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blast from the past - but does she want me ?

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Question - (19 November 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Six years ago my best friend went out with this beautiful girl which I had a huge crush on and then she ran away with another guy. Leaving him distraught.

In april this year I saw her again and this after 2 children and a divorce.

We hit it off and it was amazing we had so much in common I thought I had met my soulmate. I helped her regain her confidence. We were really happy and because she was in the poor house I would give her money even though she wouldn't want it and promised to pay me back shes very proud and independant.

I then broke my leg badly (playing with her kids) and after about a month. She broke it off with me. She said that by helping her financially that she felt she was loosing her independence. Initially she just wanted space and told me that when she was on her own 2 feet that we could continue our relationship. She later told me that she was enjoying her new found freedom and couldn't promise me that we would or not have a future and that we should keep on being friends. I love her completely and I want a future with her (her kids love me and accept me and I them). What must I do? Is there a future for us?

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A female reader, Aunt Charlene +, writes (29 November 2006):

Aunt Charlene agony aunthello,

im sorry to be the one to tell you this but the woman is just playing the field.get away and stay away she will only keep hurting you.

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