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I told him that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow. Am I just a friend to him?

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Question - (28 December 2016) 7 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2017)
A female India age 22-25, anonymous writes:

I told one of my guy friend that I liked him but he just said that let's go with flow.

From that day we started texting a lot. It's been 9 months..

I don't know where exactly we stand.. We talk and meet up sometimes but we haven't talk on this topic. I don't know what to do.

I think if I ask him again as to where we stand, I would come out as desperate. I just genuinely want to know where is this going.

Because if he considers me as just a friend then I need to make up my mind.

Can any one suggest me anything that can help me out.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland + , writes (4 January 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntI think you already know deep down that he is not interested romantically as if he was he would have told you he likes you also. It is clear he doesn't want to hurt you and thinks off you as a friend.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2016):

Or climb mountains! With slogans saying "I love you!"

Or send a million red roses!

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2016):

Denizen agony auntOr leap tall buildings!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2016):

Maybe this guy is not just into you because maybe he is into guys and although you make a good friend to text and talk to he is not considering any romantic action.

I like Denizens comment about needing a guy who will break down a door to be with you, but I think I must add that it woukd have to be a fireman and a fire emergency because in reality girls are a bit spooked by men who literally break doors.

A polite knock is adequate for many occassions! Lol

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (29 December 2016):

N91 agony aunt You know where you stand, as his friend.

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A female reader, Anonymous 123 Italy + , writes (28 December 2016):

Anonymous 123 agony auntThis isn't going anywhere and he's not into you. Don't waste any more time on this guy. If he liked you then he would have taken an instant to tell you so and would have done just about anything to be with you.

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (28 December 2016):

Denizen agony auntSorry but he isn't that into you. Find someone who will break down the door to be with you. Throw this minnow back in the pond.

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