What makes a man lose his hard-on during sex?
Q. What makes a man lose his hard on during sex?...
A. 29 September 2009: I wouldn't mention another bloke's name. Guarenteed mojo stopper apparently... (read in full...)
Am I wrong in thinking he likes me...?
Q. It starts off like any night would.... So my will-be stepbrother and his mom came over last night b/c they and my dad had an event the next day. We all sat on the couch watched movies and just had a good time. Our parents finally said at 10:30 th...
A. 29 September 2009: Pretty hard to tell- but sounds like he does. Just be careful. You are under age so don't rush into anything you don't really want... (read in full...)
What do you make of his behaviour? I really like him but he is acting really weird!
Q. Hey There, I've been having a problem and i really need your help! Basically there's this guy i've been liking on and off for a long while and only recently have we started chatting. But he can be very confusing in his signals..you see i really want ...
A. 29 September 2009: Yea, that guy likes you and has has really odd behaviour to show it. maybe he's not used to being around girls.
I'm going through the same thing- except my guy isn't that weird.... (read in full...)
How can I find out things about him without getting hurt?
Q. Hi. You may have guessed by now that I don't have the best luck in men. Five have been gay and the rest are just to horrible to speak about. Right... I've met this really nice guy at university. We're both in our early 20s and as far as I know we...
A. 18 September 2009: Hi,
Well more details.... I'm still working on the girlfiend issue. Although thanks to facebook hunting- the girl I thought was a maybe is now a definate no. I am friends with her too so a bit relieved that she's not competition.
I get the impressi... (read in full...)
How do I show this married man I'm over the affair?
Q. I mistakenly had an affair with a colleague that lasted half a year. We became extremely close but I ended things with him because I wanted more and knew it would be an emotional dead end and the whole act was beating me up inside. Now this man a...
A. 29 April 2009: You could always start dating again. that might show him you've moved on.... (read in full...)
I don't want to cheat--how do I stay faithful!
Q. Ok so ths is kind of hard to explain. im 22 and is engaged with two kids. One daughter adopted who is 18 months and my newborn son who is 8 weeks old. I love my fiance and my family to bits but we have had troubles and low points in the past ...
A. 3 January 2009: It's ok to find other people attractive. And as long as you don't act on your urges, it sounds like you're doing the right thing already. ... (read in full...)
I don't want to get too close
Q. a good friend told me that he is attracted to me. i like him a lot as a friend and he is a great human being. in general i am afraid of relationships/getting close because im insecure about my many faults and hide some big emotional problems. i ...
A. 3 January 2009: Don't feel insecure. Just concentrate on the stuff thats good in your life and it becomes easier to ignore the stuff you feel bad about. A few months ago I got really insecure about myself, so I wrote a list of stuff I liked about my life and myself ... (read in full...)
How old should I be before I have sex?
Q. how old do yall think i should be before sex?...
A. 31 December 2008: It all depends on you. Im 21 and still a virgin. My advise would be wait until you are ready. I know from experience that this can be frustrating and you just want to get it over with, but I'm just waiting for a nice guy who I feel comfortable ... (read in full...)
Girls!! Why do you like the "landing strip" so much?
Q. Soooooooooooooooo question to all girl, i wasnt wearing a shirt and my girlfriend saw the hair going from my belly button to i guess the lower part of my stomach i guess some people call it a landing strip or many other names. My girlfriend like ...
A. 31 December 2008: Is the landing strip not a sign of lots of testosterone too? That could also drive women crazy about it.... (read in full...)
Is this relationship too risky?
Q. My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 5 years younger,and his son 10 years older. I'm only 23 and he is 53. Is it going to work on the long run? Can we have plan to have babies ? He has grand children.. Right now ,he can still ha...
A. 31 December 2008: The age things works for Michael DOuglass and catherine Zeta Jones.
However, from your description, you say he likes you for being young. Is that love or is it lust? He could just be trying to hold onto a past self that he is losing rapidly.
If it... (read in full...)
We had sex - did the sperm stay in there?
Q. After me and my girlfrfind had sex we ate dinner we laughed we pretended like nothing had happened because my mom was there. She told me she felt something squirting out of her vegina...so is it possible that the sperm that was in her might of came ...
A. 31 December 2008: It wasn't sperm- she was probably still a little turned on and came a little bit. It's a thing that happens to most women. Nothing to worry about.
Although, especially since you are under age you should not have had sex in the first place and real... (read in full...)
She doesn't believe in sex before marrige, how can I bring her around?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been living in Banff, Canada for the summer and have met a girl that I really like who's a similar age. We've got with each other a few times and I've slept round her house after nights out and what have you......
A. 22 June 2008: I can actually see your point of view. Maybe have a proper discussion with her. It sounds like you've not discussed it except when you've been frustrated.
but after this, if she still doesn't want to there's nothing you can do without appr... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time getting over this girl....
Q. So I dated this girl long distance for two months, went and visited her a few times, fooled around a little bit. It was her who expressed interest in me initially and then I took the step of asking her out. Anyways, before she comes home from ...
A. 22 June 2008: Ok, don't take this wrong way, but if you were over messaging her she probably blocked your email address long before you sent the apology. Also, she may be under the impression that men who have expressed a romantic interest in her never want to be ... (read in full...)
Which guy is the father?!??
Q. well basically i split up with my boyfriend christmas just gone and started to have another sexual relationship with someone else. I slept with him once (few times that night) january 8th den got bk with my original boyfriend febuary 14th. I then ...
A. 22 June 2008: sorry to be so abrupt, but did you ever not use a condom with either bloke? that could give you the answer.
If not, I would say your boyfriend was the father. Atleast I hope he is, you seem more attached to him than this other bloke.... (read in full...)
Advice on looking after children under 5!!
Q. This isn't a relationship, sex or dating question but I've got a new sunday job working with little children, just to get me some money. The only thing, they are exhausting and I can't seem to connect with them. It's not like I'm a naturally scar...
A. 22 June 2008: honestly? just play with them. if they aren't comfortable with you yet, sit far enough away so that they feel comfortable in your presence. Let them come to you. That worked wonders at a nursery i was doing a placement in. I found a corner of the ... (read in full...)
I am on the pill but have noticed spotting and strange discharge, what does it mean??
Q. Okay.........I am on the pill I will say just to start off. On Saturday, I noticed that I had some slight spotting. Now, I have a light brown discharge. Do you have any idea what this could be?? There is NOT a foul smell or any other problems. ...
A. 26 December 2007: its ok. i have this problem all the time. its just your body getting used to the pill. if you're not taking it at the same time every day this can happen. my period once started 3 days early because i did this.
its completely normal to have disc... (read in full...)
Is a 7 year age diff too much?
Q. well i actually want to know if it is wrong to date someone who is like 7years older than i am...
A. 18 December 2007: I don't think so. Look at Catherine Zeta Jones. Its a twenty year gap or something between them. If it makes you feel better I like a guy and its 6 years difference btween us. ... (read in full...)
Could this slight bleeding be 'implantation bleeding'?
Q. My girlfriend had her last period on the 26th of November, we had sex on the 5th of December. She still hasn't got her period but for the last four days [Sat,sun, mon and 2day], she's bleeding slightly [pale red colour]. She did took the pill 1hour ...
A. 18 December 2007: There's only one way to be certain if you're girlfriend is pregnant. You can take pregnancy tests as early as a few days after sex nowadays. Some periods can be late or irregular. If this is the problem you could try the pill. Another thing it could... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 12 December 2007: This is sorted. Thanks for advise, but I just thought that I should move on, he and his girlfriend really do belong together.... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 8 July 2007: thanks im not a bad person really. i just really like this guy.... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 7 July 2007: I would if she would listen. they're a very outspoken family. Anyway I wouldn't want her to find out that I like him. She is bound to tell him and that's something I want to keep to myself until better times.... (read in full...)
He's 34, I'm 21 and still live at home. My parents found out and went proper mental... !
Q. I am a 22 year old who still lives at home with her parents. I met this great guy through a woman that I know (he works for her). He is 34 and that is no issue to me, but when my parents found out, they had a heart attack. They freaked out on me ...
A. 6 July 2007: You're right it is your decision to make. You're well over the age where your parents can legally make decisions for you. I'd say continue to see him and if your parents can't deal with it move out if you can afford your own place. ... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 5 July 2007: well im not going to forget him but im not going to interfere anymore- if that's what you call it.... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 4 July 2007: I'm trying not to do anything.... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 4 July 2007: She already does interfere and he knows it. I told him what she thought of me.... (read in full...)
I have the biggest crush on a guy at work!!
Q. I've fallen for a guy at work, we get on really well as friends, we have loads in common, and his family like me. Only problem is he has a girlfriend, and I'm friends with her. I would never do anything while he's still dating her, I'm not that kind ...
A. 3 July 2007: The thing is its weird because his parents like me more than his current girlfriend. I don't know how much he listens to his mum but I think I have a powerful ally.... (read in full...)
I'm hearing stories about him and I don't know what to believe
Q. Hi, I really need to know what i should do.I'm in a 9 month relationship with a guy that is older than me.I have done the last hing for him. At first my parents didnt approve of our relationship (our families had a fall out) and i ran away from home ...
A. 3 July 2007: These people spreading stories about him could just be jealous of your relationship with him. Do you think he would cheat on you? You clearly trusted him enough to take the relationship further. You know this guy better than anyone on this site. Wh... (read in full...)
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