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*lumsrock
writes:met this guy through work. we hit it off, in fact us being together getting along so well, with attraction he told me was one of the best two days he had in a long time and yes i could concur!well, through our time together we liked each other more. nothing happened, but one day he texted me he would be in my area and for us to hang out. i didnt text him back for 4 hours. finally i said no i had company. he got really mad.also i am kinda critical though i dont mean to be. example his hygiene. i cant lie. i expect more from him. he is a model. you cant walk around with dirt under your nails, or look skanky dirty...at least not around me. its gross. i point it out but i let him know i still care about him for him. well he got really jealous bout other attention guys gave me and me not seeing him that day, and him "not having the money to take girls out". omg palese!well he got so mad from attention from other guys he threw his cell, it hit windshield and broke in two places! i was uncomfortable, shocked and scared to say the least. he then said, what do you expect...would you rather me take it out on you!?i was like omg.so then he tells me unless i pay at least half for his window we wont be cool. now im not goin to cause its just not right and im no fool. however, before all this we discussed me having his baby if i shouldnt find somone i want to marry. that i would have his baby no strings attatched in future. now we havent talked in like 3 weeks yet on his myspace page he put this song by king of leons "knocked up"you can see hear the song here...http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Mzklb9nkXMand read lyrics in the process...http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/kingsofleon/knockedup.htmlwhat could this mean? he misses me? thinks bout me?
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reader, dearkelja +, writes (5 November 2008):
 I'm also agreeing with Mandy. This is a man who wants to dominate and manipulate you. If you have his baby he will have a permanent tie to you.
He has anger management issues and low self esteem. He is already jealous of other men and acting out and you are not even a couple. If you get pregnant, you wont even be able to look at another man without getting some anger directed your way.
He may miss you and think about you but I guarantee the first person in his life he is concerned about is HIM. That is NOT father material. He will never be able to help you financially with this child.
I am so glad the guy has dirt in his fingernails or else you would have perhaps been in a situation that is much more difficult to get out of. Continue the 3 week hiatus and don't let him manipulate you back into his life.
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 This man sounds like an immature jerk and a control freak!!! Listen to Agony Aunt Pepper27 - she is giving excellent advice.
Honeygirl
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Jesus H Christ - what a complete plonker! He's shown his true colours and obviously has anger management issues. I bet he stamps his feet as well when he doesn't get his own way.
I agree with Mandy 100% - she almost took the words out of my mouth - apart from her last two.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (5 November 2008):
 Hi Hunny
This kind of behaviour I think is less tolerable than dirty finger nails, He threw his cell at the windscreen scaring you and then has the nerve to say "Would you rather I took it out on you!" Then asks for you to pay half the bill PFFFFT! Hunny I'm sure with the best intentions you can find someone else to have a child with this man is not boyfriend material and he would most defiantly not be baby material for me..The song it may mean something different to you, I don't no if its a song you used to listen to together, But it just tells me he is going to be your lover and you are going to have his baby..After that car incident I would be running for the hills he just sounds spoilt when he cant have his own way and maybe one day it could be you he throws something at in his anger sweetheart TAKE CARE OF YOU WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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