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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I have had a crush on a guy since I was 16. At 25, I told him that I had a thing for him. He did not seem to interested at the time, but I guess I was ignoring the signals, especially when he asked for my number. We spoke a few times, but I was in a relationship that was ending and I do not think he wanted to be involved. A few more years passed and I never acted on my emotions. Finally at 29, I told him that I wanted him. We hooked up three times, but he could not perform at all. I became discouraged after the third time and decided to write him off. However, I decided to give it one more go and I was amazed by our night. It was full of passion and immediately, I knew he was the one for me.Our relationship is very friendly and sexual. I know that he is sleeping with other women, but I want to know if I am special to him. He sends me text messages almost every day and I wonder if that's his way of keeping me interested in him. At this present moment, he is 36 and divorced about 5 years ago. He likes the fact that he is single. I know that I have fallen in love with this man. The great sex came after years of good conversation and understanding.This man is all I seem to care about. His birthday just passed and I saw him during that day and he practically broke his neck to see me. I did not wish him happy birthday verbally, but I sent him a text message with the wish in the morning (text messaging is our thing). However, I told him that I had a gift for him, which was not anything expensive. I asked him could I drop it by his house, and I think he cancelled his plans for the evening. The gift was his favorite cake, as a birthday wish from me ( I would never spend a lot of money on him, as he is not my man). He looked surprised and thanked me. He did seem some what impressed with the gift, but I can never read him. He sent me a thankful text message on Sunday Afternoon.The issue is that I can never read him. I try not to let him know that I am attached to him, because we have a special relationship. I never want to cuddle (as i know the nature of our relationship), but he always holds me whenever we are together. He constantly stares directly in my eyes or just simply touch me and I begin to melt. Should I take a chance and tell him that I am in love. How do I know that he really cares or will even want to be with me and give up a life of freedom?
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reader, kizzy +, writes (21 April 2008):
 you should tell him how you feel that is if he isn't currently sleeping with other women.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (21 April 2008):
 Plant the seed of love in his heart soil and watch it grow.
When the plant grows and bloom , then you will know the answer to that other question.
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