A
female
age
41-50,
*ose1389
writes:Im a single divorced mother of four kids. I work a full time job, raise my four kids on my own. Along with that I take online college course. I try so hard to do the best I can to take care of my kids and along with everything else going on. I don't see how I do it. I've been talking to this guy everyday along with working with him. He's helped me with ways to work and home, even if he doesn't work that day. We been having sex but he wants to keep it a secret because he doesn't want any trouble started by his babys mom. I just don't know if he really likes me or uses me.
View related questions:
divorce Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2013): No thats not an excuse no you shouldn't put up with it. Because if he's
no longer with her than it is not up to her and i think that if he wants to be with you than he needs be open with your relationship. And if hes not willing to then it is likely that he is just using you.
Hope this helps.
A
female
reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (27 January 2013):
 He can like you and use you at the same time, some men and women have no shame about doing this.
If you are being kept a secret, it means he doesn't want you to disrupt his life as it is and would rather just keep things in the dark (he could also still be having sex with the mother of his child, despite what he tells you).
You got a pretty tough life going on there lady, I probably don't need to tell you about how men are...but if you've got romantic ideas that he's suddenly going to fall madly in love with you and want a relationship...you know that probably won't happen.
Enjoy the attention and help if that's what you need but don't expect more...because there probably isn't anymore on offer.
...............................
A
female
reader, R1 +, writes (27 January 2013):
 Depends if its just sex or whether he acts like he's in a relationship with you? Personally I don't like secrets but sometimes people think they are doing it for the right reasons. Is he sweet? Does he call when he says he will, does he put you first?
...............................
|
