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I love to help people because my thing is God put everybody on earth to help each other. I live in harlem with my mother and step-father and we have a beautiful apartment. i always give people advice even if they dont give me good advice. I am a very nice person but i have a quick temper that i really am trying to control. i am new to the website so i am hoping to meet new people (not perverts).

My man is defensive

Q.   my boyfriend i have been together for two years now and we just recently just moved in everything is good.i have problem with hem every time i ask hem why he gets so defensive whenever i ask somthing about hes exwife he gets realy mad he doesnt want ...

A.   30 June 2010: Well ii honestly think him and his ex wife may have had a bad relationship or conflict and everytime you bring her up brings him 2 memories about whatever they went through in the past. And ii also think that it makes him feel uncomfortable even ... (read in full...)

My friend and I like this guy that has a girlfriend. How do I tell her he wants to go out with me?

Q.   ok im 13 there's this guy that likes me and i like him too but there's only one problem. My friend likes him too and i met him through her. He said to me that he would go out wit me but he has a gf and when he breaks up with her he says he will go ...

A.   17 July 2008: thank u so much i really appreciate this all of u! ... (read in full...)

My violent boyfriend has cut contact with me. What do I do?

Q.   hi all im really lost rite now and nees some advice a week ago me an my bf had a huge row he pushed me to the floor so i got up an slapped him an told him never 2 put his hands on me again well he went mad an tried 2 choke me i was terrifed i i ...

A.   16 July 2008: Well since he's violent i think that u should just forget about him and try your best to never ever speak to him agan because he means you no good. You see alot of things happen on the news about when ppl have abusive bfs or husbands so plz be ... (read in full...)

How long is this empty feeling inside me going to last, after breaking up with by bf??

Q.   Me and my bf broke up a month ago, and I am so heart broken. We were on and off for 3 years (today would have been our 3 yrs anniversary) and this is the second time we've broken up for real. We broke up last year too for 8 months and then got back ...

A.   3 July 2008: Honestly since you really love him alot that empty spot is going to be there for quite a while i would say about a month or two. I know it feels like you would never fall in love again but don't feel that way keep your head up high and move on with ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is a big flirt and I get jealous!

Q.   I have a boyfriend and he's a flirt a big one. I didn't mind at first but when the girl's get to flirty and friendly with him i do get jealous sometimes when he flirts back. I don't know if it last being with him i do love him and i don't want to ...

A.   3 July 2008: first test him one day act like u are flirting with one of your male friends and see how it affects him. He will get jealous and he will probably say please don't do that if he does then let him know how you feel.... (read in full...)

What size and shape of girl do men prefer?

Q.   I'm really curious. Do guys Prefer Skinny, slim, curvy or overweight girls? If you had to pick a clothing size for a girl what would it be?...

A.   2 July 2008: men like women who have curves. They like big breasts and a big butt. ... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to a prostitute?

Q.   I am considering to lose my virginity seeing a prostitute. Now I would like to hear some people's advice who have been in a similar situation. I am male, 23 years old and suffer from a quite bad case of virginity - so to say. I have never even ...

A.   2 July 2008: of course not you have way more common sense then that. IF you lose your virginity to someone let it be a special loving moment with someone your in love with. A prostitute's plan is to have sex with you then keep on moving and im sure you would not ... (read in full...)

This is starting to really worry me now, could I be pregnant?

Q.   This is starting to really worry me now, could i be pregnant? It's been constantly plagueing my mind these last few days, well, here's the facts and inordetlly someone can help, i had unprotected sex with my man 5 days ago, he didn't come whilst ...

A.   2 July 2008: ok what you do is get a pregnancy test and find out if you are pregnant or not. Don't panic! be calm about this type of situation and trust me you will be fine.... (read in full...)

Said he loves me, but he can't commit. This was obviously a fling???

Q.   I have been seeing this guy.. he says he hasnt been with any other girl in 3 yrs.. and well I'm from a traditional Catholic family.. so u know I'm still virginal'and all.. and the other night he and I got too far (heavy petting, but no sex- i ...

A.   2 July 2008: well that means he just wanted to have sex with you then leave you like most guys do. You are very smart and you have common sense because you said no and you stopped him. When boys want to have sex with you they will tell you anything you want to ... (read in full...)

I used to be a strong person but now I feel weak and pathetic! Why can't I stay away from him?

Q.   I used to be such a strong-willed person. Now I feel weak and pathetic. I really feel like such a mess all because of a guy. I have been in a thing ( i call it a thing because I don't know what it is!) with a guy for many many months now and its ...

A.   30 June 2008: listen itz ok to like him but dont let him kno u still like him act like u dont care about him and u dont have time and he will feel it... (read in full...)

I am moving and leaving a great girlfriend, what should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend and I are having a good relationship, minimal fights, general fun, and happieness, I couldn't ask for more. The only problem is, I'm moving to Iowa at the end of august (we live in WI). Any advice? I'm at a loss....

A.   27 June 2008: ok now i have been in the same situation too except she was my best friend and i had to transfer sadly her house phone is not workin and she doesn't have a cell so we never got a chance to stay in touch so my advice to you is do ur best to stay in ... (read in full...)

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