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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was dating this total sweetheart. He seemed to be everything I ever wanted in a guy and then some. However, we broke up a few months ago. He began dating another girl immediately but kept in contact with me, and eventually dumped the other girl so that he could be with me again.The problem is that once we established a relationship again, he suddenly got cold feet and decided that he wanted both me and the other girl so he wouldn't commit to either of us. I broke it off with him. Now when we talk, things are super strained, and he frames me to be some kind of manipulator; however, when it was he who left me, it was fine for him to contact me and flirt even once he started seeing the other girl.What's the deal?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 February 2012):
 I agree with K C100 he's a jerk. he's a game player and not worth the effort.
don't talk to him.
don't text
don' t facebook or tweet.
the deal is he likes all the attention and he's a user.
walk on.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (21 February 2012):
 He's an idiot and you should move on. Simple as that.
Dont waste your time trying to figure him out, he obviously cant decide which girl he likes out of you both so he is playing games with both of you until he makes his mind up.
Take the choice out of his hands and move on - cut contact and forget about him. You are better than being someone's sloppy seconds, so dont sit around waiting for him and dont let him carry on playing with you like this. Get him out of your life and find a guy who likes you and only you.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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