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hi im 27 and a hardworking mum and girlfriend! ive had my fair share of relationships and men and women in general. im the one my family turn to when advice is needed maybe because im honest and not afraid to upset people with my harsh words of truth!

Why do I feel red and sore after I have sex?

Q.   After my boyfriend and I have sex I notice that my vagina hurts. It seems more to do with if he cums inside of me. For days after, I'm very sore and it feels red and hot. Does anyones else know what I'm talking about. I never have this problem ...

A.   7 February 2007: i think you'd better go to the docs and get screened for all sti's first. It might just be sore from havin a baby i can sympathize with this. But i think the only sensible solution is to visit the doc... (read in full...)

He doesn't answer his phone and makes up excuses as to why he's late. Is it b/c he's older?

Q.   hi im 18 my boyfriend is 25.i love him and we get on really well.but he lets me down alot if he goes out he doesnt answer hes phone to me and makes up an excuse why he was late. hes not very romantic either do u think its because he is alot older ...

A.   25 January 2007: god does this mean every older bloke is a w!!ker. nah i think hes being naughty else where. Hes got an 18 year old girl and hes got an ego with it i should think. Get rid you deserve better from a man dont be a doormat woman!... (read in full...)

My bf resents that I talk to a good male friend. What should I d0 about this?

Q.   Ok, so my boyfriend and I are studying away from home (in Canada). We live together too. He goes home every 4 months and spends time with his family and friends and has a total blast, partying and all that! I go home every 4 months too, but since my ...

A.   25 January 2007: he's just insecure. Reassure him that this is a platonic friendship. I couldnt work out if he was first or your boyfriend. I have many male friends and friends do come in different shapes ages race and gender! im sorry but this is something your ... (read in full...)

I feel I can't trust my bf, but am I just being a clingy gf?

Q.   Hi everyone, i just need some friendly and honest advice. I'm 18 years old and have been with my Boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. he's in his first university which is a big (difficult) change for both of us, at the beginning things were ...

A.   25 January 2007: how long is he there? Another 2 long years maybe. I went to uni and had a boyfriend and much like your situation i started hanging around with people there and me and my boyfriend agreed it just wasnt happening. I think you need to get out girl and ... (read in full...)

Can masturbation prevent my daughter from developing like her friends?

Q.   my daughter is very small chested and has not started her periods and all her friends are the opposite, i caught her masturbating, could this be the problem...

A.   24 January 2007: oh dear and i suppose you think looking at porn will send you blind! She could masturbate till her hand fell off and it wouldnt be stopping her development. I think you need a sex education lesson as you obviously dont know much about it. Its not ... (read in full...)

My teen son is taking Cannabis! I need advice badly!

Q.   have just found out that my 16 year old son is taking cannabis help ...

A.   24 January 2007: see i would go completely the other way. Not encourage but education. As a past cannabis user you could say i was bias. I would gather all information i could on the good and bad points for smoking it. Sit down with him and both read and understand ... (read in full...)

He's teething..but woke up with puffy eyes! Is this a sign of teething?

Q.   My baby is just over 8 months old and has just cut his 4th tooth, up to now he's not really suffered with his teething but yesterday I noticed he has got flushed cheeks which I do know can be a sign of teething but when he woke me up in the night ...

A.   24 January 2007: oh the horrors of teeth! Ear infections runny bums nappy rash are just a few more problems that go with teething. So yes i should say puffy eyes are another one! if your still worried go see your health visitor.... (read in full...)

Should I hold on and hope he gets used to nursery?

Q.   My 2 year-old son is no longer happy at his nursery (he's been going for 2 days a week since he was 7 months old). I am currently on maternity leave with my second who's 4 months old though will be returning to work. What can I do? Should I give ...

A.   24 January 2007: do you really need to work? Has anyone been bullying him? Or is it just the terrible twos! I would find out from nursery what if anything has happened. if nothing then its the tough love approach. Would you consider taking him out of school when ... (read in full...)

What can we give our wheezing child to eat?

Q.   My son is 7.5months old and over the past few months we have had recurring wheezing. We are getting used to administering puffers etc, but my question is, what are the best foods to offer him whilst ill, he is having a problem with eating cereals ...

A.   24 January 2007: unless he's starving and a doctor is concerned i wouldnt worry about food. Plenty of water. And when he wants to eat give him what he wants. ive got an asthmatic boy and yes wheezing is a problem. When he's having an off few days i make sure his ... (read in full...)

Nee help with my research so I'm producing a parenting magazine...can you all help by answering some questions?

Q.   Dear All, I am currently producing a parenting magazine for my university project that is core to behavioural problems in children and feel i need help in my research. Could you please answer a few questions for me: 1 Do you currently buy parent...

A.   24 January 2007: hi im a mum of an active 7 year old boy. no i dont buy any magazines on parenting not because they cost too much because i wouldnt know the price. I think to attract men and women like me you need to call it ' i think im going nuts!' yes advice is ... (read in full...)

Tips needed...to make a guy fall for a girl! Help!

Q.   Anyone got any top flirting tips that can help a girl make a guy fall for her? xxx...

A.   24 January 2007: typical man answer there! For a start if he likes you then you shouldnt have to make them fall for you. dont be a girl tho laughing at things that arent funny just will make him think your a bimbo! That then starts the ball rolling. Be natural eye ... (read in full...)

Can an abusive person be made to leave our home?

Q.   If you purchase a home with someone and that person is abusive can he be made to leave?...

A.   24 January 2007: have you asked him to leave? Is he violent? From personal experience 999 works. sort out legal matters after. The most important thing is your welfare and the police will help remove him if need be. ... (read in full...)

My friend who is only 17 is hell bent on having a child! But I think she's too young. What should I do?

Q.   well this is about my friend, i'm not quite sure what to do. She turned 17 in october. She is in a long term relationship and she recently told me her and her partner had fallen out.They are still together though I asked her why and she said because ...

A.   24 January 2007: i had my son at 19 with my long term boyfriend at the time. And god it was hard. I did everything and i mean everything. After an abusive relationship and 5 years of hell i had enough and went out on my own. if id have known how hard it is then i ... (read in full...)

During sex, is laughter a normal thing to do?

Q.   During Sex, is Laughter normal? Understand that until recently I was a virgin and all I knew of sex I gleaned from pornography. I was having sex with my new gf and I started laughing uncontrollably. She asked what was so funny like I'd offende...

A.   24 January 2007: ah bless you x i hope your girlfriend wasnt offended because sex isnt spose to be serious. me and my boyfriend mess about, laugh fart burp and watever other body functions happen by accident during sex! Relax and if your a giggler then thats that. ... (read in full...)

It was my first time sex, we used a condom, but im worried about the "wet bit" is this a concern ?

Q.   The first time I had sex was yesterday. I just got off my period 3 days ago so there is a lower risk of pregnancy. We used a condom and he seemed to know what he was doing. However, between my butt it was extremely wet. Could this have just been ...

A.   24 January 2007: did the condom split and did you check. id just like to say though good girl for using a condom. Men on average produce about dessert spoon of ejaculate so no it wouldnt look much! Also you do get wet during sex so the wet bit was probably just your ... (read in full...)

During sex, when a guy goes too deep it really hurts. Is this normal?

Q.   Does anyone know what if this is normal or not? When i have sex its fine but if they push too hard or especially too deep inside me it really really hurts! i have recently had a full STI/STD screening and everything come back negative....so i dont ...

A.   23 January 2007: yeah size is the answer but of your uterus. Its only something daft like 4 inches long! So no its not just you. Just try different positions. no legs above your head! :-) I have the same problem although i like the pain!? But there are times that i ... (read in full...)

He's off to a motor bike rally and doesn't want me with him! Should I be worried?

Q.   Hi, I'm not sure if anyone here has heard or been to these biker rallys but this is where my b/f is going and here is what I have to say: I have been together with my b/f for about 2 years. I know you are supposed to trust but i feel its...

A.   23 January 2007: I think you are being way too selfish!!! So you would never dream of going to a hen night with strippers! Trust i think is the right word to use and you dont seem to have much of it. There are skimpy clothed women where ever you go just because its ... (read in full...)

I can't bear to be apart from my bf! Not even for one night! What can I do?

Q.   Hi. Does anyone have any advice on how to get over my problem? I have a great boyfriend, i see him often but we started out long distance. Now i'm going to see him tonight but I won't see him the next day. I know this doesn't seem like a big deal ...

A.   23 January 2007: i am the same with my boyfriend. He works 300 miles away every summer. It kills me. Now i see him nearly every night and i feel like you do when i dont see him. But as i look at it we're gona have years of seeing each other so the odd night away ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has changed for the worse. Please help me I'm so confused!

Q.   dear cupid, i had this hard time with my boyfriend for 7 months and as time goes by, he changes. like he used to call me and send me text messages almost everyday, but now he just sends me messages twice a day and gets angry when i send h...

A.   22 January 2007: sounds like he wants the best of both worlds. Is he seeing someone else? Why not let you text then get angry when you do. Its because your interupting important events. And not work! Get rid and get a new bf. From personal experience x ... (read in full...)

My husband and I enjoy sexual experimenting. We are thinking of having a threesome. What's your opinion on this?

Q.   I have been with my husband for 5 years and to spice things up we watch other couples on internet having sex and let them watch us. We are thinking about taking this to a next level and maybe doing wife swapping or maybe a three some, we have st...

A.   22 January 2007: i have had a three some before with a partner whom i thought i loved. I couldnt have done. My present partner wants to try a ffm but i would never let any other women near him. im a hypocrite but dont care.... (read in full...)

During sex I enjoy being urinated on. Am I strange?

Q.   Hi, I'm a girl in my twenties and I get very aroused when a guy urinates on me. I've seen it in porn and find it quite arousing. My boyfriend and I have tried it once and I enjoyed it very much. Am I strange? Can anyone else relate to this? Is ...

A.   22 January 2007: that makes two of us. You try everything once thats my trick. As long as both you and your partner enjoy yourselves then why not. :-)... (read in full...)

Our sex life is great, but I don't seem to get wet enough. What can be done?

Q.   Me and my bf have a great sex life and i always feel real turned on but i never seem to get wet enough Sometimes I feel like im coming and end up peeing a lil Its so embarasing Does anyone have any ideas I feel a bit silly going with a tube of l...

A.   22 January 2007: you obviously have.nt heard of your g spot! When rubbed or pressed it makes you feel like weeing and keep going and you'll have an ejaculation! As for being dry men love the spit on your finger and play with yourself during foreplay. Have fun ... (read in full...)

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