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*riggsman
writes:Hello im a 21 year old guy and my question is im worried about my girlfriends past, I know its the past but some people don't change. I've been talking to thhis girl for a lil over two years I met her on a site, I've never had a real girlfriend just ones in school n never really dated I worked at a Yong age n that's all I was focused on. anyways I met this girl she was wonderful she told me about her childhood n I did to we have alot in common things we like n soo on I like how she's honest she tells me she has a daughter n that was ok with me, so I ask how she met him she said online as well she was about 19 when they met n had a kid at 21 the kid wasn't planned but this guy wasn't mean n lazy and the moved into an apartment together things weren't good at home that's why they moved together but she has the lil girl n she is soo cure by the way she's 5 now, but she breaks up with her ex and moves in with her best friend from high school he's a guy she told me hes still a virgin and nothing happened between them n he was like a brother to her. she also told me that her daughter growing up thinking her best friend was her father n then she moved back home with her mom cuz things got better at home she was online for a long time and the think that makes me wonder is who met her before me she lives a few states away I went there and he fell even more inlove with her we watched tv n we made love but it seemed too easy n early but we been talking for a long time before we actually met, n she told me a story when she was 15 that she went to a party with her bestest friend and they got really drunk her friend was outside n she was inside with a guy that followed her into a room she said to the guy can u leave me alone n the guy was all over her n he had sex with her she said she was screaming but no one helped her she said she seen the guy again n they dated n the father was mad the guy was older n he didn't come around anymore, but she said she's did it about four times with four different guys in the past I think it may be more and the thing that makes me the most worried is she still talks to her friend that she went to that part with at 15 n she says it her best friend n her friend had four kids from different guys and is always fooling around should I b worried why would she b friends with someone like this?
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reader, deirdre  +, writes (3 December 2012):
I agree with Ciar, she does sound a bit troubles
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2012): I agree with Ciar.
Anyone who gets violently raped and then keeps sleeping with the guy consensually after that is off my list of potential GFs. I know people make mistakes but that is just ridiculous.
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (23 November 2012):
 By the description you gave us, I would not call her a slut, but I do think she is unstable and lacking in sound judgment. A troubled home life, shacking up with one guy after another (with a 5 year old daughter) and dating a man she all but says raped her is a sign of...I don't know what but something I would just as soon stay away from. You're young and life is short. My advice is be more discrimminating in your choice of associates. Find someone who has their act together and a good head on their shoulders. Her past is too recent to inspire my confidence.
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