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writes: hey guys i need some help. I am dating this boy that i have strong feelings for. But recently I see him flirting with some other girls like playing around, like poking their stomach,laughing,and talking a lot to each other in front of me knowing we are together. I know he really likes me and i know he would never hurt me but it worries me a lot. Also he wants to kiss me but i say no a lot and "not yet". I was invited to this party and he is going but is it right that i ask him to go in the room. Would it be wrong if we kiss for the first time at the party. What if he tries to go too far and takes his or my shirt? Basically i need help on 2 things. Please respond as fast as you can.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 April 2017):
 Yeah he likes you but he also likes other girls. He is trying to get you to kiss him but you are saying no, he doesn't respect that. Because if he did he would be okay with waiting until you are ready but instead he is flirting with other girls to see if he can get with any off them. Stay clear from him he is bad news.
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reader, CoreMessage  +, writes (26 April 2017):
 Don't. He's into you, but also other girls. He might not want to hurt you, but he doesn't only have eyes for you so he's not gonna give up chances to flirt.
I would recommend not kissing him. Also don't be alone with him. If you're alone, it gives the perfect "advantage" opportunity and he will take it. Save your first time for someone who only has eyes for you and will make it romantic. I can think of much better places for your first time than with some player in a someone else's home.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (26 April 2017):
 He's interested in other girls too, so even if he doesn't *want* to hurt you, he already is by flirting with other girls.
If you go anywhere in private, it suggests you want to go further than just a kiss and he will try to. Do not be alone with him anywhere and I'd advice against kissing him or being a couple because he's not ready to just have one girlfriend.
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reader, N91 +, writes (26 April 2017):
 If he cared he wouldn't be touching other girls.
Wouldn't waste your time on this one.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (26 April 2017):
 Don't kiss this guy. He's not exclusively into you. He has no business touching other women on the stomach, as that is inappropriate. Also, taking off your shirt rarely stops there when it comes to parties, especially if there's alcohol and/or drugs.
Save your sexuality for someone far more deserving in a setting far more meaningful and important than just some quick feel-up in someone else's bedroom.
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