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writes: I have been in a relationship for six years and am nw eight months pregnant. I have just found out that my boyfriend has been cheating on me for the last three months. I really don't want to be a single mother but this is not the first time and i fear that it won't be the last. I really don't want to go through the pregnancy and birth by myself- what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): to me you don't have to tollerate this kind of treatment. Your worth so much more than that it's hard to be a single mom but it can be very rewarding to I was a single mom befor and I found it hard cuz I was only 16 but If I was you kick him to the curb if he cheats once he'll cheat again then they tend to drink possible do drugs and become abusive you don't need the heart ache and you child doesn't need this kind of life style. Trust me there is someone out there that will love you and your child and won't have even the desire to cheat on you cus he'll love you unconditionally. I know I found and married one so keep you head up ,stay strong and make alife for you and your child and the rest will fall in to place.Please remmember your worth lots and your not a door mat. Best of luck for your future and babies too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): Awh honey, I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. It must be pretty horrible for you. But being a single mother isn't all that bad, you know. It's not like it was a one night stand, you loved that guy. But it's time to pack your things and go, because you can give the baby a great future by yourself. Get a female friend to help you through the birth, whether it is someone your own age or your mother. There are plenty of other options, and staying with a guy that cheats on you shouldn't be one of them!
Show him this is the end of it. You're an independant woman, and deserve more than he is giving you. Move on honey, because he's no good for you OR the baby.
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