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writes:Dear Cupid, I have no idea what to do, I have a boyfriend who I love and I see when I'm at school. But also I see my ex everyday at school. I think I still have feelings for my ex, I don't know if they're love or just miss how we were, since my ex I have been with 2 guys. One of which I was with for a year. And the other only several weeks. I see my ex at school and I just can't seem to stop wanting him even though I am with my new boyfriend. My ex and I have been broken up since 2010, and we were still young then, but now were both older and grown up more, I just want him. Even though I love my current bf, everytime I hug him I wish it was my ex, I feel so bad that I find my self almost crying because I feel this way.....is it love? Or is it me just missing my ex? Me and him talk everyday, he's in my maths class and we talk my facebook chat almost all the time. We Skype and talk over the weekend and sometimes even on school days.....I feel so guilty I dont know how to get over him! I feel like there is something between me and him, are we meant to be together or am I just being stupid?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for the comments, I went away and thought about it for a while, and I've come to a conclusion. I want my ex back. I am madly in love with him. He's always on my mind, I can't ever not think about him. And I don't know what to do. I don't want him to reject me or anything again. I don't know now how to break up with my bf. and how to tell my ex I like him, again. The last time I told my ex I liked him he wanted to just be friends.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 if your ex was your first relationship then people often romanticize their first as special. And think back to a past glossing over why the couple split up in the first place.
Think long and hard about why you broke up with your ex.
Think about how you current guy treats you - is he kinder, more considerate than your earlier
If you think Your ex is still available (not dating) and you think your ex is superior
in every way and willing AND you have checked if your ex would agree to a relationship reunion IF and WHEN you have broken up with your current boyfriend.
But think carefully - because your current Bf may be a nicer guy all round than your ex.
So try not to rush in and break up with your current Bf as it could be that you just need to work on your inner confidence to work through some issues like guilt?
my good wishes
Abella
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reader, jashey  +, writes (12 February 2012):
Just spend 2 to 3 days with your current b.f on some other place .. do some enjoyable things together... and feel the every moment with him . And after that if you still think about your ex.. then you are in love with him ... u just need to give time to yourself and to your heart to choose the right path ... all the best
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