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I always pick fight for no reason.

Q.   i have a boyfreind that i love so much and who is so complicated every time i ask what do you want to do next he says do whatever you want. what should i do? should i go on with him? should i date someone i don't understand?because i love him i ...

A.   23 October 2007: Could it be that you are afraid to love him? have you been hurt in a previous realtionship? Think about what your life would be without him, Would you be sad and hate the fact that you two are not together? Maybe in order to get both of your ... (read in full...)

How do I know if I am pleasing him.

Q.   Hi I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now, he is a very wonderful guy, he treats me very good and I think we have something very special here. We have a very open relationship we can talk about past sex experiences without having any ...

A.   23 October 2007: Okay so I am not a man but a am a woman who has a man of one year with a very high sex drive. My boyfriend and I have also had past sexual partners and we have talked about that before, without it being weird to talk about. When you two are havi... (read in full...)

Is my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...

A.   11 October 2007: Well, he could be saying that in an innapropriate way, and yes that is wrong so you would need to speak to someone about tha, or he could be just sayin because maybe you are teachers pet. In this matter there is really no way to tell what he is ... (read in full...)

I can't believe I cheated

Q.   I cheated on my girlfriend... I love her so much... She is beautiful and really intelligent and has a great sense of humor... She takes care of me, makes me dinners, lunches, gives me back rubs, buys me random presents, pays for fuel for my car....

A.   11 October 2007: Wow! This is a pretty bad situation. To be honest, I dont think that you should keep this from her. I mean you two have been together for 5 years and maybe there is a slight chance that she could forgive you. I mean what if she finds out from ... (read in full...)

Is it herpes?

Q.   I have sore, itchy and inflamed blisters around my genitals and think it maybe herpes, i have had coldsores before but never herpes and i havn't had intercourse with any1 that has it but am aware that it is the same virus. is this a possibility? ...

A.   11 October 2007: Yeah, what you re descibing sounds a lot like som kind of genital herpes. The only way to find out for sure is if you go to a doctoror a clinic and they can give you a proper anlysis. You will also be able o recieve treatment soon so it doesnt get ... (read in full...)

How can I keep my long distance romance alive?

Q.   What can I do to keep my long distant relationship aflamed? How do I express myself feelings freely to my lover without being shy?...

A.   4 October 2007: I had a long distnace relationship once. He lived in Arizona and I lived in California. I know thats not too far but we only saw eachother like every 2 or 3 months. Eventually since we couldnt see eachother, we just kinda lost touch and ... (read in full...)

My friend says she had sex, but she is only 13. Do I believe her?

Q.   how can i trust my friend? well u see my best mate had this bf who was like 3 yrs older than her and all she eva did was tlk bout him and it really bugged me and my other friends. n e way she was acting all weired at school and when i ask her wots ...

A.   2 October 2007: Well first, Dry sex is basically humping eacjother with your clothes on. So it isnt even really sex, its just fooling around and getting to third base. I think that she is trying to get attention. I relly dont think that she and him had sex, I ... (read in full...)

I am mean to this guy and keep wanting to see his schoolwork. Why?

Q.   Hi, i'm 13 and very lately the guy who i use to sit next to every lesson and year cause we were put in register order i keep being mean to him and want to see his work for example art we were doing painting out of books and i was really desperate to ...

A.   2 October 2007: Could it be because you have a little crush on him? Most kids your age like to be mean and bully the people the really like in order for that person to not know that you really do like them. I mean you have to ask yourself these questions 1) Do y... (read in full...)

I am 17 and pregnant

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt, My name is Fiona and I am seventeen years old and I recently found out that I am pregnant. I am very confused and I really don’t know what to do and I still haven’t told anyone. Please help! I thoug...

A.   2 October 2007: Okay, well by the looks of it you are nto a bad kid or anything. I mean it doesnt sound like you go out, party, drink and do drugs. Yeah being pregnant at such a young age is kinda scary, but you really have to figure out as to whether or not you ... (read in full...)

My wife and I have become incredibly attached to each other! We don't want this to cause us problems - what can we do?

Q.   Right some of you may say this isn't all that bigger problem but its getting in the way of things. Well me and my wife have been together since we were 16,known each other all throughout school and been married 7 years. Just recently though we have ...

A.   24 September 2007: Oh my gosh, you guys have a wonderful relationship. I dont think that you two need any relationship advice. Most couples want to spend time away because they are annoyed of the other person. You two are actually truly in love. I think that is ... (read in full...)

How do I get things with my wife back the way that they used to be?

Q.   hi people . well here it goes ive been married for 13 years now i married at 16 to the girl i love with all my heart. i dont really wana go into it to much right now it will take me all day.but i left my wife a couple of times this is because i fel...

A.   24 September 2007: Why dont the two of you sit down and have a deep meaningful conversation. You can apologize to her for the wrongs that you have done in that past and I am sure that she will apologize for her faults as well. Communication is one of the most ... (read in full...)

I'm 18 and no longer attend my old school. Can I approach the teacher I had a crush on?

Q.   ok so i'm an 18 year old girl and i have the hugest crush or whatever you'd call it thing for what used to be my 10th grade science teacher who's about 15 years older than me. I know it sounds so typical but it's not, i get so excited when i run ...

A.   24 September 2007: Yeah, there should be no problem if you flirt with him or tell him how you feel but, he may think that it is kinda weird since you are so much younger than him and you used to be his student. I dont think that there is any harm is talking to him ... (read in full...)

I couldn't be pregnant because of this, right??

Q.   Hi, a couple of weeks ago, me and my boyfriend were at my friends sixteenth. Me and him went upstairs, and were having dry sex, but my knickers were down and his boxers were off. He didn't go inside me, but his dick was there and came. afterward...

A.   24 September 2007: The chances of you being pregnant are kinda slim, but yeah, I am sorry to say there still can be a chance. You should take a pregnancy test ASAP to find out. There could be other reasons why you are late but it is kinda odd that you are after what ... (read in full...)

Will my boyfriend stay in jail because he pushed me?

Q.   Can anyone please tell me what happends when someone gets in trouble for a domestic disturbance. My boyfriend was put in jail for three days because he pushed me during a fight and my roomate saw and called the police. I do not want to get him in ...

A.   11 September 2007: Eddie, What do you mean men always loose? are you saying that something really bad is going to happen to him? Most of the time I am starting the fights by pushing him and slapping the back of his head. Most of the time he doesnt even defend h... (read in full...)

It's been 10 months and I'm still not pregnant! Any advice?

Q.   i have been trying for a baby for 10 months and nothin.ive been on the internet and worked out wen i am ovulating and done it on the dates and still nothin. my mates have told me not to think about it and that im mayb trying to hard but how can i ...

A.   5 September 2007: You need to make am appointment with a fertility clinic because if it has been taking this long you may be infertile meaning you cant have kids. You just need to hear it from a professional, they will take tests on you and then tell you your results ... (read in full...)

He tells me he just wants to be friends, after seeing me for 5 months!

Q.   Hello, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We have been progressing slowly, but still progressing. We have talked about how we feel about each other, and the all of a sudden he tells me...

A.   8 August 2007: Wow I am sorry about that. What happend? If it not too personal.... (read in full...)

My mom's friend's son stares at my chest, what should I say?

Q.   My mom's friend has a son. He is 3 years older than me. I see him a lot. Whenever I'm around him, I feel uncomfortable. He always stares at my chest. Should I say something to him? If so, what should I say?...

A.   8 August 2007: I know that this may be uncomfortable but maybe you hould talk to your mom. Just say that you think he is creepy and what he does when he is around you. Then whenever he come over the next time she can observe as well and see what this guy is really ... (read in full...)

He tells me he just wants to be friends, after seeing me for 5 months!

Q.   Hello, I'll try to make this as short as possible. I've been seeing this guy for about 5 months now. We have been progressing slowly, but still progressing. We have talked about how we feel about each other, and the all of a sudden he tells me...

A.   8 August 2007: All you really can do is say "okay". I mean maybe he just doesnt see anything happening with you and he doesnt really see you more than a friend. This way he is letting you down very nicely and slowly. I dont think that he is a bad guy or anything ... (read in full...)

I go from wet to dry!

Q.   i have a problem where i get really, really wet and aroused during foreplay but then as soon as my boyfriend trys to give me an orgasm i become very dry. it's really embarassing and i just don't know what to do. he thinks i just feel pressured ...

A.   8 August 2007: Try lubrication in the bottle, that should help to keep you wet for a while. They even have the really exotic kinds that you both may love. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my boyfriend's friend?

Q.   I fancy my boyfriend ´s good friend. I dont like my boyfriend that much coz he doesnt pay attantion to me as he used to. I want to get closer to his friend but the problem is obvious. Shall i forget about it?...

A.   8 August 2007: I think that the first thing that you should do is talk to your boyfriend first and tell him that he doesnt give you very much attention anymore. Maybe he doesnt realize that he is doing that or that you feel that way. So talk to him first. If he ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is pulling the double-standard! Is it just an excuse to break up?

Q.   Hi, I just moved in with my boyfriend of 9 months and while I was at work one day he went through my "memory box" that i kept while i was in HS. It had somethings in it about my ex boyfriends like who i kissed, who i didnt, and so on...sil...

A.   8 August 2007: I think that he got jealous. Here he is living with you and he basically things that you two belong together, not in a controlling way but me may thing that you belong to him. So when he saw stuff from other guys eventhough it was so long ago, he ... (read in full...)

I did cheat on him but I want him back!

Q.   i have been with my boyfriend for a year now a month ago we broke when he was told that i was cheating on him and i have tried talking to him but he keeps me off, the truth is that i cheated on him and i now feel i don't love this other guy its ...

A.   8 August 2007: Well sweetie, We do all make mistakes and I know that a lot of our mistakes may sacrifice what we have. A lot of people believe the phrase "Once a cheater always a cheater". If it was just a one time thing that you will never do again then you... (read in full...)

How long will it take my eyebrows to grow back?

Q.   KO! I'm a male and shaved my eyebrows, just wondering how long it would take to grow them back....

A.   3 August 2007: Well when I pluck my eyebrows I usually have to do it everyother day because they grow pretty fast. But it could vary from person to person. If the hair on your head grows pretty quickly then your eyebrows could as well. Just everymorning see how ... (read in full...)

Would it be wrong to have a f*** buddy while my girlfriend is out of state?

Q.   Is casual sex OK when you love someone else who is not around? My girlfriend took a job that forces her to travel out of state for weeks at a time 90 percent of the time. I love her but dont want to sleep alone. Is it wrong to find a casual sexual ...

A.   3 August 2007: No thats cheating. If you wanna do that with someone then you should break up with your girlfriend and then you can do it with as many girls as you want. Just dont hurt your girlfriend by doing this behind her back. ... (read in full...)

Should I give him a second chance after he cheated on me?

Q.   I love this guy i been dateing for awhile.He cheated on me and i told him i didn't want to see him anymore.Well we did see eachother again just to talk and it was then he told me that he Loved me very much.Do you think i should give him a second ...

A.   28 July 2007: I dont really think so, if he loved you the way he says he does, then he would be happy to be with you and only you, not with another woman. Ever hear the phrase "once a cheater always a cheater"?... (read in full...)

Could I be pregnant? Please Help!

Q.   okay .... I'm really scared .. I had unprotected sex a couple weeks back ... i didn't think anything of it cause i never had an orgasm... and well i haven't got my period this month could i be pregant .... plz help...

A.   28 July 2007: I know that you are very scared right now, and I am gonna be blunt with you, but there is a possibility that you could be pregnant. All you have to do is go to your nearest drug store or grocery store and buy a preganancy test. They are very easy to ... (read in full...)

How can I sleep with my boyfriend who has HIV, but not get it myself?

Q.   How do you catch HIV/AIDS? I kissed my boyfriend (who's just been dignosed with HIV) a couple of days back. Have i got the STD? Please reply, i'm really worried. Also i'm thinking of having sex with him. What would be the best contraception to use ...

A.   18 July 2007: Okay It depends on what STD he has, for instance if he has herpes on his mouth from going down on a girl who had it he could have it on his mouth, and then you kissed him. But you said that he has HIV, I only know that you can catch that by ... (read in full...)

How can I make my vagina dry so that my husband wont want to have sex with me?

Q.   I've been married for 16 1/2 years. We've had great sex,but lately I'm not interested in having it with him.He's very controlling in the bedroom he wants it every night.And the problem I have is my vagina is very wet at night and he loves it.Ho...

A.   18 July 2007: Why dont you want to have sex with him anymore? are your feelings changing towards him? Ya know my boyfriend likes to have it every night as well and when I go to sleep early or I am on my period he just goes on the internet, looks and porn and ... (read in full...)

He broke up with me to have sex with another girl and now wants me back

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old female. I have been dating the same guy for about 2 years now. We get along great and we really love each other. But he is afraid of commitment, so when he gets scared or needs space he just breaks up with me. But ...

A.   18 July 2007: Okay, He cannot just push you away when he doesnt want a GF and pullyou back when he does, That is just screwing up all of your emotions. You need to tell him that he needs to choose because someday when he wants to reel you back in you may not get ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says I have caused him too much pain by not trusting him

Q.   I have been in 3yr relationship w/my boyfriend.I have been very untrusting of him.He told me several times to stop but I didn't and now because of my trust issues I have driven him away, he won't be affectionate at all to me, says I've hurt him and ...

A.   18 July 2007: Hi sweetie, Ya know I used to have the same problem, But I need to ask, Has he done anything to make you not trust him? If he has then he should be the one apologizing to you but if you are just a little insecure, which a lot of people are including ... (read in full...)

I've got really bad period cramps? Help!

Q.   Hey! its me again! i need advice, wats the best cure for stomach cramps? i'm on my period and my stomach really kills, i know this is silly but i'm too embarressed to ask my friends thnx H:)...

A.   9 July 2007: take 2 Aleve right now. If you dont have that then put a heating pad on your stomach. Those 2 things work miracles. Feel better. ... (read in full...)

I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay?

Q.   I turn 20 soon and im still a virgin. Is that okay? I wanted to wait until i was in a serious relationship before i had sex but now i dont know if i should just go out and sleep with someone because of the whole age-pressure thing?...

A.   9 July 2007: No, that is perfectly fine, so you are waiting for the right guy. There is nothing wrong with that. I say keep on waiting until you find him. There is nothing wrong with being 20 and a virgin. At least you are not 13 and pregnant. ... (read in full...)

Been in touch with a guy on the internet and after week hes' told me he loves me!

Q.   hi evry body i have just know a boy from internet and after a week he told me that he love me shod i bleave him or not ?...

A.   9 July 2007: No no no no!!!! dont beleive something like that. you have never even met him and he is trying to prey on you to see how far he can get with you. Sweetie, protect yourself and maybe not even meet him at all. He could be one of those stalker guys ... (read in full...)

Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?

Q.   Is it against the law to date an 18 year old guy when your 14?...

A.   9 July 2007: It is not against the law to date him but it is against the law to have sexual relations with him. ... (read in full...)

I acted very jealous one night when we were out and now she's being a bit cold towards me, how do I deal with this?

Q.   On a night out with girlfriend and friends I got very drunk and acted very jealously. I appologised the next day to my girlfriend but have found her being a little cold to me since. I find myself now over accommodating for the shakiness in our ...

A.   5 July 2007: Ok first you should sit her down and talk to her about it. If you tell her that you have noticed her acting different since that night then she could think that you care about her feeling and want to talk to her about it. Basically the best thing to ... (read in full...)

Help! I think my boyfriend is sleeping with his younger sister!

Q.   Help! I think my boyfriend is sleeping with his younger sister! I have no proof, what should I do? They both smoke pot, and talk about porn and things....He has even told me that he thinks his sister looks like Angelina Jolie (v.unlikely) and this...

A.   5 July 2007: You for sure need to talk to him and tell him that he needs to be upfront and honest with you. You should tell him how you are feeling about this and that you are uncomfortable because of the wierd closeness that him and his sister have. ... (read in full...)

I'm new to sex... How can I please my man while I'm "on top"? What sort of moves should I be pulling?

Q.   This is embarrasing but I need advice, I am new to the sex life, I have only slept with one man and I still only sleep with him, now when it comes to our love making, he is incredible in bed, he is always on top which i love because he knows how to ...

A.   5 July 2007: Basically move your hips back and fourth. He will probably put his hand on your waist to help glide you but just keep your hips moving from front to back. It will feel good for you and for him. Trust me. That is my fav position and my husbands too. ... (read in full...)

How do I prepare to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time?

Q.   Ok so I have been going out with this guy now for about 2 years and I am 16 and he is 26.. I know the age right. Well he has deffently had sex. And I have but it was always really quick in and out. So I am worried that I might bleed while I have sex ...

A.   26 June 2007:  Ok Well if you two have been together for 2 years and he has waited for you to be ready to have sex then this sounds like a pretty respectful guy. So forget the age part. Now, yes most girls do bleed the first time because it is beasically ... (read in full...)

What does a orgasm feel like?

Q.   Hi this is a question for girls only cuz i don't think guys can answer this question. Anyways i'm 13 and i have a boyfriend who's 15. And yesterday he was finger banging me but it wasn't the first time. But yesterday was different he got me ...

A.   23 June 2007: well sweetie, it does sort of feel like you need to pee when it is about to happen, but the only way to know for sure that you are having one is: you start shaking, your legs twitch and your muscles contract down there. Believe me, you will know ... (read in full...)

I need to lose weight fast!

Q.   How could i lose 10-15 pounds in seven days? I want to look good during a family reunion thats coming up soon. please help!...

A.   23 June 2007: Hi there, I know that wieght can be a struggling thing but if you want to loose wieght fast we are talking about a lot and I mean a lot of exercise a day. and try the raw food diet. I will tell ya what that is: On the raw food diet you eat raw ... (read in full...)

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