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My boyfriend asked me if I would have an orgy, which I'm anxious to try but don't know what to do.

Q.   my boyfriend recenty asked me if i would have an orji. me and 3 other boys. i am quite anxious to try it and would like to give it a go but i wouldnt know what to do... i am ready for sex have done it tons of times but i dont know whether it would ...

A.   12 October 2007: This is always quite odd. Especially when you're a teenager. I'd go with the rest here and advise you not to do it (I guess you decided not to do it). It's a woman's fantasy to be with two men and not many guys are into that cos they find it ... (read in full...)

When we are getting ready for sex I lose my erection almost immediately.

Q.   i have been with my girlfriend for auite a while now, and she has had sex before and i am a virgin but we both feel ready for sex, but when we are getting ready for sex i lose my erection almost immediately. ...

A.   12 October 2007: A long time ago, when I was 22 and my boyfriend was 18, I was in the same situation. I'd had sex before and he was a virgin and we didnt manage to have sex for the first five months of our relationship because he was too nervous when we got to that ... (read in full...)

What has changed since her trip away??

Q.   I have been with my wife since university and married for the last 3yrs. She recently worked in Africa for 4mths and since coming back i eventually noticed a lack of affection towards me. I decided to test this by not kissing, hugging, snuggle up or ...

A.   12 October 2007: Thing is, none of us are good at guessing what the other person thinks. It is her responsibility to look inside herself and find out the real reason why she feels like this now. You can keep wondering until you get blue in the face but that's not ... (read in full...)

I kicked my bf out after I caught him looking at porn and am so down.

Q.   hi there, I am feeling extremely down right now. I found out my bf has been looking at porn again even though he promised me he wouldn't so i kicked him out this time had enough of him making me feel like crap. Yeah i know what your gonna say porn...

A.   12 October 2007: A high percentage of men, as you are already aware yourself, use porn. It's a relief more than a way to be unfaithful. However, it makes you uncomfortable so you should try and find a man that does not use it. Good luck!!!... (read in full...)

After dating me for 4 months he says he is married! What should I do with him?

Q.   My boyfriend just told me he is married after dating me for 4 months he said he didn't tell me because he did not want to lose me. He feels that if I knew I would leave him. What should I do with him. Keep him or throw him to the curb??...

A.   12 October 2007: If he has done it to her, he can also do it to you in the future. He's just not morally reliable. I wouldnt waste my time on a man like that. It's not too late to leave and be happy with someone who is free and more respectful of relationships in ... (read in full...)

My stockings and susps didn't turn him on. Any ideas as to how to get him interested in sex with me again?

Q.   I am very confused, been married 29 years, been faithful to each other, well I know for sure that I have. Sex life has always been difficult with him not opening up and not letting me initiate it,caught him twice this year with porn behind my back, ...

A.   12 October 2007: I feel that most men watch porn mags and masturbate even whilst in a relationship. In fact, I believe that women should masturbate whilst in a relationship too. It's the best way to discover your body and you need time to play with yourself. ... (read in full...)

Do I tell my best friend's brother how I feel?

Q.   I've been extremially close with my best friend since Kindergarden. Starting over the summer i started to like her older brother, she knows this, and constantally said that he likes me back. Then i moved away, halfway across the country to be exact. ...

A.   12 October 2007: Pay your bills late, tell someone you love them early LOL! What a wicked piece of advice, I agree with that! It sounds like you like each other. Take charge and get things done. You dont want regrets in life, good luck!! :)... (read in full...)

He's interested in me - which way should I go?

Q.   i am 21 and i am in a relationship with a guy,A, who is nice,very caring for almost 2 years.we are both aboroad studying.but i am getting bored with him and we always quarrel.recently,i have been chatting online with this another guy,B, who's is ...

A.   12 October 2007: That's the typical triangle situation and it happens so often that you learn to deal with it in the end. I have learned that it's important to weigh pros and cons of being with my current partner. Also important is to be brutally honest with your ... (read in full...)

I'm getting married soon but don't want to neglect my parents

Q.   I am 25 yrs old guy and facing a difficult situation where i am to get married soon but feel that it would do injustice to my parents and others who want to depend on me for their emotional needs. I feel that it is my duty to give first priority to ...

A.   12 October 2007: By getting married, you've obviously made the choice to create your own family and that should be your priority. Ideally, your parents / friends / siblings will respect that choice and not compete for your attention. It's about love. The people ... (read in full...)

Is my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   Hello this may seem like a pointless question but i am just wanting to know what little treasure means? coz my teacher always calls me his little treasure and today he walked in the class when i was alone and said hello Becky hows my little treasure...

A.   12 October 2007: He might be flirty but he is your teacher and there are codes of conducts that should not be trespassed. In other situations, for ex. patient and doctor, client and lawyer, record label manager and band members etc. It's more about him than it is ... (read in full...)

Should I email him to arrange a meeting?

Q.   My husband and I are emotionally separated, but not financially; he works abroad and only comes home 3 times a year. I really fancy a man going through a divorce, and have met him vaguely though social functions, as our kids are at the same sch...

A.   12 October 2007: What you're asking is for permission to be unfaithful to a husband you no longer feel a connection with. What are you looking for, an emotional replacement or just a bit of fun? You need to reflect on what you're after first. What's the point of a ... (read in full...)

I found my boyfriend has been viewing shocking internet sites, what should I do?

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I was going through the web history on the computer this morning, trying to find a page I stumbled across the other day, and came across a load of pages that I can only assume ...

A.   12 October 2007: I think it's always better to know than to stay in the dark and have that constantly nag in the back of your head. Approach the subject subtly by asking him how he feels about these subjects, that you have read an article in the paper about it (do ... (read in full...)

I'm in an awful situation - can anyone offer some sensible advice?

Q.   hi, im 16 and been dating a 21year old and he slept with my friend before me and she is 13weeks pregnant. Then he got with me and I'm late. I dont no whether or not to stay with him as he has offerd me crack. I'm in a awful situation.. I told him ...

A.   12 October 2007: My personal belief is that, unless a baby is conceived in a loving relationship between two people that are consenting adults and not already engaged to someone else, it's better not to keep the baby. Mainly cos a) it's a tough job to bring up a ... (read in full...)

Have I been blind?

Q.   I've just entered my 4th year in school and some of my best friends have pretty much ditched me but I'm still alright with the bulk of my old class. I'm finding it difficult to get a new set of friends that I fit in well with from my new class and a ...

A.   12 October 2007: I have to assume you are a teenager and a girl. I would be very subtle by asking her how she feels about same-gender relationships first and see her reaction. It's fairly normal for close friendships' to have lesbian tendencies since you are ... (read in full...)

Curiosity licks the dog

Q.   What is the best way to mastubate? My dog licked me up once, i didn't mean for him to...it just happened. N it was the best feelin in the world! Is this normal? Dnt want to do it again because it mite giv me a disease or something. Will it give me a ...

A.   12 October 2007: Without wanting to come across like a bigot, I totally advise you NOT to practise this again. Mainly cos it's morally wrong. Pets are like children, they should just be nurtured and taken care of, NOT sexually-interfered with. About masturba... (read in full...)

Anal sex instructions, please

Q.   i want anal sex so badly......could someone give me a step by step guide? and any tips on the first time? Thank you Mia...

A.   12 October 2007: Well, just try it out! Make sure your partner wears a lubricated condom and you add lubricant to yourself cos it will be more pleasurable. Avoid experiencing anal sex in the doggy-style position cos it does not always feel great. Especially at ... (read in full...)

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