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Attractive or not? - dense black pubic hair.

Q.   I have lots of black dense pubic hair and I don't shave or trim. Do guys find this attractive or do they hate it?...

A.   26 April 2009: I love hairy crotch! it's so sexy when a woman wears thin panties an you get a glimps of pubic hair.... (read in full...)

Son stealing my dirty panties to "relieve" himself...Help!

Q.   My 13yr old son has been stealing my dirty panties and I believe he is using them to "assist" himself. I have found several pairs under his bed and well lets say there is evidence as to what he is doing. Do I confront him about? Do I just ignore ...

A.   26 April 2009: OMG! i remeber going through that stage LOL! not my mom's panties though, that's a little creepy. I used take my cousin's panties out her laundry and sniff em LOL! i actually stole a few pairs when i would sleep over my aunts house.... (read in full...)

Any straight guys know what its like to give a blow job...?

Q.   does any curious straight male know what it feels like to suck a cock? Please tell me as I am interested in experimenting with my best mate....

A.   26 April 2009: Why would you ask? If you want to know, DO IT and find out for yourself! DUH!... (read in full...)

My manly man likes to see she-male porn! Is this a common fetish for men?

Q.   My husband of five years is looking at shemales. He's always had a healthy sexual appetite. However, he has been less interested in me lately and has been acting suspicious so I started monitering his computer. He looks at craig's list everyday, ...

A.   26 April 2009: He probably got into shemales though porn first. Too much porn turns a man into a sexual freak! You don't have to be gay to like shemales. He is just obssessed with anal. I shemale is like a hot woman who has no choice but to take it in the ass! ... (read in full...)

Even although I've had anal sex before and it didn't hurt, why did it hurt so badly this time?

Q.   I've had anal sex before... quite a few times and all has been fine. Even my very first time didn't hurt at all. However... it's been a few months since and my boyfriend now wants to try it again.. so we try to.. but it hurts so much I'm in agony ...

A.   26 April 2009: you should lube and loosen up wit a toy or finger, before you start. ... (read in full...)

Pregnant by my cousin!

Q.   oh God we and my cousin are in love with each other and have been for about a year we started having sex 3 months back he is older than me he is so nice he takes care of me protects me we love each other so much but i just found ...

A.   26 April 2009: stop having sex with your cousin! you did a few times, it was great... now get over it and get back to your school studies!... (read in full...)

What's wrong with me?! Is this NORMAL for a teenager?

Q.   I'm a teenager that just can't date like others do. People my age date because they have a small crush on each other, because that's what you're supposed to do at my age, right? But for some reason I can only go with a girl for love, not just for...

A.   26 April 2009: Cut the nonsense and do your homework!... (read in full...)

I cheated, tried to fix it, now he's planning a secret tryst...

Q.   I cheated about 7 months ago. I had been unhappy for years, tried to tell my husband but he brushed me off. Not that he's bad, he's great, just oblivious. He told me he always thought that the fact that he loved me so much was enough, he didn't ...

A.   26 April 2009: You have no clue how much you damaged you husband psychologically and damaged his sexual feelngs for you. He could still love you greatly but not have the sexual passion for you anymore because you gave yourself to another man. He's wrong for going ... (read in full...)

Should I really have my phone attached to my hip and check it every five minutes?

Q.   My bf is very impatient and has a short temper. I'd also like to mention he has never been abusive to me physically, mentally, or emotionally the past three years we've been together. I wish I could say the same for inanimate object. But... he...

A.   26 April 2009: the first answer was right about this situation being more about paying attention to your partner's pet peeves and trying to accomedate him. You don't have to baby sit your phone, but be more mind full of when he like to call you and put out phone ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend's best buddy is the guy she lost her virginity to?!

Q.   My girlfriend, who is 25, and I are in a serious relationship. My problem is that out of her two best friends, one is her ex boyfriend. On top of that, it's the guy she lost her virginity to when she was 20. They dated about a year, and then a year ...

A.   26 April 2009: You are totally right for feeling the way you do! She's a little nieve so she doesn't understand why you feel like this. She shouldn't be hanging out with her ex! Maybe talk on the phone sometime, or email... but she needs to consider your ... (read in full...)

I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).

Q.   I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...

A.   26 April 2009: Riding an "overweight" woman is so fun! you have no clue the joy you're missing out on!... (read in full...)

I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her (overweight).

Q.   I am with a girl who loves me very much and I love her but I am not sexually attracted to her(overweight). She loves me so much and she will do almost anything to make me happy. She has even offered to let me bring over an escort once a week. I do ...

A.   26 April 2009: Let her give you oral! if she's good at it, she won't need to be "sexually attractive" for you to want to give her a good ride LOL!... (read in full...)

Infatuated with my teacher... but she's female same as me!

Q.   She is a teacher, my french teacher. I stare at her whenever I get the opportunity. She's got gorgeous blonde hair, it goes down to her shoulders. I think about her; like every minute of the day. I'm infatuated. I don't want to have sex with her. I ...

A.   26 April 2009: Talk to her after class or after school hours. Just ask her about her life... college she went to... parents.... where she was born... stuff like that.... (read in full...)

I am a virgin so this type of thing bothers me

Q.   Hi, I am a virgin guy 24 years old. I was on a trip few months back to some outstation.It was a group of some people so it was a nice time. We all slept in a single big room each time. I usually sleep wearing a payjama without underwears. ...

A.   23 March 2009: IF i heard this story when i was a horny teen, my response would have been "DUDE your totally gay! i Would've nailed that old lady!" anyway... you have a right to be upset. how could she push up on you like that! you don't even know her! she could ... (read in full...)

8 years of marriage..6 with no intimacy!

Q.   Help!!!! I have been married for 8 years, six of which have been void of intimacy. My husband can't even hold my hand or give me a hug!!! We have had sex once in six years !!!!!!!!!!! We have had counselling which has in no way helped. I hav...

A.   23 March 2009: Did you have pre-marital counciling? YOur husband is a total fairy! He just used you to have a child. He probably sleeps with men behind your back.... (read in full...)

Loving girlfriend but all I can think about is her exes

Q.   Hi, Im in a loving relationship with my girlfriend. When we started going out everything was great and I was never worried or jealous of previous sexual partners but as we are together longer I get more and more jealous. We are lesbians and ...

A.   23 March 2009: She's gonna end up cheating on you with guys. She's not a lesbian. She loves men but thinks she can't trust them and wants an alternative.... (read in full...)

I don't want to be intimate with him, and he is upset about this

Q.   We've been married for 17 years, and I thought I am the one and only in his life. He had recently started a new job that requires really long hours, he practically disappeared from my life and our son's life, it affected our relationship, but I neve...

A.   23 March 2009: He doesn't have the right to be upset! he shared his body with another woman! It'll take a long time for him to win your trust back. There needs to be a healing in your marriage. You probably need to get counciling. or both of you go to church and ... (read in full...)

I told him once, should I tell him again 2 years later?

Q.   Hi, I don't know what to do. I'm 14 and I really like this guy, the thing is please don't say you're too young because I'm sure when you were my age you were interested in boys. Okay he's in loads of my classes at school, they always make fun of ...

A.   23 March 2009: just act like he's a girls. talk to him like you would another girl.... (read in full...)

Is it ok for them to share a bed?

Q.   Ok, my boyfriend's friend who is female is staying at his house... Before I met him I met him through her they were really good friends.. She used to tell me that she used to stay at his house and they shared a bed but didn't do anything. She ha...

A.   23 March 2009: Your boyfriend shouldn't let her sleep in bed with him anymore. If he respects you, he wouldn't allow it anymore. Tell him you are not comfortable with having another woman sleep in bed with him. I'm sure he wouldn't want one of your guy friends ... (read in full...)

Do I tell her my feelings and gauge how she feels or should I leave it?

Q.   I am married with a daughter of 11. I share my bills, a house and a daughter but there is no love-hugs kisses or anything else. There is always an excuse for not having sex or even hugs. She would rather do the housework or watch the TV. I do a lot ...

A.   23 March 2009: your wife's friend? No! She's not a friend! she's trying to sleep with you behind your wifes back! Why would you even wanna hang out with a person like that!?... (read in full...)

Her libido is way off the richter scale!!!

Q.   I've been with my fiancee for two and a half years. I couldn't ask for a better lady. She's intelligent and absolutely stunning. The thing is though, she has a massive sex drive. She's never satisfied with just vaginal intercourse, she has to have...

A.   23 March 2009: You're Fiance!? Did you have pre-marital counciling yet!? I think you should, because the way things are going, your marriage won't even last two years! She's being totally unrealistic! Damn! does she have a job? She should start exercising to ... (read in full...)

Can't get a job and feel worthless!

Q.   Hi. I lost my job to the recession and credit crunch in September and I have been unable to land another job. I've applied for hundreds of jobs. I've had one interview and the rest never bother getting back to me. I even tried to get a job at a ...

A.   23 March 2009: You think you are worthless because you have no purpose in life. YOu have nothing to live for, but to work, so now that you have no job, you feel like crap. You need to figure out what else you want out of life besides a damn pay check!... (read in full...)

My husband allowed me to have sex with someone else

Q.   My husband allowed me to have sex with someone else. Could he love me?...

A.   23 March 2009: Do YOU love him!? Why the hell would you sleep with someone else if your married? Did your husband randomly say to you "honey, i think you should go have sex with someone else"? if he did, then he is probably doing the same thing.... (read in full...)

I don't know what to do... Should I have sex with him?

Q.   Let's just get straight to the point, I'm nearly 14 and I've been seeing this lad for just over 3 weeks, he's nearly 16, but the thing is he wants sex even though he says he's ready when I'm ready. Sometimes I think he will dump me if I don't have ...

A.   23 March 2009: If he says he'll wait for you and he isn't pressuring you, then what's the big deal? Don't feel obligated to have sex! your just a kid! you shouldn't have that kind of stress in you life right now!... (read in full...)

Husband says he never masturbates! Lying?

Q.   Hi i have been with my husband for 25 years a while ago he was having a bath i went into the bathroom he did nt hear me enter and he jumped up and i saw that he had a hard on he tried to cover it but i know what i saw. Aked him if he was masturba...

A.   9 March 2009: Not all men masturbate. Some men can't get turned on enough by them selves to reach a climax manually. You are a little weird though... why are you getting yourself off thinking of your husband's extra marital affairs? Where you not hurt when you ... (read in full...)

Virgin Girl that is waiting until marriage...

Q.   When I was starting to get to know a boy and the guy getting to know me But, later confused that I was a virgin and his response was that he liked me so much to have sex that he couldn't stop for me that he said that I had to lose my virginity... ...

A.   7 January 2009: Some Guys don't want to take a girl's virginity because it's an uncomfortable and unpleasant feeling for both the guy and the girl. The female is in pain, and some guys don't enjoy sex unless their partner is enjoying it too. Also,it i common for a ... (read in full...)

Should I divorce my husband, and live with my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm a 55 yrs old married woman for 20 years. Recently, my husband diagnosed with prostage cancer. Now he's in therapy and we weren't able to have sex at all. I happened to bump into my ex boyfriend in high school. He's a widowed now and availabl...

A.   14 December 2008: You need to confess your adultery to your husband and tell him you only married him for his dick, and since he can't use that anymore, than you want a divorce.... (read in full...)

Should I divorce my husband, and live with my boyfriend?

Q.   I'm a 55 yrs old married woman for 20 years. Recently, my husband diagnosed with prostage cancer. Now he's in therapy and we weren't able to have sex at all. I happened to bump into my ex boyfriend in high school. He's a widowed now and availabl...

A.   14 December 2008: What you are doing is disgusting! You're supposed to be there for your husband through sickness and in health! Why the heck did you get married! You have no respect for your husband nor yourself. You are treating marriage like a disposable ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my married lover to leave his family for me?

Q.   I'm 41yrs old and single. I have been seeing a married man 55yrs. We had been friends for about a year when one day he asked me if we could just have sex. He said that he was lonely he had no companionship with his wife anymore. I was lonele too I'd ...

A.   13 December 2008: Don't contribute to breaking up a family. This man is wrong for confiding in you in the first place. He was too damn lazy to work on his marriage with his wife, so now he's thinking about giving up, and you wanna encourage that? it you was a real ... (read in full...)

My manly man likes to see she-male porn! Is this a common fetish for men?

Q.   My husband of five years is looking at shemales. He's always had a healthy sexual appetite. However, he has been less interested in me lately and has been acting suspicious so I started monitering his computer. He looks at craig's list everyday, ...

A.   30 November 2008: You need to confront your husband. Addiction to porn is one thing... but addiction to tranny porn... is a friggin desaster! I have been trying for years to get off tranny porn! It's even worse when you actually live out your fantacies and sleep ... (read in full...)

Is it possible that we could end up bi or lesbians if we keep doing this?

Q.   hi, i have a question that is too awkward to ask anybody that i know. it involves me and my bestfriend. we are both girls, 15 years old and have been best friends since we were small. some in our family say we are cousins, but we aren't really. ...

A.   28 October 2008: You shouldn't risk your friendship. Things might get awkard between you two and then your close friendship will go down the drain. I cannot say if you will become lesbians or not. girls are know to often fool around playfully touching in a sexual ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is lovely but too soft and I still think about my ex - should I marry my boyfriend?

Q.   I have been going out with my ex for 8 years. My new boyfriend of 2 years (previously divorced within a year of marraige) now fiance is a lovely caring guy. My ex the opposite bad boy kind of a guy although I heard rumours about him cheating on ...

A.   28 October 2008: You still wanna be social with your ex. You are already betraying your fiance by contacting the ex behind his back. you shouldn't marry. you'd be living a lie.... (read in full...)

I'm so freakin' confused right now. Is this guy for real?! I mean WOW, I don't even know what I'm asking anymore after re-reading this!!

Q.   Ok where to start. I met this really great guy, and everyday I learn something new about him. I kind of had an idea in the beginning something wasn't right with him. But you know the old saying you try not to judge the book by its cover. Well he ...

A.   28 October 2008: Your guy experiemented with someone of the same sex and enjoyed it. He trusts you enough to share with you an experience he had that could lable him gay or bisexual. he had confidence that you would be open minded about it. He probably feels a ... (read in full...)

How does one 'pretend' to be happy in a marriage where the love has faded?

Q.   Looking for tools. I come to the realisation that if my husband and I hadnt got married we wouldve have parted a long time ago. We've made our bed and now have to lie in it. We used to be very passionatly in love, but love isnt enough. Is is ...

A.   28 October 2008: irreconcilable differences? That's called and excuse to be lazy! Love not just a feeling. Love is what you do. it's action. you have to work to keep the love in your relationship alive!... (read in full...)

2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!

Q.   I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...

A.   17 October 2008: your wife could be suffering from postpardom depression!... (read in full...)

He got what he wanted... SEX! So why is he still crazy about me?

Q.   I'm 18 years old. I wanted to stay a virgin until I was 18. I'm not unattractive and I've had a few boyfriends that wanted to have sex but I wanted to wait. Well I had a heart break the day of my 18th birthday, so a little over a month later I ...

A.   17 October 2008: when he said he doesn't want to be in a relationship, he ment that you didnt' have to be automatically boyfriend and girlfriend bcuz you've slept together. He doesn't think you are a slut, he thinks you are a respectable young lady and he wants to ... (read in full...)

Can our marriage be saved???

Q.   I have been married for 15 years and have a 12 year old daughter. On October 1, 2008 my husband told me that he was confused about everything, including our relationship. He asked for help to go to counseling. We started immediatly. Since (2 weeks) ...

A.   17 October 2008: He needs you now more than ever! you need to stick by him 110%. Let him know that he is a wonderful father and husband... do things to make him feel appreciated.... (read in full...)

2 and a half years without sex and we're married!!!

Q.   I have been married for 8 years and for the past 2 and half years my wife and I have not had sex, or had any kind of physical contact or intimacy. We have 2 boys, 7 and 2. The last time we had sex was when the last child was conceived. I have tried ...

A.   17 October 2008: Your wife is a total hypocrite! How in the hell could she go to church every week, and have this situation in her home!!!!? You need to convince her to do counceling. IF she refuses, then you should divorce her! I really don't believe in divorce, ... (read in full...)

I like to be controlled by my boyfriend especially during sex...

Q.   Okay this is wierd for me I am a total control freak about everything but for some reason I like to be controlled by my boyfriend especially during sex and even a little pain is great. I get off being held in lock holds and am totally confused by ...

A.   17 October 2008: everyone has different turn-ons. There's nothing unusual about yours. my girl likes me to bite her all over LOL!... (read in full...)

I'm confused about my sexuality and could really do with your advice.

Q.   I'm confused about my orientation and would like some advice. I'm 26 and I've always found girls attractive, from a young age I have always wanted that coupling relationship with a girl and from about 13 i've been sexually attacted to girl...

A.   17 October 2008: your bad relations with girls will push you to think more about guys. Your using guys as an excuse not to try harder with girls. Don't fall into that trap. Going the gay way may look glamourous and fun, but think about how you will be treated by ... (read in full...)

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