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writes:Recently i found out my boyfriend is probably going to be moving at the end of this year. we're going to try long distance but billions of people keep saying we wont make it through and im starting to believe them... I really want to stay with him though, because he is the only person that doesnt put me down and he makes me feel good about myself. i dont want to lose him ever. I know it sounds stupid that im saying all this but i truly believe that he is the one.He makes me feel like a queen and i try my hardest to make him feel like a king and i dont want to let him go. but i dont know if we can make it through long distance, especially now that his mum said she wont drive him to my house so we can hangout sometimes. i dont think she has anything against me, but im worried she might. Also a lot of the time she says horrible things to my boyfrined and that really hurts me, because in my eyes, he's perfect.sorry i know this is kinda like a rant/question all at the same time and im not good with words so im probably confusing people. what should i do about all this??
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2016): Hold on Loosely, but Don't let go entirely. Time will tell in many such situations; however, it isn't good to be clingy when the ones you love most are in independent stages of development & discovery of their true life's purpose & values. So leave the space for that & cherish the time you can share together in finding your new way in life - which may actually include you. Truly listen & you will know
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (8 August 2016):
 It is a difficult one for you. All you can do is try long distance and see how it goes. It is strange the paths life leads us on. Looking back you can see how all the dots join up, but at the time is can appear a hopeless mess.
At least you can Skype each other. An important thing is to keep lots of activities going for yourself so that when you talk you can tell him about your experiences, and he can tell you about his.
In a couple of years you will be able to travel to see him on your own. That can seem an awfully long time at your age. But one way or another things have a way of working out.
Make sure you keep that smile!
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