Whispered calls with another woman while I am in bed next to him!

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i just ended a relationship with a guy that i had been dating on and off since i was 14 years old yesterday we have a 7 year old son together we just hooked back up 4 months ago he assured me that he was single at that time and so was we both live in the same state but different cities i brought my so down and we spent the weekend with him there were no problems the next time i came to visit alone, while laying next to him sleeping naked i woke up to him on the phone with another woman and she's asking him why were he wispering and i hear him say i'm not wispering i said apparently you were wispering because i didn't hear you on the phone the woman says oh you got company? i will talk to you later i was pissed at him so i returned back home the next day when visiting on another occasion he was on the phone again but with a different woman like i wasn't there to make a long story short on this part of my story he promised that thngs would get better. some things happend in my life that i had no choice at that time but to move to the same city where he lives we started off ok the first 2 weeks he would be here every night after work i would cook dinner for him but he would be ready afterwards to have sex and go to sleep @ 8:00 pm i was a night owl so me going to sleep early lasted all of 2 weeks it started because i was on medication and could not have sex while on this medication so i said that i would give him oral sex because i couldn't have sex with him i did that for a week and a day after i finshed the medication i got my period so still just oral sex for him none for me after my period was done i was horny as hell i wanted sex but ofcourse he wanted oral until he would cum but no sex for me i started to get bored with the situation so i would drink beer some nights this one particular night he wanted oral sex and refused because i wasn't getting no pleasure out of it he got mad called me an alcolholic and said that i was only acting like that because i was drinking we had sex 2 times during the whole month of december and all the rest of the days were oral sex for him i don't like the feeling from oral sex so i don't want it but even if we try to have sex his penis will only get hard for the oral part an sofen as soon as we attempt to try and have sex. since i moved here in december he is still talking to and texting these other women that i found out to be more than 4 of them i complain about it especially since one of the women call at all types of nights and mornings back to back until he answers and get mad when she finds out that he's with me, we were having problems about that because he insist that he's not having sex wth any of them and i don't belive it because he he can never get hard unless it's from oral sex, he says that it's because i aways bring negative to the situation because i complain bout the other women and complain abou not getting sex but always giving him oral. i have tried talking with him because the negative comes from him and these other women but he ignore how i feel and say that i'm crzy it had gotten so bad till he has not been here in over a week and if he do comes he wants oral sex only and tells me that if i get my act together he just may want to have sex with me and that i shoudn't complain that i am supposed to give him oral sex when ever he wants it if i don't do what he ask oral sex he calles me stupid and retarted and says that it's because i drink too much and that if i don't want to do what he says he is going to find some one else to be with. i have been deperessed since i moved here i'm not happy at all i'm starting to hate him and i told him that he is selfish and that the way he talks to me is verbal abuse and that if he loved me he wouldn't treat me that way he do but i get no results it's his way or no way period point blank i don't know what to do any more or maybe i was wrong can any one help?

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