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writes:Its ridiculous the way my brother lies. He has become a complete lying machine. He is extremely rich, handsome and a celebrity.His marriage with his wife is utterly awful. Since they dated, he cheated on her openly. He did drugs and weed and his then gf/now wife was hardly bothered.He even claimed to sleep around and said he was single while he was engaged and just three months after his wedding he cheated and got involved in a year long affair with a colleague while he had his first baby.Basically he cheats every year, in front of wife too (kissed a woman) but his wife with whom he claims to have such an amazing relationship, shows a different picture.Shes hardly seen with her 4 year old kid and is mostly spotted partying with her friends. All the time, her instagram is updated with new pictures of her with her friends. More than 500 pictures are already released on internet. She also has some fans appointed to keep her popularity on twitter. When he cheats on her and gets caught because he indirectly exposed his feelings for a younger colleague, she has no reservations.Instead shes launched a makeup business with friends, made websites of it and gets several photoshoots done.Same with his drugs and weed issues. No objections, maybe because she herself gorges on alcohol. While this guy is belittled by fans, other people and even gets suspended, shes seen attending makeup shows, partying at bars etc.Interestingly this man, when spotted at home is mostly seen alone with his child.Or even at functions like Halloween, he was seen sitting aloof from family and was looking grumpy and as usual had his daughter with him at few occasionsBut to the whole world, especially at interviews/teenagers on twitter, he says such things like how his wife sends him pictures/videos of his daughter, how his daughter and wife helped him get rid of his drug habit (and once again was caught using drugs this year), how he loves his family, kissing wife in crowds, and now hes changed and matured, when practically, he has become even worse than he as before marriage.He takes childish digs at people on twitter, still uses weed/drugs, looks preoccupied half the time, even got into fights with teenagers who weren't liking him, cheats as usual and even on small things like clothes, he lies about how his wife helps him in formal wear when all the time he repeats the same suits and ties. Last month he even tweeted to teenagers that his 4 year old kid is getting so big and maybe its time for a sibling. This was told to teenagers on twitter!What the hell is wrong with this guy? Has he lost his mind? Have the drugs affected him so badly that he has lost his rational memory bank?]How could he even think of another kid when his state of mind/marriage is in shards if it wasn't for publicity?Hes 32. Married 5 years. Kid 4 years.
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reader, Staceily +, writes (7 November 2012):
 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/advice-needed-is-my-brother-for-real.html
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-does-she-have-that-i-havent.html
So these are both from you too. Now 3 posts. But you are the sister in 2 of them and the ex wife in the other. I suspect you have an obsession with someone famous and this is their life or you have completely fabricated all of this as you can't be an ex wife and a sister.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): Their marriage and her kids are none of your business. You sound much more like a jealous mistress with no life than a sister.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar  +, writes (7 November 2012):
 Hes got some self confidence issues. He cheats because hes not psychologically fulfilled in some way. He does need some professional help.so he can properly mature. Not a good scenario. Encourage him to get help thats about all u can do or talk to ur parents perhaps they could influence change n reform in him. Good luck.
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reader, TrancedRhythmEar +, writes (7 November 2012):
Hes got some self confidence issues. He cheats because hes not psychologically fulfilled in some way. He does need some professional help.so he can properly mature. Not a good scenario. Encourage him to get help thats about all u can do or talk to ur parents perhaps they could influence change n reform in him. Good luck.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (7 November 2012):
 "Sounds" to me like you're spending 'way too much time thinking about your brother's life.... I can only assume that you are ignoring your own (life)....
I'm sure it's difficult being Charley Sheen's sister.... but, honey, you have simply GOT to let him go!!!!!!
Good luck....
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (7 November 2012):
 Yeah, I too remember a post just like this some time ago, sent by a sister worried about her gruggie celeb brother, same story.
Plus, curiously enough, a couple of days ago there was another post about the very same thing- only sent by the " ex wife ". Here, the twist was that the druggie celeb guy with a 4 y.o. daughter who kissed another woman under his wife's nose etc.etc......fell in love with another girl, who is now pregnant, and for love of her went to rehab and cleaned his act up. How strange.
Assuming that either post is a true question, ( ?..) - the answer can't be other than what Honeypie says - at the end of the day, he is a grown up and this is his life and his choices. As a sister, or an ex wife, you have no control over him, and you might as well try living your own life,rather than his.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (7 November 2012):
 You wrote a week ago about this - different post though.
And I will give you the same answer YOU do not know what "rules" they have set in their marriage or how the marriage actually works. IF she is staying with him she is in one way or another making THAT choice to stay.
And.. THIS IS his life. I don't know why you seem to think you are the judge and jury on your brother's life. You are his sister, not his keeper.
IF you think he behavior is nuts and erratic - how about talking to him?
Or simply STAY of his twitter? If you think what he posts is insane. The thing is - it's HIS life, HIS twitter. End of story.
How about you start to live your own life? As you can not control his.
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