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Does this guy like me? and how do I respond?

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Question - (11 February 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Seriously confusing guy here aunts. i've known this guy for some time from school.

he's a bit of a show off and a clown who likes to make fun of people. hes never really noticed me (we never were friends and we never have seen each other outside school) but all of a sudden he won't stop bugging me.

he asks me random questions about myself,teases me ALOT, stares at me for no reason in class and has once tried to put his arm around me! he offended me back in our younger days and i haven't trusted a word he has said since.

he also holds doors for me, asks me about swimming (even though he hates the sport) and when he makes a joke, checks to see that i'm laughing.

i'm one of those girls who makes guys stay clear because i can be cold and feisty and i have a strong touch barrier which he CONSTANTLY breaks by touching my shoulder while hes close to me while talking until i move it away myself.

All i want to know is what is wrong with him and what do i do about it?

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A female reader, Beile Singapore +, writes (12 February 2012):

Beile agony auntWell, it's quite evident that he likes you.

Being touchy-feely,acting like a gentleman, trying to get your attention, glancing at you and teasing.

This are all tell-tale signs of him liking you.

What can you do about it? If you don't like him, only as a friend.

Steer clear from him. Don't stand so close to him. Keep a slight distance but don't overdo it.

He'll get the idea that you don't really like to be touched.

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