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I just listen a lot, and try to share my opinion on matters that can help others. I live in Belgium, some little country in Europe ;-). I have the greatest girlfriend of the planet!

I'm a computer science student, but don't let that scare you ;-)

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Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?

Q.   Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...

A.   6 June 2007: Go to a doctor as soon as possible! No one can tell if you're going to be pregnant in this stage. Usually, you have to wait for 2 weeks or a month to do a pregnancy test. Ask your doctor for more information on that matter. Be responsible and use ... (read in full...)

I'm in a relationship with a married couple - I am deeply in love with the guy, but sometimes see the woman as competition! I can't take it!

Q.   i am in a relationship with a married couple, i am deeply in love with the man as i met him first and have known him longer, the wife however who is born the day after me but 8 years older, sometimes i like her but other times i see her as ...

A.   6 June 2007: So this is some kind of bigamy, right? This is exactly the reason why monogamy is the standard in our society. Having a relationship with two women is not really ideal, and in this case, it's a catfight for attention. As i understand your story ... (read in full...)

I love my mistress but I love my wife and kids, too! What should I do?

Q.   Hi im 36 yrs old male and i have been married for 17 years.I have also been cheating on my wife for 6 years with a wonderful women aged 26 we have a great relationship and i love her like mad. Trouble is i love my wife as well.I dont know which way ...

A.   6 June 2007: If you don't want to see your children get hurt then STOP seeing that mistress of yours. You've broken a vase but you can still glue it together. Stop being selfish and give her up for your wife and children, for christ's sake!... (read in full...)

Will my red pubic hair turn him off?

Q.   I have never had sex before and my boyfriend has been making moves as if he was going to go down on me. I would love for him to do this but I need some advice on pubic hair. I have red hair and I was wondering if guys are turned off by that since ...

A.   6 June 2007: My mistake: In my post below i wrote "It's ugly at all" but that has to be "It's NOT ugly at all"... (read in full...)

Will my red pubic hair turn him off?

Q.   I have never had sex before and my boyfriend has been making moves as if he was going to go down on me. I would love for him to do this but I need some advice on pubic hair. I have red hair and I was wondering if guys are turned off by that since ...

A.   6 June 2007: I wouldn't change anything about your pubic hair. Being red-haired is a unique thing. Why do you automatically think it would turn someone off? It's ugly at all. My guess is that it wouldn't matter at all for him. If he likes the hair on your ... (read in full...)

I get a discharge after being fingered....

Q.   Almost everytime my boyfriend fingers me there's a brownish discharge. The first time it happened we just assumed he broke my hymen because we just saw a little blood, but then I noticed the unsual discharge whenever I'd use the restroom. There was ...

A.   6 June 2007: First of all: don't be afraid of a doctor. In Belgium, a doctor isn't allowed to tell anyone about his patient's problem unless you give him explicit permission to do so. I don't know if that's also the case in the USA. I don't know why you ... (read in full...)

Is he just using me for what he wants?

Q.   heya right I'm stuck! I have loved this boy for 4 years now and I have been with him before and we've been on and off for 3 years and now I want to be with him properly and now hes just being agressive and like saying he dont know what to do?! is ...

A.   5 June 2007: Try to question why he doesn't want to be in a stable long-term relationship. Is he not ready for this? Will he ever be? Does he still want to flirt every now and then? If that's the case, break up or you'll be sorry. How old is this guy? If ... (read in full...)

Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?

Q.   Could you please tell me if my boyfriend hits me once would he do it again?...

A.   5 June 2007: If a dog bites once, they make him sleep. You can guess why they do that. I'd say you better get out of there, or you'll likely regret it... There are one million better guys out there for you. Good luck!... (read in full...)

He asked me to dress up nice for a surprise he is planning! Men - what could he be planning? How should I dress??

Q.   Hey all, Not sure if this is the right place to ask about this, but my boyfriend wants me to dress up for our romantic night in. I have sorted, food, contapception and everything, but I dont know why he wants me to dress up. When i asked him, h...

A.   5 June 2007: All i can say is ... have fun and a romantic night in town! Oh, also, i like it when my girlfriend wears a dress, especially black. It doesn't have to be expensive though. What comes in nice as an extra is a scarf (eg azure blue, gold or pink)... (read in full...)

I have an anxiety disorder which means i can't stop worrying about what people think

Q.   ok so i am in love with this amazing guy, as cheesy as it sounds, i feel as though he is the other part of me. he is so understanding. i met him because my mum started going out with his dad and then we met, we are both adults and told each other we ...

A.   5 June 2007: Saying that it doesn't matter what people think is the problem. The anxiety disorder makes you feel bad about it, although you yourself have no problem with this relationship. I think the most important thing is that you and your boyfriend have ... (read in full...)

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