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How can I tell my boyfriend I'm ready to have sex with him?

Q.   Im a 16 year old girl who is a proud virgin, and my ex boyfriend who i like has asked for sex in the beginning and I told him no. He now after 6 months still likes me and never even hints the idea. But now all of a sudden im craving sex! What do I ...

A.   11 November 2011: hmm, It's sad how culturally in America, people consider virgins not normal. That's why most girls would be lucky if they reach 17 and still virgins. my only advise for you is not to lose your virginity until you 100% totally convinced. Be confident ... (read in full...)

Ideas for a first date? Would it be too forward to invite her to my apartment to watch a hockey game?

Q.   alright so there is this girl in one of my classes at university and i really want to ask her out. We have gotten to know each other a bit in the 2 1/2 months that we have been in class together, we usually end up sitting next to each other and get ...

A.   11 November 2011: I can't really be sure what exactly are you planning to do with her for the long term? if it is just flinging then it might not matter a lot but, it is risky thou cuz some girls don't like the pretty forward guy! BUT if you like her more than that ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my co-worker that I love him?

Q.   Please help me. Im in love with a guy at work. The problem is we both work for the same company but in different branches. And we meet only once a week when he comes to visit the branch where i work. I dont know much about him. All i want to know is ...

A.   11 November 2011: I suggest you know him better, get his phone number and it depends on what you would like to do with him. Are you planning on a LTR/ or to settle down..? flinging or what exactly? once you know him better and once you determine your goals, you can ... (read in full...)

He's cheated and given me an STD! How do I confront him?

Q.   Hi everyone I have just found out my boyfriend of a year has been cheating on me and now I have a std I really loved him but now he has been cheating on me I know I have to break up with him how do I bring this up to him I know he has been cheating ...

A.   24 October 2011: simply, send him an email or text him, as a start.... (read in full...)

Do I have trust issues? My G/f blames me for being upset at her, due to her exchanging flirty texts with guys.

Q.   i just found out that my girl friend is exchanging dirty messages and flirts on the phone with a guy she says is her friend. i asked her about it and she got all defensive n blamed me that i had trust issues,plz help....

A.   24 October 2011: She is a cheater with so little love for you.... (read in full...)

Why are people disgusted by prostitution, but acceptant of celebrities that are basically just high class prostitutes?

Q.   This is just an out of the blue question really, something that often confuses me when I see questions or comments on the subject of prostitutes and related subjects. I do not by any means agree with prostitution, what baffles me though, is peoples ...

A.   24 October 2011: I totally agree with the asker, it is a form of prostitution. Remember money is there in all cases, pleasure, work and profession, yet two things are missing in case of non taped prostitution: (Arts) and (entertainment for the audience). ... (read in full...)

I found out that my girlfriend was talking to another guy, on the phone? What should I do?

Q.   My girlfriend was working and a guy that she use to hangout with called her and they were on the phone for 20 min or so. Should I get mad at her? Plus she was ignoring my phone calls. What do I do ...

A.   24 October 2011: you need to give us more details about it, wwas this friend an ex? how far was her relationship with him, I'm sure your doubts have a reason and maybe a valid one. in the end and eventually you will easily know and feel if she is perusing any rela... (read in full...)

Could this be a game she plays? Is this just her setting me up for heart break?

Q.   Thanks for everyone who has taken the time to answer this. Ok so I'm almost 19 year old male student in college. I started talking to this beautiful woman who I met in the computer lab (23 by the way) at my college. We started talking and I got to...

A.   24 October 2011: I think you should get involved- your self- in lot of activities, sport and clubs to be busy beside studying or seeing your friends and most importantly never stop your life for her and think too much ( obsessed about her ). The fact that she is b... (read in full...)

34 year old Saudi woman dating a 50 year old American man for 9 years.

Q.   iam 34 years old woman dating 50 years old american man for 9 years,i met him when i was 26 and he was 42 and we are completly commeted to eachother. we are trying to be married 5 years back but my family refuse him for 2 reasons,one, he in not saud...

A.   23 October 2011: if you both have the same belief/ religion, I think you can marry him. maybe your family is rejecting him for a premarital relationship between you both in a conservative society like Saudi Arabia ... (read in full...)

I don't want sex to hurt

Q.   I have a sex question?well like a 2 years ago I had a boyfriend that took my virginity half we tryed having sex but when he was putting it in he only put it halfway in it poped but we didnt do it cause I jumped out I guess it hurt me cause I wasnt ...

A.   23 October 2011: The only advice I think you should be aware of and be careful from is don't get infected with HIV or STDs. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Do I tell my fiance about this? Accident while Doctor attended to me. Does this mean I'm not a virgin?

Q.   Hello everyone. I'm a 24 year old virgin. I've never done anything more than kiss heavily. I'm perfectly fine and happy about that. I'm engaged to a wonderful girl who is just like me; needless to say we are insanely eager to get married and ...

A.   23 October 2011: hmm what exam possibly made the doctor's face close to your penis? just wondering? I really don't think,any ways, if this really happened that you need to tell her. Its risky! After you both get married you can tell her. Remember that your intentio... (read in full...)

I'm worried that ex put naked photos of me on the internet

Q.   I was in an internet relationship with a man in a middle eastern country for 3 years. In the beginning I did cybersex with him and didn't have enough sense to keep my face off of it. I stopped doing it a few years ago but am terrified he might have ...

A.   23 October 2011: "fake it till you make it!" even if you cant stop thinking about it, try pretending you are. Believe me once you forget about it it will just berried in the past.... (read in full...)

I'm worried that ex put naked photos of me on the internet

Q.   I was in an internet relationship with a man in a middle eastern country for 3 years. In the beginning I did cybersex with him and didn't have enough sense to keep my face off of it. I stopped doing it a few years ago but am terrified he might have ...

A.   23 October 2011: "fake it till you make it!" even if you cant stop thinking about it, try pretending you are. Believe me once you forget about it it will just buried in the past.... (read in full...)

Condom break!!!!

Q.   I'm panicking right now. My boyfriend and I had the condom break on us two nights ago. I had forgotten to take my birth control for two days (and so was on my period) before he visited (I took my pill the day we had sex, but I didn't not take two ...

A.   22 October 2011: I think if he is not ready to be the father and not to be there with you when you need him, then he is not worth to be your bf any more since this thing happened by accident.... (read in full...)

I dumped him by accident, now he says he's over me!

Q.   I am 14, I think I love this boy at my school, me and him went out for a while, but I over thought about if going out with my best mate is a good idea, and I did dump him by accident because of that. I now want him back very much, but he is already ...

A.   22 October 2011: I will tell you how I feel as a boy on a similar situation, we like the smart girl who values herself. He will never look at you if you keep running after him, letting him feel he can get you whenever he wants! focus on yourself and you will find ... (read in full...)

What's the possible reason to why he's acting like this?

Q.   Hi, So yesterday me and my boyfriend of almost 2 years went out together had a really nice day, even bought me one or two things too which was out of the blue but very very nice and kept telling me he loved me and missed me because we hadn't b...

A.   22 October 2011: Oh dear! sry to tell you that, but this is definitely bad sign. The least is that he is busy (either having terrible hard time OR with another friend(s)) any way, you should know about it and the easiest way is through his face book. Let a friend of ... (read in full...)

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