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I get mad at my boyfriend for always looking at pretty girls. And adding them on Facebook.

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Question - (1 February 2012) 5 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2012)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I know that men are attracted to women who look good. I always get mad at my boyfriend when he looks at pretty girls. And he reacted negatively to my action too. After some time, I would feel silly because all men are like that. But now, I think it's a different issue, when he constantly look at pretty girls on Facebook and add them. It makes me very, very insecure and feel bad about myself because I look very moderate. Not a 10. I feel bad about myself. =(

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A female reader, Ciar Canada + , writes (2 February 2012):

Ciar agony auntEveryone looks but proper manners dictate that we do it without being noticed. If your boyfriend is vulgar enough to be obvious about it, and if he's adding them to Facebook then it's time for him to go.

Don't lower yourself just because someone else behaves badly. The next time that happens to you, don't make a scene. Just walk away and leave him sitting there.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (2 February 2012):

tennisstar88 agony auntSo what's your question?

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A female reader, AbigailBradbury United Kingdom +, writes (1 February 2012):

AbigailBradbury agony auntI know exactly how you feel. It's a girl thing. That other girl is right my love, it's all in the mind. He's with you right? Tell yourself that. It's you he comes to at the end of the day. He's yours. No one elses. Just as long as he's not flirting it's ok. You have got to chill out or you'll lose him xx

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A female reader, bardia United States +, writes (1 February 2012):

bardia agony auntAnd if you started added one hot guy after the other as your FB friend, what would HE say? I don't understand why guys think it's ok or their "primal urge" to look around when they have a real live flesh and blood woman in front of them. If he's not completely interested in you and needs to get off on the attentions of dozens of other women, then kick him to the curb and hold out for someone who will love you and treat you with the respect you deserve. Sorry he's such an attention-whore. I just dumped one like that.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (1 February 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntLooking at pretty girls and ADDING them as facebook friends are two different things.

I'm sorry you think you look moderate and feel bad about yourself.... I think i'm fat. I wear a US size 6 jeans... our brains are our own worst enemies

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