard to maintain things when there's not a physical presence. Tell him that unless he gets a solid plan to come to you then you're done. Because YES you're certainly wasting your time right now.
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Are there guys out there that will look past my body and like me for who I am?
Q. This is a really hard question to ask because I'm fairly certain of the answer, but I was wondering if I will ever find some one because of my size. I'm very small for my age (18), I look much younger I'm very thin. Are there guys out there that ...
A. 12 February 2014: There's very rarely someone so physically off putting that NO ONE would want to be with them. Especially if you're hygienic and take care of yourself.
A lot of guys like smaller women. It makes them feel more masculine. Gay men are the ones who... (read in full...)
How to make sex feel good?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had sex a handful of times and we just can't seem to figure it out (until recently we were both virgins). We are attracted to each other and we have no trouble with the mechanics of sex, but it feels kind of meh for both of ...
A. 11 February 2014: Why don't you play a game where you take turns telling each other what you want them to do. Lick here, touch there, do it this way, etc.
If you're willing to learn you'll be fine.
There are lots of techniques you can find online to try ou... (read in full...)
My crush is sending mixed messages!
Q. Hi thanks for taking your time to answer this. I currently have a crush on one of my new friends here in college. He's just my type of guy which is rare at my college, we get along really well too. Last trimester we had a few classes to...
A. 11 February 2014: It's going to be awhile before the skies part and the sun shines down on him, so you're going to have to proceed without definitive proof.
Just ask him out. It won't hurt. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 10 February 2014: I think you're not getting a lot of people blaming your boyfriend because it's totally obvious that he's done something wrong and it doesn't really need to be said because he's not here asking for advice.
You also keep stating that he's the one ... (read in full...)
Is the "hidden menu" on his phone a sign that he's hiding porn use?
Q. I have noticed my mans phone has this sprint hidden menue. what exactly is that? is it a way to hide things from me like porn? we have had serious issues in the past. he is trying to over come an addiction....
A. 9 February 2014: Maybe he's not the right guy for you? ... (read in full...)
Cheating and lying partners...
Q. Ive had a girlfriend for 4 and a half years. I met her on an online chatroom , which i was initially dubious about. We started dating and i feel deeply in love with her. After around 3 months i started to have a gut feeling that she was not being ...
A. 9 February 2014: Make this all worth it and learn a lesson from your mistakes.
First things first, when you accuse someone of cheating and they cry, no matter what words come out of their mouth, they're guilty.
Second, "Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twi... (read in full...)
You wouldn't leave if you were in love, right?
Q. Idk if he loves me. Lots of points please listen and please help me. First during are 15 years he left me 3 times says he had good reasons now i dont think guys people leave the ones they love unless they dont love them. In serious cases like abuse ...
A. 9 February 2014: I've left people I love because they had some issues that I considered deal breakers.
Anyone that makes you feel worthless is not worthy of your love. I think you crave his approval and you're never going to get it. Please move on. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 8 February 2014: You apparently didn't get the gist of my answer because your "rebuttal", if you want to call it that, didn't address my point: that you don't know him as well as you think.
I'm not saying you have no reason to be wondering why he hasn't called, ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has disappeared and I am very worried.
Q. Hello, I am having a difficult time and I need some advice. First, I have been in a relationship with someone and it hasn't been long, only two months. We got along great and talked all the time for hours. We have always been able to work out any ...
A. 7 February 2014: I thought you said you wanted to take things slower? Falling in love with someone you've never met and only known two months isn't taking things slow.
To each his/her own, but I say this because I think you're overreacting. At this point you don'... (read in full...)
My roommate crushed my self-esteem because he picked her over me!
Q. I came to London to study a short course. I found a roommate (flatmate as they call them here) for a month out of the three months I'll be here and found him extremely attractive. We chatted a lot before I moved in and it became something a bit ...
A. 7 February 2014: Remember that you're not a perfect fit for everyone... It has nothing to do with your looks or personality being sub par. Some people just want particular traits in their mates.
I would never date a smoker. Doesn't mean she's ugly/fat... (read in full...)
He turned me down for a date so what is with his new attitude toward me?
Q. I asked a guy out a while back and he politely declined me, so I kind of accepted it and got on with things. I still liked him, but I'd understood that he didn't feel the same way, so I never mentioned it again. About two weeks ago, though, his atti...
A. 7 February 2014: It's possible he said no because he was nervous. Now he likes knowing that you like him but doesn't know how to accept your request after the fact.
Maybe you should ask him why he's been doing these things? ... (read in full...)
I caught him twice being naughty on the internet, talking to girls about their bodies. He promised to stop the first time but did it again!
Q. I found my boyfriend was talking to girls on the internet. Telling them they were sexy and complimenting them about their body's, I think he was trying to meet one of them. But he said he never would have. I found out the first time and told him to ...
A. 6 February 2014: Whether or not it can be forgiven is up to you.
The truth is, that's the type of guy he is. It wasn't a "mistake". Can you live with that? I doubt it, which is why you've pulled away from him. You realized he's not who you thought he was and pull... (read in full...)
The only problem is that he never wants to remarry or have children with me, it's tearing me apart. Advice?
Q. I feel like there is no hope for my relationship even though my boyfriend has never cheated, lied or hurt me. I love him, and I have never thought of anyone else since I met him. I honestly see no one else as my future but him. The only problem ...
A. 5 February 2014: You say you don't know what to think or do... unfortunately that's not true, you know, you just don't want to admit it.
The bottom line is that you'll never be satisfied with no children of your own. And, as much as you don't want to think ab... (read in full...)
Did she cheat?
Q. My girlfriend and i have been together 6 months and are in love. She travels for her job and i've sacrificed a lot because of this. Currently she is across the country for 3 months. She recently went on a weekend trip w friends. It was a few girls ...
A. 4 February 2014: Well I wasn't there so I can't tell you for sure, but it sounds like she definitely put herself in a situation where it could have happened. Avoiding these situations is critical if you're to remain faithful, especially when drinking.
The f... (read in full...)
Find it hard to not get friendzoned by men. What am I doing wrong?
Q. Question for the Men on this site! Now this might sound a little bit weird and a little bit silly, but I am thinking in the next couple of years I might like a boyfriend. I have had previous boyfrie...
A. 4 February 2014: I doubt you're doing anything wrong. At your age many guys are intimidated by girls, even if they are attracted to them.
It is important to express interest. If you like a guy and suspect he likes you, do things that make it clear that you like... (read in full...)
Why was it so easy for him to move on? He dumped me a year ago and I'm not over him.
Q. My ex dumped me almost a year ago. I'm still not over him. I know I was the one being rejected so it takes a longer time for me to move on. He started dating again 3 months ago. I was sad and jealous to learn that he's with someone else. He...
A. 2 February 2014: It sounds to me like you're putting a lot of words into his mouth. The truth is, you really have no idea how he feels.
That being said, you two have been broken up for a long time. Time to stop thinking about him and move on. ... (read in full...)
I am my boyfriend's last priority when wer're around his family and friends. I feel as though he doesn't care. Please advise.
Q. I feel like a third wheel in my own relationship. Whenever my other half (of six years) is around his family or his friends I very quickly become last priority. I could be left there alone at a table without him speaking to me for ages, and occa...
A. 2 February 2014: I have to say that it sounds like you're not being very understanding, being a little needy, and possibly being a little anti social.
Although your boyfriend has an obligation to help you feel comfortable in general, when you're at a gatherin... (read in full...)
He seemed genuine in his texts but when we met up he only wanted one thing!
Q. Hello, so confused. I've been talking to this guy for about a week, the conversation was going good andhe kept asking if we could meet up normally I dont meet them straight away I l like to talk to them for a couple of weeks first. However he seeme...
A. 1 February 2014: Do you realize that texts aren't capable of transmitting emotions? Only words.
It's so easy to tell a girl what she wants to hear via text because she can't see that you actually don't care about anything but sex.
FYI, if you meet a guy for t... (read in full...)
I love being girlfriend-like and am interested in more than one person, though I am in a relationship. Is this Normal?
Q. I've dated a few guys seriously. Each relationship getting better and better. But it seems the past 2 breakups have been from my own issues (either I grew out of the relationship or we didn't feel like it was the right time for us, blah blah). My...
A. 1 February 2014: Why don't you ask your bf? Maybe he's okay with you having feelings with more than just him. How would you feel if he had feelings for someone else? I think if you're both okay with it it could be very satisfying, yet you'd likely not feel very ... (read in full...)
He pulled away after sex? Why?
Q. I got chatting to this guy online but during that I was also dating another man, so the other man was still the focus of my attention, I ended up ignoring the online guy and he left me alone. Weeks later I regretted ignoring him and thought abou...
A. 1 February 2014: He didn't use you, he just didn't want the same thing as you.
In the future, to avoid this from happening again, you should wait to have sex until the guy's actions signify his intentions. Talk is cheap!
... (read in full...)
Girlfriend keeps pressuring me to perform oral and I hate it.
Q. I don't know how to say all this without coming out like an asshole but please hear me out. My girlfriend keeps pressuring me to go down on her because she goes down on me but I really don't want to. I've tried it before with several girls ...
A. 31 January 2014: You guys are totally sexually incompatible. Time to move on.
My opinion is that you actually should push yourself sexually... If my wife wanted me to do something I wasn't comfortable with I'd just give it a shot knowing that it'd make her happ... (read in full...)
Having doubts about starting a relationship with this woman. Am I being too sensitive?
Q. Hello, I have recently met a girl who is very keen on having a relationship with me, it has only been 2 months since we met and I want us to take our time to get to know one another better. She doesn't want to wait and keeps on rushing me. Afte...
A. 31 January 2014: I'd run for the hills, the warning signs are all around you. ... (read in full...)
Ashamed I wasted 18 months with someone who puts me down
Q. Yet again my boyfriend of 18 months has ruined another special occasion. Yesterday I left work early and made a real effort to make his birthday special. I bought him lovely gifts, dressed up and booked a table at his favourite restaurant. We w...
A. 31 January 2014: It's hard to leave someone you care about. For you and just about everyone else. What separates you from a lot of people is that you actually did it instead of wishing you could.
Learn from this experience and it'll all be worth it. ... (read in full...)
Is he really interested or just after a booty call?
Q. Hey there, So basically I was at a huge law firm lecture and an ex pupil of my university was there, I've never met him before but he came straight over, introduced himself and started to chat. When we went into the lecture he said to his friend I...
A. 31 January 2014: There's no way to know what he's after until you take it further. It could be either at this point.
Most men will take a woman out and attempt to sleep with them after only one or two dates. This doesn't mean they don't like you. But if you slee... (read in full...)
Is the guy I'm dating a sex addict?
Q. I am concerned that the guy I met online and I am currently dating is possibly a sex addict! I've ignored some obscenities and red flags but now I am confused!!! I like him very much but I can't help but to be concerned with his preoccupation with ...
A. 31 January 2014: You sound way too smart to be dating this guy. He may genuinely like you, but the incompatibility is clear as day.
I'm by no means uptight but if I met a woman who acted even remotely like him I would run far away unless I was only interest... (read in full...)
Am I being paranoid about my boyfriend adding a woman on Facebook?
Q. I'm so upset. I noticed that my boyfriend has added a woman on his Facebook page. She lives in another country. There are photos on there of her dressed in revealing clothes. The clothes aren't revealing on all the photos, but she is dressed up on ...
A. 31 January 2014: I don't think he's up to no good because she might not even be a real person. I get requests from women in revealing clothes with no real friends, just pervy guys asking for their phone number or telling them they're beautiful. I don't know what ... (read in full...)
I'm not so interested in sex and I'm afraid my boyfriends desires will lead him to cheat
Q. Hiya aunts and uncles, my fiancé of 4 months and dating for 3 years has been talking in his sleep and has expressed the same concerns in his waking hours. He is 26 and im 23 on valentines day. well, its like this: he doesn't feel like we are inti...
A. 30 January 2014: My opinion is that if you forbid him to watch porn and are not sexually satisfying him that at some point he'll either leave you or cheat on you.
I am not a habitual cheater but I've been in a similar situation and the frustration was unbearab... (read in full...)
Facebook is causing problems in my relationship, what should I do?
Q. Through out the years, I have had a lot of bad experiences with Facebook so I deleted mine a long time ago. My boyfriend has been using his again lately. The reason this upsets me is because he has been talking to some of his female friends on ...
A. 30 January 2014: Two questions for you:
Do you trust him? Is he doing anything wrong (inappropriate)?
It's not his fault he's good looking and girls hit on him. As long as you trust him and he continues to behave appropriately then what's the problem?
If,... (read in full...)
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