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What do I do about my bf's touching and always asking when I am going to lose my virginity?

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Question - (8 April 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 April 2008)
A female United States age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Yeah i'm only 13 and my boyfriend really loves me and i love him we have been together for about a year and he always is asking me when will i lose my virginaty he also always plays with my boobs and i kinda wish he would stop

but i also wish i could stop masterbaiting

i like it

but after i do it i feel wrong

HELP ME!

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A female reader, Lil girl lost United Kingdom +, writes (12 April 2008):

Im 12 and ive had sex its great i love it its a little bit painful at first but its nice go for it i lost my virginity at 11 and masturbating is horrible let your boyfriend make love to you you love him so why not just make sure you make yourself really wet that way it may not hurt at all if hes been with you a year then that shows he loves you go on make love to him youll love it how old is your boyfriend? Mesege me an let me know xxx

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A female reader, Annalisa United Kingdom + , writes (8 April 2008):

Annalisa agony auntHi! First of all, if you don't like your boyfriend touching you up, tell him you are not ready and don't want him to do what he does.

It's your body, your life and it's up to you to let a boy touch it when you want and you can even tell him how!

You are still very young, so don't let him push you faster than you can run.

As for masturbating, most people do it and enjoy it, but some religions teach against it. If you are Christian, we are tought that the purpose of sex is life, therefore masturbation is empty and wrong because it cannot bring life. Whether you believe that or not is your choice.

If you don't, why feel it's wrong?

The positive part of a girl masturbating is that you can learn how you like to be touched. That way, when you are ready for a sexual relationship, you can teach your boyfriend/husband.

Think about your beliefs and what you expect from sex. You might want to just tell your boyfriend you want to save yourself for marriage! If you are firm and sincere with him, he'll have to respect you and will stop asking.

God bless you and good luck!

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