She lives so far away what can I do?
Q. i meat a girl over the internet. We got talking and the next thing u know were in love. But she lives sooo far away i dont know what to do were only teenagers andi cant stop thinking about her. What should i do.????...
A. 17 September 2009: I know you probabely won't like me telling you this but here goes. It is common that people believe they have fallen in love with somebody over the net. I'm sure you see her as a wonderful person etc. However your imagination of how she is can be ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my clingy friend?
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I have a clingy friend and I've been able to tolerate it for a couple months, but now it's to the point where I'm tired of it. If I don't pick up when she calls me, she repeatedly calls me back until I answer plus she texts ...
A. 17 September 2009: In my opinion you should try and make yourself as clear as possible to her again. Tell her you don't appreciate her clingyness. If she doesn't change her behaviour she could have a dependant personality disorder, therefore you should advise her for ... (read in full...)
Broke up, now I have to move out. Should I tell him I am going?
Q. I had hurtful break up with my ex month ago. It was the most difficult situation I ever faced. He was my true love, he lied on me and he said stay here in my place as long as you need as a good friend and good flatmate, but I found out that he is ...
A. 15 September 2009: You should take things slowly and think before carefully what you do. I understand how you feel that he is your true love etc. This is a dangerous kind of relationship in my opinion, because you are in love and you are ready to forgive him for ... (read in full...)
Straight but kissed another guy, and feeling really crappy about it.
Q. I'm a straight male and this weekend I made out with my male friend, while we were drunk. I've been sort of wanting to experiment with the same sex, despite not really being attracted to other guys.. and only having a history of dating females. ...
A. 15 September 2009: Did you ever put yourself into question that you actually could be Bisexual or Homersexual and are subconjesley struggling with your own fears and misconceptions. Ask yourself why did you kiss this other guy did you feel absolutly no attraction to ... (read in full...)
I have been fooling around with a guy and now I cant seem to get an erection when I'm with a girl!
Q. Im a 23 year old guy, and i have a couple of problems that i think are interlinked. I lost my virginity pretty late, i was 18, with my girlfriend at the time. We had sex a few times and then broke up after a month or two. After that i started ...
A. 28 August 2009: Hi, I think you might be having problems accepting that you could be mostly likely homersexual. I'm Gay and was in denial untlil I was your age. I was in denial for many reasons and factors. One of the reasons was that I never felt attracted to guys ... (read in full...)
I can't figure out if he's gay or not
Q. Hello, I'm a 19 year old gay male. I'm still closeted to all but one person and guess what? I've got the perennial gay problem -- I like someone and I don't know if they're gay or not. I know that this is asked a lot, but I'm looking to see what ...
A. 17 July 2009: I would not ask if he was gay because he would get very shy and feel awkard. I had a very similar experience and I know what your talking about. From your post I would say that I am 100% sure that he is gay. I usually don't say that I am 100% sure ... (read in full...)
I hate being gay! Can I become heterosexual by taking medication?
Q. I HATE BEING GAY. can we deliberately convert a gay person into heterosexual by means of medical treatment? (i.e. hormone injections, hormone medications (such as??))...
A. 24 May 2009: No, there is no medication on the market to change sexual orientation.... (read in full...)
My husband told me he's gay but he wants to be "ex-gay"
Q. My husband told me yesterday that he was gay. It wasn't a big announcement, he just said to me "I have something to tell you, it's important!" so I sat down and listened. He admitted he was gay, and said tearfully "I DON'T want to be this way! I ...
A. 19 May 2009: I believe that there is nothing you can do to change sombodies sexual orientation. Since I believe its genetic.
His lust and attraction towards men won't change. However
if he loves you and is loyal, his homersexuality should not effect your mar... (read in full...)
He is really confused and miserable, and so am I. How can I help him?
Q. i am in a kind of tight situation. my best friend is in love with a girl he has known for 3 years..but..he has been with his girlfriend for 7 years...he doesn't love her.never did.but he was with her,cuz she needed his support and he wanted to suppo...
A. 28 March 2009: In my opinion if he is not married or has no children, he then should break up with her and be with the girl who he is in love with. If he forces himself to be loyal to his girlfriend now he could end up with regrets. It also is going to put a huge ... (read in full...)
Need suggestions for extremely difficult work situation
Q. Ok I desperately need as many opinions and thoughts as possible as this is quite an important decision I need to make with in the next few hours - the more help I get the better. The economy in the UK right now is extremely bad - the value of our...
A. 27 March 2009: In principal I would always rather have a job than nothing however on these circumstances i would not take the offer, there are limits. They would be exploiting you.... (read in full...)
Do you think this will ever go anywhere?
Q. I am gay and my mate always knew it. My mate is a big strong Fence Builder who drives a work van and has 2 teenagers from his first marraige and one more kid he's seen only once from a second marriage. We were in a church together for years until I ...
A. 25 March 2009: In my opinion he was always in denial of his sexuality due to social presure and religous factors. He has struggeled most of his life with misconceptions and fears of his homersexuality. You should ask yourself if you would like to have a ... (read in full...)
Problems with son and college.
Q. I was recently told by my 17-year-old son's college lecturer that he's been getting poor grades. I asked why, and all he said was "your son's more interested in pursuing a vendetta than his grades". I confronted my son, and asked him what this wa...
A. 25 March 2009: I believe you should have asked some question to his teacher. You should ask his teacher were he heard these rumors from. Ask him all what he knows about this vendetta.
I am not sure what his teacher means by saying that your son prefares to purs... (read in full...)
He cheated... now what?
Q. I need all the help I can get! I just went on my boyfriend's myspace and he's been cheating, what the hell do I do? I'm scared, it's been happening for a couple months. I'm so stupid, why didn't I see it before? What can I do? I'm having his ...
A. 23 March 2009: First of all take a deep breath and calm down. Pace yourself. In my opinion you should focus on your boyfriend and not the girl that he is cheating you with.
Tell him straight out that you know what is going on between him and the other girl, and ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and don't want to be!
Q. So I'm 19 years old. I have had a tough, tough life. My Mother had me at 14, she was a drug addict and and alcoholic. So therefore I was adopted by a single woman I lived with her for pretty much all of my childhood during that childhood I was ...
A. 19 March 2009: I agree with loving arms. Listen to her sound advice!!... (read in full...)
How to tell if a guy is gay?
Q. I'm a guy. And there is this guy that gives me some signals. I would like to know if he is in to me. If he is gay or smthing. Well, he hugs me and when i am trying to sleep he comes near me and tells me to kiss his cheek for goodnight. but t...
A. 13 March 2009: I dont know if he is gay but However I am practically sure he is into you. He might have his girl friend for a cover up. many gay people have a girl friend as a cover up. If you like him then make a move. good luck!!... (read in full...)
Was I in an emotionally abusive relationship?
Q. I dated this guy for a while and at first it was casual. I lost my virginity to him and became extremely attached. He would tell me that he has such a busy schedule and he said that if he didn't call me for days or weeks, I shouldn't be mad at him. ...
A. 5 March 2009: I believe its a subjective issue on whether you were emotionaly abused. He seemed only interested in having intercourse with you and from you post it does not give the impression that he manipulated you in an abusive manner when you had ... (read in full...)
He broke up w/his g/f, says he's bi-curious, but nothing is happening
Q. okay, so heres the deal: there is this guy, he says hes straight, had a girlfriend, and I really like him. He knows it, he told me that if he was gay he would be interested in being with me. Were really good friends and I've heard rumors that he'...
A. 5 March 2009: He is still young I presume and needs to come to terms with his sexuality. You should hang out with him and just let things role. Don't make any advances to soon. Once you both start getting more confedent with each other then you can make advances ... (read in full...)
Why plead with me to be friends and then hide the fact from his friends?
Q. I think I should not be in any contact with my ex-boyfriend, but your input would be nice. So, we've been broken up for 14 months now. Since January this year, he has been very friendly. Last month he visited me for the weekend and then insisted I ...
A. 1 March 2009: In my opinion there could be plenty of reasons. Instead of me surmising all the different possiblities why your boy friend is keeping it a secret from his friends that you hang out and stuff. I would ask him why he is denying it from his friends ... (read in full...)
If I was gay with g/f what would my thoughts be?
Q. Hey, im going through a tough time at the moment. Im confused about my sexuality and i have a girlfriend. I like her and enjoy being with her but i keep getting depressed when im with her cos im so confused about whether im gay or straight, or maybe ...
A. 1 March 2009: I think if you feel confused it means that you allready have proberly felt some kind of attraction towards a guy.
Choosing a girl friend or a boy friend is a choice, however who you feel attracted to is not a choice. If you like and enjoy being with... (read in full...)
I don't think I want to carry on, what can I say to end this relationship?
Q. Well... Im thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend who has latly really got on my nerves... But the things is im really bad at breaking up a realation ship, i like dont have the confidence this probly sounds stupid but i feel really bad and i ...
A. 22 February 2009: I guess he is soo proud to be with you and thats why he has told many people because he is soo happy he cant keep his feelings a secret from everybody, however he should have resisted and kept it a secret for you. If your not happy with him anymore ... (read in full...)
Do you always listen to your intuition? What should I do in this situation?
Q. Do you always listen to your intuition,or you just say no to it? I do. I know long time ago ,that my intuition is suffering from repressing it, but if I go with it, I must leave my husband ,and that is the biggest step in my life , after I went to ...
A. 22 February 2009: I believe you could be scared to listen to your own intuition because that means that you would possibly have to take some drastic measures. Your husband seems to be too defensive when you ask him whats wrong with him. He should ask why you are ... (read in full...)
How to ask a guy you like out on a friend date?
Q. Hey well I'm a gay male, and I have a little dilemma.... Well I have a crush on one of my friends and I kinda wanna ask him out, as a FRIEND! My problem is, that I get kind of shy, loose, and bubbly and he ends up assuming I'm drunk.... sorry ...
A. 22 February 2009: You just need to tell yourself that it is absolutely normal to ask him to hang out with you and that there is nothing wrong with it. Just put the tiger in the tank and ask him. However if your in love with him its totally normal that you are shy ... (read in full...)
Is it me or is he a sex maniac?
Q. my husband is opsessed with women of all types porn celibrities, calendar girls. he watches naked girls on line early morning then come and has sex with me makes me feel like he need them to turn him on and I am just a filler. I am getting breast ...
A. 22 February 2009: I Believe that your husband is a sex manniac indeed. However it is natural for men to fantasise over other women. That does not mean he is not loyal to you. However he is not respecting you with his actions. You should have a chat with him and tell ... (read in full...)
He is also gay, I thought he liked me?
Q. hey, im 14 and gay. one of my classmates is gay too and i have a crush on him (we confessed to each other that we're gay). we were talking about getting together and stuff, but suddenly on one day he said he's going to meet someone else. what's ...
A. 17 February 2009: well considering your young age its possible that he could be nervous for taking such a big step. coming out of the closet and then being together with you might all be too much for him at once aspecially if he really loves you, these factors could ... (read in full...)
How do you ladies feel when your man forgets V-Day?
Q. How do you ladies feel when your man of 3 years forgets it's Valentines day and you get nothing. Not a card, not a flower, not a single romantic sentiment? Please advise. I don't know what to do. Mention it? Or just let the day pass by like it ...
A. 14 February 2009: I can understand how you are feeling. I forgot totally about Valentines day and I did nothing for my girl friend. She got really disapointed however I love her to bits, so don't take it too personal allthough you are right!. Take care!.... (read in full...)
Do guys have mood swings like girls do???
Q. I don't know, I just want your thoughts on this.. do guys have mood swings like girls do??? Lately I've had a high temper.. it seems that every stupid thing gets on my nerves... and since I was sick from a cold my eyes were always watering...
A. 14 February 2009: These type of feelings are especially normal at your age since you are in puberty. However mood swings can happen at any age but they get less intensive as you get older. Boy's also have mood swings.... (read in full...)
This family friend is very dangerous but no one believes me, I'm worried!
Q. Please help me! I need your advice badly. My father has got this “friend” who I believe is a risk for the integrity of my family but my father doesn’t realise that because he is a big hypocrite and a kissass to my father. He believes the guy...
A. 12 February 2009: Why you think that this person is a danger to your family??. You don't give any legimate reason why this guy is a danger?. Is it only because he hangs out with certain people that are shady?. If you could give more reasons why you think he is dange... (read in full...)
Should I trust that my online BF really loves me?
Q. :) i wants too know one thing that i always think about this is for guys! Im a 13 year old girl and ive fallen in love with a boy over the internet we've been together for 2 months and i think hes the 1! BUT! HE KEEPS SAYING HE LOVES ME BUT LIV...
A. 30 January 2009: You cannot fall IN love with someone over the internet, although it is possible that he loves you as a person. People usually get a total different opinion from the person when they meet up in real life. So that means that if you would see him in ... (read in full...)
What man stares at another man with passion in his eyes?
Q. I've been married for 1 year but with this man for 6 years. Before we got married any woman would have wanted him, strong, smart, handy, a great lover, a good friend, I can go on , but I will stop there because it all was a bunch of bull sh!t. Maybe ...
A. 29 January 2009: You should end this relationship as soon as possible in my opinion because he obviously does not love you from what I gather from your post. I believe he has also pronounced homersexual tendancies. He seems that he has past all limits allready.
Y... (read in full...)
I don't wanna be seen as coming between best friends.
Q. I am very much in love with my boyfriend however there are a few things which really upset me and I don't know how to approach him on these issues as I don't want to lose him. He would rather go out with a load of people and get drunk on valenti...
A. 28 January 2009: In these circumstances you should talk to you boy friend about this. You are in a relationship and he should be loyal to you if he really loves you. You must clearly tell him that you will not tolerate him flirting and kissing with other people, ... (read in full...)
Can I be fined for my first offence?
Q. This has nothing to do with relationships or anything like that... I just had a serious question. I got a ticket today for the first time. This was my first offence. The officer who gave me the ticket didn't tell me it was a warning or anything. He ...
A. 22 January 2009: YES you can be fined for your first offence.
If you go to court you will be fined. ... (read in full...)
How to NOT be attracted to someone who is off limits?
Q. Is there any way to stop being attracted to someone who's off-limits? if it's not going anywhere, that would just be easier.... :(...
A. 21 January 2009: Unfortunity thier is no law to whom you are attracted to. If you feel attracted to him there is nothing that can stop you being attracted to him. having an attraction to somebody is not a tap that you turn on and off when you want. Take care!... (read in full...)
Am I wrong for following my feelings?
Q. Around this time last year I was messing around with this guy, that I thought I really liked. . . we finally made it offical in the beginning of the summer but after a week into our relationship I realized feelings wasn't true so it became a sexual ...
A. 19 January 2009: No you are not wrong for following your feelings because you are young and still not yet commited. You should make it clear that you don't want to pursue the relationship with your ex boy friend anymore. Do not play any attention to what other's are ... (read in full...)
My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts.
Q. My wife and me have been married for 3 weeks now. But a little problem I never saw her breasts. Even when we were dating she wouldn't let let me see them. She said they'll gross me out (she has a long scar one of them) and also she thinks she ...
A. 19 January 2009: I don't think that you should rip off her bra when you have intercoarse, that would most likely make her upset and angry. You can try and convince her that she should not feel uncomfortable with her scar. That's all you can do.... (read in full...)
No girlfriends allowed
Q. i am 15 years old. my parents dont approve of me having a girlfriend. i love this girl incredibly. they told me to breakup with her but i wont. please help me. i dont want to disrespect my parents. but they are not letting me see her and they are ...
A. 17 January 2009: My opinion is that your parents are interfering with your private life way too much. They should not tell you to break up with your girl friend. They should advise you and guide you but not tell you what to do concerning your personal life. However ... (read in full...)
Ex really hurt in accident-should I go see him? Or not go?
Q. My situations is this: theirs this guy which I'm intrested in and vise versa, but my ex boyfriend of 3 years has recently had a very bad car accident.. My ex boyfriends sister came to my house telling me that her brother wants to talk to me, he ...
A. 17 January 2009: If I were you I would go and see him to know what he wants, so you can have closure. However it also depends what he did to hurt you, which I don't know. Take care!... (read in full...)
Suspicious of my husbands sexuality
Q. please help! i have been married almost 4 years, and have been together 15 years. in the beginning my husband and i could not get enough of each other. now my husbands behavior is bothersome to me. i have suspicions that he could be bi. i caught him ...
A. 17 January 2009: It looks like to me that your husband has some pronounced homersexual tendancies, he could be homersexual or bisexual. I do not believe that your husband is 100% heterosexual. I believe Your husband is not and was not nessesarly in love with you, ... (read in full...)
Is he making a move on me?
Q. HEY!!!!!!!YALLS!!!!!!!!!!!!its me lotmoney13!!!!!back again!!!!!!!! anyways......so you all know that im a gay male and that i have certain.....feelings for one of my friends.......but thats not what i need help on this time...... So...
A. 15 January 2009: Hay lot money 13!!!, I rememeber you!! lol. Its hard to say if he is making a move on you but its possible that he is indirectly making a move on you. However don't rush into anything. Good luck!!... (read in full...)
I don't know if I'm gay!
Q. i am i 15 year old boy and im having problems i don't know if im gay, people think im gay at times. i like to masturbate to gay porn then after that i have no more feelings for it, i started looking at a women and i masturbated a couple of times to ...
A. 13 January 2009: Many young teenagers your age have conflicting issue's with their sexuality. The differece with you is that you seem to be worried about it and therefore you want to seek some advice. I can not tell you if you are gay or not just by reading your ... (read in full...)
My best friend just called me a dumbass....
Q. What am I doing wrong? My ex thinks im dumb, and my best friend just called me a dumbass.. I am hurt. I don't know what else to do, I don't have many friends and the ones I have got treat me like dirt. It is always like this. I was supposed...
A. 9 January 2009: You should CLEARLY tell him that you don't like the way he treats you. If he continues to treat you like dirt, then end the friendship before he gets even more offensive. Friendship is about respecting each other thats the minimum. Don't let him ... (read in full...)
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