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Is it just sex to him? Or does my ex really want us back together?

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Question - (26 November 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 November 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my exbf broke up with me 3 months ago.

Tuseday morning he sent me a message said he wanted to talk and apologize, and he insisted he's not drunk.

so we went out and grab some coffee that night. and he apologized to me about what he did before and he said he regret. if there's chance, he would treat me better, he would tell me everything and protect me.

he also said he wanted to settle down and he wanted someone support him and he felt like i'm the one. i told him i would go abroad in 2 month and come back in 6 month.

he asked me what if some one asked you to stay? i didn't answer. and then he said you should enjoy the 2 month here.

then we went to his place and had sex.

he texted me the next day. then the third day i texted him. then no contact.

does he really want to get back or just want to have sex with me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011):

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i should stop thinking about him anymore. anyway, i'm going abroad in 2 months. so i should enjoy my 2 months with or without him. and i've been living without him in the past 2 month pretty well.

so i won't text him or contact.

if he wants me, it's ok.

if he doesn't, i can accept.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (26 November 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntApparently you haven't ever heard of break-up sex. Some of the best sex to be had, actually. Been there, done that.

He just gave you lip service to get you in the sack for some hot sex.

Don't put off going abroad for a guy...he's not worth it.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (26 November 2011):

Honeypie agony auntStick to your plans, don't let him dictate what you do. I think it was partly for sex and partly to see how much you were willing to do in order to re-start the relationship.

I wouldn't worry too much about it, either have fun the next 2 months with (or without him) and take the time apart to figure out if he really is someone you want to give another try.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (26 November 2011):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntHe just wants to have sex with you......

Good luck....

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