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writes: A few months ago me and my boyfriend split up. Not long after it he gets a new girlfriend, I get so jealous when i see his name pop up on msn with a different name beside it!! Sometimes I think he wants me to get jealous. I want to get him back, even though I dont want to get back with him, I want him to get jealous, this would make me feel a whole lot better lol. So have you any ideas on how I get make him jealous ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2007): Im having exactly the same problem. 4 Months ago me and my boyfriend split up afta 3 years, practicly straight away he met someone else. I saw a few girls names on his msm but thought nothing of it, he even admitted it was my brothers friends. I have downloaded a random picture off match.com and used it as my personal picture with a message next to it saying ''I love shaun 4 eva'. Even though im totally free and single litle does he kno this. When I see him sign on I go all sick and Im desperate to talk but I have since found out he has a girlfriend and apparantly he is happy, Im so gutted and im feelin very down as this is the person I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. I dont know what to do anymore. I totally understand what your going through but Im sure It will get betta.
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (3 March 2007):
 Why do you want to get him back ? Because your hurting! Hes clearly not hurting and has moved on... So should you... He doesnt care that he hurt you obviously and you just want to vent your anger, yes it sucks that your hurt but trying to make him jealous wont make it feel any better! Let yourself grieve for the relationship and move on. Hes not worth it!
If hes already got another girl in tow and is making waves else where hes not going to pay any attention... trying to make him jealous wont work... how will you know hes jeaous for one thing ?
Take him off MSN get out there and get yourself noticed, do not waste any time on him, it will only make you hurt more!
Take care x
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reader, chachacha +, writes (3 March 2007):
Take his name off your MSN and block him.
Don't do anything at all to make him jealous, just move on. He won't get jealous anyway if you try to do anything, and you'll end up looking undignified.
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reader, Sadi +, writes (3 March 2007):
 The reason why you want him to be jelouse, is so he can feel pain.. Kinda how he is making you feel... You say that you think he is doing all this, to make you jelouse.... Well, If he is trying to make you jelouse, its cause there are feelings still there. Granted i read what you wrote about how you dont want to be with him...
If you really want to hurt him... Ignore him.. That may sound crazy, but im tellin you... If he is really doing all this to try to get a reaction out of you, or to hurt you, dont let him win... Just ignore him.. When he sees you're not jelouse, hes going to wonder why. Then hes going to believe that you really moved on... Dont kid yourself.. Why do you want to make him jelouse? Is there feelings still there? Let him go... Dont give him the reaction he is looking for, cause thats only making him win his battle..
-Good Luck..
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