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writes:I started to see my new room mate one weekend, but his ex found a way to get him back using the "I'm pregnant" excuse. She ended up moving in and we put our relationship on hold. A couple weeks later, we find out she's not pregnant, they break up again and she moved out.I thought the plan was that once he got his baby mama drama worked out, we'd go back to what we had. Unfortunately, he's having other ideas. I know he's hurt by her lies, he is definitely on the rebound, and thinks that by having all the casual sex he wants will make him feel better. I want to give him time to get his head straight, but I hate seeing him flirt with other women because I know he's looking for sex. He knows I still have feelings for him, but I don't want casual sex with him, especially if he's sleeping with other females. I'm just worried that with him playing the field, he's going to forget about me. Should I wait for him, or should I just move on?
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reader, elsie  +, writes (14 March 2007):
 funny how he's getting his head straight by going out and looking for casual sex?all the while you're getting your head mashed wondering what could of been.stop waiting in the background.if you really are desperate then ask him out straight.understandbly he's hurt by his ex.so things get serious he gets hurt equals casual sex?you're there for him and he don't give a toss.first you put a relationship on hold because of the ex then because of him looking for sex with other girls.nah.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2007): Move on. He has no regard for you feelings and this means he doesn't see you as someone he feels deserves his love and respect-he's a selfish loser.
You are worth more than he is prepared to be or give you.
*hugs*
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