Will she give me another chance after calling her bad names for going out with other guys
Q. we met on zoosk and it was fantasic we hit it off TOO WELL and talked for 5 hour a day she called me in the morning and at work and we talked all night. we wanted to wait to have sex but didn't so the 2nd date we ended up in bed... so i went home ...
A. 21 March 2014: The way I look at rejection is that they're not rejecting me necessarily, there's not something wrong with me, we're just not compatible. You can be the most amazing guy in the world and some women won't like you. Either because they're lesbians or ... (read in full...)
Will she give me another chance after calling her bad names for going out with other guys
Q. we met on zoosk and it was fantasic we hit it off TOO WELL and talked for 5 hour a day she called me in the morning and at work and we talked all night. we wanted to wait to have sex but didn't so the 2nd date we ended up in bed... so i went home ...
A. 21 March 2014: If not hearing from this loose cannon is making you crazy you were probably crazy to begin with.
You guys are perfect for each other I suspect, some people just like drama. I don't know if she'll contact you but you can keep trying. ... (read in full...)
This guy is a scum. Do I tell his gf?
Q. My ex dumped me about a year ago. We had been together for 4 years, including 2 years LDR. We planned to get married, but he broke up with me 2 months before we could finally see each other. He thought I was too clingy. He cheated on me twice before ...
A. 21 March 2014: Sure, tell her if you want to be the "psycho ex girlfriend". There's no way she'll believe you over him.
Besides, your relationship was complicated, maybe there's is simpler and they're happy together.
Just because he contacted you af... (read in full...)
Why does my husband call me names and threaten me and then apologize?
Q. My husband is in jail for domestic violence and going to get deported. When I visit him he calls me names and threatens me and makes comments about other women in the room to try and make me feel jealous. After the visit he will call me and ...
A. 21 March 2014: Because he's crazy. If I was you I'd stop visiting him and move on with your life.
Good luck! ... (read in full...)
He stopped talking about this female coworker, what does this mean?
Q. Ever since my husband had learned his younger female coworker was getting a divorce, it was non-stop talk about her for a good year and a half. I would hear she is attractive, why would someone divorce a beautiful woman like her. I would hear ...
A. 21 March 2014: Ask him and see how he reacts ... (read in full...)
My boy keeps lying to me, but insists that he loves me and only me?
Q. Alright so before you tell me to just "dump his ass", actually think about this. Basically, the guy I'm with right now is the best guy ever. I love him to death. And he loves me. He does so much for me, as do his parents. Through his life, he has a...
A. 21 March 2014: Flirting is the initial stage of physical cheating. You're dating a guy who you admit has never been faithful before.
He may be telling you everything you want to hear, but the reality is that he's beginning to be unfaithful to you and you seem... (read in full...)
I'm virtually going to be homeless and this man has hurt me more than I can say! I'm so lost and afraid, how do I cope?
Q. Hi everyone, would love some advice as this issue has gotten to bad its tearing me apart. A few months ago I was a single mum with a one year old. Then a friend ive known for years came into the picture and long story short we moved in with him. I g...
A. 21 March 2014: How about you work on getting back what you had and going to your old life. In the future giving up everything for someone when you first start dating really isn't a good idea, no matter how nice it sounds or what they promise you.
Your child wi... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is tired of my friend and her lying cheating boyfriend
Q. I don't really know who to ask about this so I thought id give this a go. I've got a close friend who has been seeing my boyfriends friend for about a year on and off. He has cheated on her and messed her around numerous times and he was expect...
A. 20 March 2014: If I was you I'd just tell her that you care about her, but if she keeps saying with a guy who's making you miserable that's her choice but you don't want to be in the middle anymore.
Tell her that if she finds the courage to break up with him... (read in full...)
We can't have sex unless we are in a certain position. Is it the height difference?
Q. Hi, I have started having sex w a new guy. He's 6'5" and I'm 5'5". For some reason he can't ever get his dick inside me unless I pull my legs up. Why is that? Is it because of the height differential? I don't get it! ...
A. 19 March 2014: Maybe he's relatively new to sex. Height shouldn't be an issue since the parts only have to line up in the middle.
I'm a foot taller than my wife and things work fine. ... (read in full...)
Do you pressure for oral sex?
Q. Do you or your significant other like to give or receive oral sex? If not do you pressure them (the whole "if you love me" thing") or do you leave it alone? I've been with my boyfriend for some years. I don't get sexually frustrated, but I'm tryi...
A. 19 March 2014: I personally believe that you should strive to make your partner happy, even if you're not a fan of something. I don't like dancing, my wife loves it, so we dance.
If my wife wanted me to go down on her and I wasn't a fan, I'd do it.
My wife... (read in full...)
Should I get back with my ex even if he took advantage of me financially?
Q. My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 days ago and after seeing him at work . He texted me Good job tonight and he feels hurt and embarrassed to take a break from relationship. Should I get back with him even if he took financially advantage of me? I...
A. 19 March 2014: Is this a rhetorical question? What do you think makes sense? Now if he was the only guy in the world then maybe you should take him back, but since there are billions it's just not worth it. It's not just that he took advantage of you financially, ... (read in full...)
Will she give me another chance after calling her bad names for going out with other guys
Q. we met on zoosk and it was fantasic we hit it off TOO WELL and talked for 5 hour a day she called me in the morning and at work and we talked all night. we wanted to wait to have sex but didn't so the 2nd date we ended up in bed... so i went home ...
A. 19 March 2014: You went on two dates and had this much drama? RUN! ... (read in full...)
Need tips on how to lose weight, put together healthy meals, and exercise. Advice?
Q. Hello! Basically I have struggled with my weight throughout most of my life, I have always been a bit chubby even as a child. I got really big when I was about 13/14 but managed to lose about 2 stone and ended up get...
A. 18 March 2014: Eating fresh foods is essential. If it comes in a package, you should be weary.
Limit dairy, sugars, salt and grains.
Believe it or not, but you can train yourself to be satisfied with fruit for a treat. People get addicted to sugar, but a ... (read in full...)
She broke up with me and I'm scared to let her into my heart again
Q. Me and my girlfreind broke up 2 weeks ago. She ended it and it was a massive shock. She said her feelings weren't as strong and didn't love me. I loved this girl sooo much and i ask her to give us some space and see. I call her before (yes i kn...
A. 18 March 2014: My advice is to cancel the meeting and tell her that you changed your mind, you'd rather not see her. I know it sounds crazy but you have a better chance at winning her back if you don't want her back anymore.
I had a gf I loved break up with me.... (read in full...)
What does he want? He has a girlfriend! I am utterly confused!
Q. We are in 12th grade and both in the same class.We were never close until the start of 12th grade.We aren't close now either but it's better than before.I don't know how it turned like this, but in the past few weeks he acts strangely to say so. Ev...
A. 17 March 2014: Of course he's not making fun of you. He obviously likes you in a somewhat superficial way. But he seems to not want to cross some predetermined line because of his gf, so he's content with flirting.
Don't expect more from him unless he leaves h... (read in full...)
I didn't want this breakup, how do I get over it with my dignity intact?
Q. I've been dating a man for almost a year. On numerous occasions, over the past year, he has asked for time and space bc he is dealing with something stressful with work or his family. I have respected this and have done my best to give him what he ...
A. 17 March 2014: This guy has problems that probably have nothing to do with you, so don't take things personally. If anything it's just a sign that you weren't good for each other.
I'm sure you knew that too, didn't you? There's no reason being in a perpetua... (read in full...)
He acts like he doesn't know the first thing about me! Should I give up for good?
Q. Some of you may know some of my relationship history with my past questions. I am still back together with my children's father. But still having issues. Nothing has helped and now the little things are starting to get on my nerves. Is it normal to ...
A. 17 March 2014: You've chosen to stay with him despite the problems so that means you need to adapt, not him. He's insensitive or has memory problems. Who knows. But getting upset or having a discussion with him probably won't fix the problem.
At some point yo... (read in full...)
We have a child together but he doesn't make much effort with her
Q. I have a daughter with my boyfriend (he is the only boyfriend I've ever had), and he goes 3 weeks to month with out seeing us sometimes. We see him the most once a week if that and he lives 15 minutes from us, but he says he doesn't like to drive. ...
A. 17 March 2014: I'm not sure he's actually your boyfriend any more. If I was you I wouldn't expect anything but money from him. He may change in time, but right now he just doesn't care very much about you or your child.
I don't understand how guys can do this,... (read in full...)
I'm good friends with both of them... do I tell her he cheated?
Q. Hi, my name is Danny and I have this best friend called Charlie (girl). Me and Charlie have been friends for-EVER! She is the closest thing I have to a sister, as i'm an only child. I have this band and i'm the lead, so I write songs and m...
A. 16 March 2014: Dude, you're in love with your sister?
Their relationship is not your concern, so stay out of it. Also, she had her chance with you and nothing happened, so telling her he cheated won't make you her Knight in shining armor. ... (read in full...)
He had doubts about me at the start of our relationship, can he truly love me now?
Q. Hi I've been with my boyfriend over a year and a half. He's very loving and affectionate and treats me well and we enjoy spending time together! At the very beginning of our relationship there was a lot of physical chemistry. We flirted a lot et...
A. 15 March 2014: Of course it's possible ... (read in full...)
My boyfriends mom could care less about meeting me?
Q. So in June it will be 1 year of dating each other and I haven't met his mom nor has he met my parents. Now his mom lives 2 hours away and mine live 30 minutes. But the thing is he'll see him mom usually once a month. She could really care less about ...
A. 15 March 2014: Sounds like you're over thinking things. Why do you care if she doesn't? Just enjoy your life and let her do her own thing without it causing you grief. ... (read in full...)
All of a sudden he's become secretive?
Q. I think I know the answer to this but just want some opinions and how to handle it please My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. In the first year he was meeting up with a girl behind my back but they both swore it was just as friends....
A. 14 March 2014: He was probably lying the first time, and he's probably trying to hide things again.
To me this is less about whether or not he's cheating, and more about whether or not you should even be with him. ... (read in full...)
How can I regain his trust? How long will it take? And can someone fall in love again after this kind of hardship?
Q. So to sum it up I had feelings for this guy "E." Who didn't like me back. "W" helped me through the grieving process. "E" and "W"are best friends. W started to have feelings for me but I kept rejecting him because I was still grieving. Finally after ...
A. 13 March 2014: I agree, people here can be very judgmental. Information like how long this was going on for would be helpful, but the reality is that as long as he hasn't directly told you to leave him alone then you're not violating his space or anything like ... (read in full...)
When we're apart, I want sex, when we're together, I don't! Is this normal for a pregnant woman?
Q. I'm 26 weeks pregnant with my first baby. My fiancée and I live in different towns and see each other on weekends. My problem's I always miss our sex during d week (when he's not with me), but when we're together I just loose interest (want no ...
A. 11 March 2014: Pregnant women are a little crazy, so everything/anything is normal.... (read in full...)
I'm in love with someone I can't be with.
Q. Dear Everyone, Some of you may say I'm a sad loser, but I'm really needing some advice. It's been almost 2 years since I split up with my girlfriend. I've never been so in love with anyone in my entire life! I've tried to move on. Dated oth...
A. 11 March 2014: I think in situations like this it's unlikely that it's love that's making you this way, it's more likely the fact that you were rejected. That can have a powerful effect on people, making them crave the other's acceptance.
It might not seem lik... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my desires?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 48 year old woman in a 4 year relationship with a man who does not like to have sex or affection. I love him and for this to work I need help as soon as possible. I desire him all the time. I could see him from across the room ...
A. 10 March 2014: I disagree wholeheartedly about him not being attracted to to. He very well could just have a low sex drive regardless of his attraction.
And there's not much you can do to stop your urges. At least nothing healthy. I'd talk to him about it and b... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't show affection or that she cares!
Q. Hey guys. Quick question. I'm a 30 year old male, dating a 24 year old female. We've been dating for 15 months. I don't really know what to do with our relationship. Every other woman I've ever dated has expressed her feelings in one wa...
A. 8 March 2014: Well if you're not happy, what's the point? There's a million women that will love you, that's nothing special compatibility and happiness are what makes a relationship special. ... (read in full...)
Lost the love of my life! My world is in bits, advice?
Q. So last week my girlfriend who I was with for about 6 month ended our relationship. Yes it was only 6 month but I truly was deeply in love with her. I had plans of us getting married having kids, the works. She decided to end it because she fe...
A. 8 March 2014: TRUST ME, you'll find another girl.
Your soul mate will be in love with you and will not break your heart. I've been where you are three times in my life but each time I met someone even better until I met the best of all, my current wife.
... (read in full...)
I want to trust him but I've been hurt too much!
Q. Dear Cupid, It's been 7 months and I'm happy to say that my last bf and I are no longer together he chose his online life over us and I've found someone new. The man I'm with is like something out of one of those crappy love movies h...
A. 7 March 2014: What do you have to be afraid of? What's the worst that could happen at this point?
The answer, of course, is to cheat or some other hurtful behavior. But, the truth is that if he does that he just wasn't a good guy in the first place, so you c... (read in full...)
I see his actions as being disrespectful of our time spent together. He sees my reaction as emotionally unstable.
Q. Guy I've been seeing for over a month won't stop texting when I'm around him! Was I out of line by the way I handled this? Is there a better way I should have handled it? I was over at his house. Literally from the time I got there until righ...
A. 6 March 2014: Also, the odds of her sending a nude pic without any prompting or inappropriate texting from him are almost none. Not very women send naked pictures JUST because they like a guy. ... (read in full...)
I can't cope with my fiance watching porn!
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. My problem will probably seem trivial, but here it goes. I cannot deal with porn. At all. I used to be fine, but ended up in a bad relationship and he was also a true porn addict.Couldnt go more than an hour or so with out it, ...
A. 6 March 2014: Listen, I don't know how to say this gently, but pregnant women can sometimes (often) be a little bit crazy. This is my experience as well as many other guys I know.
So don't do anything rash here. You claim to have a great relationship, so don't... (read in full...)
I see his actions as being disrespectful of our time spent together. He sees my reaction as emotionally unstable.
Q. Guy I've been seeing for over a month won't stop texting when I'm around him! Was I out of line by the way I handled this? Is there a better way I should have handled it? I was over at his house. Literally from the time I got there until righ...
A. 6 March 2014: +1 for him being disrespectful and you guys not being right for each other. ... (read in full...)
I am so low on my fiance's priority list we havent met for a month!
Q. Dead Cupid, I'm in a long term relationship. Engaged last year, will be married next year. I don't know if it's a phase? But I'm starting to get sick and tired of my fiancé's attitude. He always pioritise his friends and will always second me...
A. 4 March 2014: Normal? Maybe or maybe not. That's not as important as if you're happy. And you definitely don't sound like you are. If you want to stay with him don't get married until you guys get some couple's counseling. And don't get married unless you are ... (read in full...)
How could she sleep with him if she felt something for me?
Q. I am in a bit of a predicament. I have been in a lesbian relationship for the past year and I am more than happy and really feel like I've met who I am supposed to spend the rest of my life with. She says that she feels the same. The only ...
A. 4 March 2014: The way I see it is, how could she have cheated on him with you if she still LOVED him?
"Feeling something" doesn't prevent you from sleeping with someone else. I think you're making a big deal out of this for the wrong reasons. What I'd be worri... (read in full...)
How can he change his mind like that? And how can he say he loves me while he's having sex with other women?
Q. Ok idk if my boyfriend loves me. If he does when did he start idk and i think he is with me only cause i love him not sure. How can i be sure when he left 3 times. He says ii came back. But the last 2 breakups was evil mean very badbad. I wonder if ...
A. 4 March 2014: Why are you dating someone who you think is "evil, abusive, only with you for sex, a liar, manipulative, plays mind games, etc"??? Those are your own words.
It can be hard to leave someone but do it for your sanity! Besides, you have plenty o... (read in full...)
Do her actions indicate that she still in love with her ex?
Q. I have a very simple question if a women keeps pictures of her and her ex husband even though there divorced and he's with a new women and they have a baby together and but she has these pictures posted on her facebook page of their wedding day and ...
A. 4 March 2014: +1 Cerebus' answer. ... (read in full...)
I am livid at his actions and beset with Insecurity and Jealousy!! Need some advice please!!
Q. Okay - I don't really even know where to start. My boyfriend and I are both in our early-mid 30s and have been together almost 3 1/2 years. Overall things have been well but we've had some rough spots here and there. Anyway, for most of ou...
A. 4 March 2014: Well, first and foremost, you're definitely in the wrong, but I believe you realize that. I can't see where he's done anything wrong here except shield you from your own insecurity by telling you he's not at all attracted to her. I'm sure you're ... (read in full...)
Do guys really find squirting to be a turn-on, or was my partner just too polite to say it grossed him out?
Q. I'm in my mid 20's and I've known I was a squirter since I was about 19/20 due to masturbation. But despite having a couple of sexual partners and previously being married, I have never felt comfortable enough to squirt with any partner despite ...
A. 3 March 2014: I love it. My wife occasionally squirts and it's great fun. ... (read in full...)
We were so in love then poof he's gone..
Q. At my recent works Christmas meal, our waiter gave me his number, I was flattered and decided to text him. The more we text to and from we found that we clicked almost instantly, he said he couldn't take his eyes off me at the meal and I was take...
A. 1 March 2014: It's possible he suffers from depression or other emotional issues. Working a ton might have caused some stress which might have triggered some depression. You may be jumping to conclusions to say it's over, unless that's what you want.
Howev... (read in full...)
Work, sex, friendships and a web of secrets and lies.
Q. A guy I work with is a player. He used to see my friend about 2 years ago. She still liked him. We all work together. He built a friendship with me. It quickly turned into constant attention and he pursued me for about 3 months. We got really close ...
A. 1 March 2014: Of course you were used, you're both in relationships. Actually he didn't really use you because you both knew that you had LTR's, and when you're cheating with a cheater there isn't much of a promise of fidelity or commitment. ... (read in full...)
Am I feeling scarred by women in general or am I just gay?
Q. Hi Todd here, I posted a comment a few weeks back but only got one comment back, admirable comment, but only one. You can check out my initial question at this link for more info: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-really-...
A. 1 March 2014: I'm not going to get into psychology, but if you're attracted to men and would be interested in a relationship with one then you are either gay or bisexual.
I don't know what caused it. Also, you don't need to come out. Try dating a guy and see ... (read in full...)
Natural birth questions
Q. These questions are for mothers who chose to have a natural birth with no pain medications. I am expecting my first baby this summer and i want to do it with out pain medications but my mother thinks i'm not strong enough to and iv hear some bad ...
A. 1 March 2014: My wife had a natural birth for our first child, but it hurt so much that she didn't want to do it for the second child.
The second time around it was a lot easier, but even with an epidural there was plenty of pain. Normally there is less the... (read in full...)
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