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female
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writes:Hi things came to a sudden end in august we were together for 6 years we have children and he sees them regular, we have slept with eachother a few times, he seems to be hanging round a lot one min and not as much the next he says hes not interested in getting with anyone just wants to be on his own he suffers alot with depression, how do i know if he still loves me is regretting his decision he seems misserable most of the time its like he puts an act on too please help
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 Its simple you ask him. Having sex with an ex is never a good idea, and I strongly advice not to go down that road as people get hurt and it makes the pain so much worse to over come. So if he does try to become sexual with you tell him you are not interested unless he is wanting to be in a committed relationship with you.
As for spending a lot of time together, again really this is not the best idea as one of you can get confused or think it means more than it does. Sit down with him, talk to him and ask him what it is that he wants. If he feels he wants to be on his own for a while then tell him that is fine but you need to put some distance between the both of you. I am aware there are children involved, but they can spend time with there dad without you being there and vice versa.
I think if he still feels he does not want to be with you, then distance is the only thing that is going to help him make up his mind if he really wants to be with you or not. If he is still hanging around you and hooking up with you then he is never going to get the space to decide if he wants to get back together with you.
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