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anonymous
writes:Will someone cheat a couple of times during the course of their actual first (meaning first everything)and long distance relationship and break up multiple times because of other reasons aside from cheating but still be in love and swear they're meant for each other? I'm know this person and I think shes in denial because she wants to believe that she can marry her first love. If she was truly in love with him she wouldn't cheat on him multiple times right? I know Ldr's are hard and it's flattering to get attention from others, but if you're truly in love you would fight off the temptation right? I mean once a mistake, but multiple times..i dont know.i also think shes afraid of change as well. she's so use to her first that she's comfortable with him, made plans for the future with him. what do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2008): Well I personally don't believe that this is right...but what I do think is that she wants to run around and have fun...and still have you there for her marriage partner because she knows that you will be there waiting for her... because from what you wrote it defenitely sounds like you are ok with this..because you keep winding up back together, but I personally think that its gross..and she could also have a STD from sleeping around and then coming back to you...I don't think that shes in love with you..but you are defenitly just the backup plan for marriage and so forth since you already showed that you will be there no matter what she does...and even if you all get married doesn't mean that everything is just going to change...she will probably still be the same...because there are no consequenses for her actions...so if you are okay with being her doormat then go on...but I honestly don't think that its 'meant to be' more like just a backup plan for when she's done having fun...but then again..who's to say that she will stop.
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