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Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

Q.   Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

A.   16 September 2012: I doubt he'd take it to that extreme to dump me.. Hes not that kind of guy. He said did actually say to me before that we could wait till i had got my implant in before we started being sexual. But then once we got carried away, and to be honest... (read in full...)

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

Q.   Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

A.   16 September 2012: Yes hes been checked. he says hes had himself checked after every relationship hes been in, plus i got him to take one before we had sex the first time..... (read in full...)

Would his having had a FWB mean he'd cheat after marriage? I'm so troubled by learning about this.

Q.   Hi I am in a relationship for the past 3 years..everything was going smooth until I found out something about my boyfriends past that has left me disturbed.. My boyfriend was friends with benefit with a girl for a year this was before he met me,a...

A.   16 September 2012: Well obviously he's got feelings for you or he wouldnt be marrying you. But youve got to think this was before he met you.. He might of just needed to do that year of FWB to get that wild side out of his system. so it could be a good thing th... (read in full...)

My boyfriend cheated on me, but keeps telling me he misses me!

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years after I found out he had cheated on me with a friend of mine. I was so devastated when I found out. I keep telling him I need time to figure out what I want to do, but he keeps emailing and texting me that he ...

A.   16 September 2012: Just explain when you say that you need space, that his usual week isnt long enough. or say that once youve figured everything out youll get in contact with him.. Hope it helps..... (read in full...)

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

Q.   Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

A.   16 September 2012: Its more me than him.. Because he's been in more sexual relationships than i have.. so im trying to look as cool about it as he is.. if you get what i mean. ... (read in full...)

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

Q.   Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

A.   16 September 2012: He cant wear them because they make him go soft within minutes.. So then we cant really do anything.. I dont think hes trying to get me pregnant because he even said that he doesnt want me to be pregnant, plus i dont think either of us are read... (read in full...)

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

Q.   Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

A.   16 September 2012: Well it could be some form of an allergy, i don't really know. Its just within minutes of him putting a condom on he goes flaccid. I don't think he's trying to get me pregnant cause we have had jokes about me being pregnant and he always say i hope... (read in full...)

B/f doing drugs and thinks its ok as long as he treats me well

Q.   so yesterday i found out my boyfriend did coke.... i had heard this from my friend and literally fought with her because i didnt believe it. then i asked my boyfriend and he told me that it was true but he would never do it again. i got very angry. ...

A.   16 September 2012: I agree you should be worried and upset. its not just how he treats you that can effect your relationship though, its how he treats himself and others that are close to the pair of you (such as friends who are also a couple ect.). I would just jus... (read in full...)

Can I take cerazette now? Help me please.

Q.   Ive recently started quite a active sexual relationship with my boyfriend. He can't wear condoms, which i'm not completely bothered about, as there is other contraception available. I am in the process of going on the implant (implanon) but i am cur...

A.   16 September 2012: He can't wear them because they take all sensation away from him, and make him go soft within minutes.. Ive even witnessed it.. :/ Well i was kind of expecting the doctor to suggest i have a pregnancy test before she gave me the cerazette, sinc... (read in full...)

How can I gain more confidence in bed?

Q.   I know this is going to sound quite strange, but is there anyway to gain self confidence in bed?. That doesn't include anything drastic. As, i've only recently came to grips with my body (like i'm no longer that interested in loosing weight or anyth...

A.   10 September 2012: Thanks ladies.. :D I'll have a think about what you've all said.. :)... (read in full...)

How can I gain more confidence in bed?

Q.   I know this is going to sound quite strange, but is there anyway to gain self confidence in bed?. That doesn't include anything drastic. As, i've only recently came to grips with my body (like i'm no longer that interested in loosing weight or anyth...

A.   10 September 2012: Thank you for your answers ladies.. Yes, i'm the same size as we were when we got together. Im also quite short and heavy set.. Im 5'1 and 12 stones. This is the first bf i've had in years.. Since the last serious relationship i had kind of left... (read in full...)

During sex, when a guy goes too deep it really hurts. Is this normal?

Q.   Does anyone know what if this is normal or not? When i have sex its fine but if they push too hard or especially too deep inside me it really really hurts! i have recently had a full STI/STD screening and everything come back negative....so i dont ...

A.   10 September 2012: I know what you mean by the pain, but it isn't just pain, i know this might sound a bit daft but its also an over whelming 'full' feeling.. i told my bf it was hurting so he did go a bit more gentler, so that was good XD But afterwards he said 'how ... (read in full...)

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