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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Here's my problem. I had a conversation with a friend the other day about how Japanese men cheat all the time. This conversation raised loads of questions in my mind about my relationship with my ex-boyfriend because he's Japanese. Now, I'm going through torture because I have just so many unanswered questions that I'm bursting to ask my ex and I don't know what to do. We broke up 2 months ago and had a quite a bad, painful relationship which mainly revolved around sex. He was so mistrustful of me and jealous of my male friends. He always accused me of sleeping with them even though I was doing no such thing. So now, I'm left wondering about so many things. We didn't have very good communication between us in our relationship but when we broke up, for the first time ever he was honest with me about several things. He admitted to me that he was a very jealous person etc. So I have seen that he is capable of sitting down and having an adult conversation with me. So my question is, should I ask him everything I want to know about our past relationship? After we broke up I stopped contacting him for 2 months because it was easier that way and he didn't contact me. But recently, he's started calling me and suggested that I go and visit him. I said I would go and visit him next month. I'm kind of at a loss for what to do though. I think he might just want to meet up to have sex with me again so my rational side is telling me that I should just get rid of him and not open up this whole mess again. But the other side of me wants answers to my questions, to find out the truth once and for all. It's killing me not knowing some things and so if I found out the truth, it might give me closure. But I think the only way of finding out the truth is to go there and see him because he might not be honest with me over the phone. What should I do? I'm so confused but desperately need to know.
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