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writes:alright, i've been with a girl that has had quite a few ''bad'' relationships for quite a while now, and just last night she told me that she didn't think she was ready to be with anyone yet, she say's she likes me, and i can personally say i've never felt this way about a girl before, and i don't want to just let her go, anything i can do other than wait? Reply to this Question
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reader, devo584 +, writes (7 August 2008):
devo584 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok, now she is saying that she doesnt think she wants a relationship in highschool, because of all the things thats going on, like school, work, and she's gone every weekend, but this is the greatest girl i ever met before, and like i said, i cant just let her go, and im afraid that when i see her, im going to want to kiss her, hug her, and hold her hand and all that other stuff, but she doesnt want that, so what should i do?
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reader, devo584 +, writes (7 August 2008):
devo584 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok so.. now we spoke again, and she told me that im an awesome guy and we should still be friends, but there is so much stuff in her life right now like.. a job, school, and small family troubles, and she said that she doesnt think she wants to have a boyfriend for the rest of highschool, so now what do i do? like i said before, i cant just let her go, i mean.. she's the greatest girl i ever met, and being friends.. it doesnt feel right, for example, she want's me to go to the mall with her, but as soon as i see her im going to want to hug her and kiss her, and hold hands while we walk through the mall, so what should i do?
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reader, XxAnGelXxx  +, writes (2 August 2008):
 Glad i somewhat helped :D hope everything works out for you and good luck me dear x angel x
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reader, angelmaz +, writes (2 August 2008):
I am sorry to say but there isn't really anything you can do. Just wait and take things slowly. Show her you are totally different to all the bad relationships she has been in. Just listen to her and be a friend and things will soon develop.
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reader, devo584 +, writes (2 August 2008):
devo584 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks to both of you, before i got your answers i never would have even thought about doing that (considering she was my first girlfriend) but yeah.. thank you soooo much
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2008): I agree with Angel. If you be a friend, supportive and show you care then you can't ask for more. You can't force someone to like you, and shes said she does like you. So I suggest you give her time to clear her mind.
However, don't be really clingy and posessive. That would be bad on your part. She would hate spending time with you and go off you.
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reader, XxAnGelXxx +, writes (2 August 2008):
Just give her some time, but in the mean time be there for her as a friend, show her that you care and maybe she'll feel more ready to get back in a relationship (with you, of course) than even she expected x
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