Four year age difference. is it too much? Do I go with it? I think she loves me already
Q. Is there anything wrong dating a girl 4 years older than you are. I am 22 and and this girl is 26 and i believe she does love me because anytime we are together she likes touching me,she'll like to rub her hands around my body. At times she'll t...
A. 16 January 2012: the older you get, the less important the age different becomes, and less visible. she is just 26, you are both in your "mid twenties", i wouldn't be that bothered :)... (read in full...)
We argue, don't talk, no sex, no date nights, no vacations. I'm fed up, what do I do?
Q. I'm 31 and my boyfreind is 46, we argue, don't talk for a wek at a time, no sex, he don't take me out movie, dinner, shopping nothing, no vactions together, I'm getting really fed up this being going on for years what should I do?...
A. 16 January 2012: lol, you say it's been going on for YEARS? even MONTHS in that case would be too much....
you should go separate ways i'm afraid.... (read in full...)
Is he too old for me?
Q. I am 20 and recently started dating 31 year old man. We get on well, but is 11 years too big an age gap for a relationship to work in the long run? ...
A. 16 January 2012: i think it's fine, as long as you trust and respect each other.
if you started to see him recently just give this relationship some time and see how it goes.... (read in full...)
My son's wedding will be a disaster!
Q. My son is 37 and marrying a 28 year old woman. My son is getting married this summer and im not happy with the way his fiancees family and friends re-acted at the engagement party 2 weeks ago because im afraid they will ruin the day of the weddi...
A. 16 January 2012: haha seems like you don't like the Irish much, do you?:)
and seriously, this is HIS wedding, not YOURS. let it all be his way :)... (read in full...)
I found dirty knickers in my husband's car
Q. I found dirty underwear in my husband car and they aren't mine I don't known what to do? Dirty females underwears in my husband car? Im confuse I don't know what to do....
A. 16 January 2012: i think he has cheated on you and forgot to get rid of the "evidence". you need to confront him about it!... (read in full...)
FWB - I am tired of being the girl he can have when he wants but doesn't want to be with. Please give me advice?
Q. i have a male friend, we've known each other since we were 7 or 8, and when we were around 15 we dated briefly for about a week, before he decided we should just be friends. ever since then we've both seen other people, but as soon as we were sin...
A. 12 January 2012: yea he used you, not necessary did he mean to hurt you, but he doesn't want you to be anything more.
don't cut him off (although i would if i were you), bit keep away from his pants :)... (read in full...)
Is a 3 year age gap too much?
Q. Ive recently met a girl who i like. We havent done anything yet, but we get on really well and have been seeing each other a bit. Thing is though, there is a bit of an age gap. Im 20 and she is 17. Is that ok? Im from the UK and the legal age of ...
A. 8 January 2012: it is not a massive age difference, go for it!... (read in full...)
Should I have sex with my first cousin?
Q. MOD NOTE: In some parts of the world this is a crime. Hi all, I'm a 25 year old male and I have a female cousin who is 23 (our mothers are sisters). We have grown up together since we were babies. We're both single adults now, and in the past ...
A. 8 January 2012: she's your first cousin, that would be bit weird for me.....
better find a girl you're not related to.
good luck!... (read in full...)
A really nice guy - does he want something more??
Q. Hi, I have a friend who is just super-nice to me and that is what is bothering me. He is just so nice. He's a friend, and we've been friends for about 2 years now and we met through mutual friends. A few months ago, he relocated near my area, ...
A. 8 January 2012: i don't mean to make you sad, but in my opinion if it lasts for over 8 months now and nothing has happened yet, it could easily go on for a year more and nothing would have happened either.
he's just a really charming, chivalrous, lovely and good... (read in full...)
What is worse: His age difference or his lie?
Q. My BF says he is 38, but i found out he is 45. And i'm 27. Should the lie or the big age difference bother me? Is it too much of a difference? We are planning to take the r/ship to the next level....
A. 7 January 2012: the age difference wouldn't bother me, but the fact he lied to you about something as important as his age is a massive issue! it's obvious you WOULD find out anyway!
i wouldn't trust him anymore.... (read in full...)
Are men in their early 40s usually uninterested in sex? He tells me some relationships don't need sex
Q. Hi, do men in their early 40s go off sex?. My partner is 42 and our sex life is non exsistent. He says he is tired and that some relationships dont need sex, that you can be with someone and friendship is more important. I am 6 yrs younger than him ...
A. 7 January 2012: men in their mid 40's might suffer from lower sex drive, rarely impotency, or something else. he avoids sex itself only, or did he go off cuddling and kissing as well? ... (read in full...)
Would you read your partner's diary if they accidently left it out?
Q. If your significant other left a notebook or journal at your place by accident, would you read it? Do you think you could resist, or would curiosity get the best of you?...
A. 7 January 2012: there's no way i'd read my partners diary. you shouldn't do it as well. first of all respect the foundation of a healthy relationship, and by reading your significant others private thoughts u simply let them know u don't respect them, nor they ... (read in full...)
Should I see this other man? I don't want to hurt my FWB!
Q. Hi everyone a bit of a complicated question here I am in a fwb sort of thing with a man I would like more with but he doesn't feel the same way being going on for 9 months now just recently I met one of my 5 brothers friends who keeps flirting with ...
A. 27 December 2011: hello!
are you sure your fwb is not seeing anyone else but you?
don't worry you'll hurt him in any way, what u share is not a relationship, he's with you for sex only, if you feel different maybe its about time to tell him, to know his point of... (read in full...)
She's been acting distant since I showed up late for a date. Should I just call it quits?
Q. Hi, I have recently noticed the girl I've been seeing has distanced herself from me. She hasn't really talked to me properly since I was late for our last date. She offered to meet again the next day to make up for the time we lost. She didn't call ...
A. 17 December 2011: if she offered to meet up the day after u were late on ur date, that basically ment U NEED TO INVITE HER :) that's what girls do, and she expected you to make a move!
right now she doesn
t seem to be upset or angry with you, probly she's just bus... (read in full...)
My boyfriend pressures me to have sex and I hate it
Q. My boyfriend always wants sex and I hate sex more than anything. Is it normal for me to feel so guilty for saying no. he gives me this rude attitude after I tell him my answer, helpppp I dont know what to do. I have talked to him about it a ...
A. 11 December 2011: was he your first sexuall partner? if so, maybe he's doing something you don't want him to do, and that affects your attitude towards sex, which in face might be your attitude towards sex with that particular person.
tell him how you feel, he will... (read in full...)
How can you get someone who wants to be alone to start going out with you? I want my ex back but he says he wants to be alone!
Q. How can you get someone who wants to be alone to start going out with you?? I was in a LDR for 3 years and he broke up with me in April as he had become depressed (he became depressed about his life and what he was doing and where he was going)…si...
A. 22 November 2011: please, just let him go. theres no way to get him back, as this is not what he wants.
take care.... (read in full...)
Is he using me for money?
Q. Ok this is hard for me..I ran into an old friend on facebook and after sharing a place for a few months about four..we started sleeping together..he mentioned porn and how he used to whack off to it while single and this was for a very long ...
A. 20 November 2011: yes, i think he is using you for money.
leave this guy now!he doesn't care about no one except himself! you deserve much better than this.
good luck.... (read in full...)
Does his email sound genuine?
Q. I met this guy online and I really like him. -I am aware from the very beginning that he is trying to finish his PhD dissertation, and I know it can get very stressful. He used to write me about twice every week, but lately he just does it once ...
A. 20 November 2011: yes, it sounds geniune. he is really busy, so just be patient.
take care... (read in full...)
It is ok for a 19 year old to date a 15 year old?
Q. I was wondering if it was okay for a 19 year old girl to date a 15 year old boy. I'm really worried for a friend of mine. He's obviously underage and still a minor and I'm sure there are legal implications of this but she seems so happy with him. I ...
A. 20 November 2011: any sexuall activity with a person under 16 is a crime in the uk. take care.... (read in full...)
He's had 6 gfs before me and I need to know the details. Should I ask?
Q. My bf is the first proper bf I have had and the person I lost my virginity too. However, before me, he had a bout 6 proper gfs and has had sex with them all. This makes me feel a bit uncomfy, but I realise you can't usually get boys without history. ...
A. 20 November 2011: no hun, you don't need the details! let the past be the past, he has moved on.... (read in full...)
How can I make him forget about her and fall in love with me?
Q. i met this guy a few weeks ago he told me he likes me but there is something wrong. he has broken up with this girl, its been like one year and they where together for 6 year. He hasn't forgotten her. How can i make him forget about her and fall in ...
A. 20 November 2011: sorry, but you can't make someone forget about a person they were with for 6 years! that's a long time and it's simply not that easy. if you make someone fall in love with you that's just not love.
do you really want to be a rebound?
i think yo... (read in full...)
Episodes of My childhood – Unloved & Abused By My Mother
Q. This is my story...I am the eldest sister of Bluegem and whiteopal who have both recently posted letters on Dear Cupid, and I endorse everything they say about the verbal and physical abuse we suffered when growing up. This is only a little...
A. 5 November 2011: your mother was wrong, don't let people think she's a nice old lady. tell everyone what she did to you! i don't know if you have kids bu if you do, tell them as well. for your own sake, don't support her in any way, don't visit her, don't help,... (read in full...)
Is this world only for beautiful people with good fortunes?
Q. I am not good looking and have no confidence in myself at all. When I was 14, pimples started appearing on my head and lost my font hair. Since then, I have been shaving my head to make it look decent but I know girls get turned off my look a...
A. 28 October 2011: don't beat yourself up! inteligence is sexy.
try to go out as much as you can, meet new people. if a girl is put off by your baldness, it's just superficial, and she's certainly not worth your attention.... (read in full...)
How can I make my wife accept financial help?
Q. I am 33 right now and my girlfriend is 23. 8 years back, when she was 15 , I fell in love with her and within 2 weeks she accepted my proposal of being her Boyfriend but I acted more like a friend than boyfriend since she was too young th...
A. 26 October 2011: i can see you really live her and you want whatever's best for her, but u need to understand that purchasing a production company for her is kind of big deal. i dont know how wealthy you are, but regardless on your financial status it is a hell of ... (read in full...)
Should I meet up with my ex? She has asked for a 'catch up chat'....
Q. My ex wants to meet for coffee and a "catch up chat". Do i meet up or stay away ?....We broke up at xmas last year after a 7 month relationship. I did not see her after i found she was cheating with her best friends husband. I truly was in love wit...
A. 26 October 2011: the woman cheated on you with her best friends husband!! what kind of person is she?!?
don't waste your time for her, sooner or later you will move on, which is best for you.
good luck!!... (read in full...)
I love her, but she's a bit younger, more than a bit.
Q. Hello, I've known this gal for some time, she's a cutie pie, very lovable and all, and I'm sure I have feelings, I think she has for me, she shows it, but my problem is, I'm very worries about age difference, there's like 13 and a half years of ...
A. 23 October 2011: u know, 15 year old girls are still girls, regardless on the kind of relationship u may or may not have with her. what i mean is that even if u had sex with her she's still a kid! i don't believe she is mature enough to get involoved....or maybe u ... (read in full...)
It irritates me that my sister in law won't go to my church but instead goes to her own
Q. Hi guys. I am staying with my sister-in-law. when she first came to live with us, she would go with me to my church. then all of a sudden she decided to go to her own church on a different day. why do i feel undermined and irritated by it?is it ...
A. 23 October 2011: hello!
you are overreacting a bit. is it really that important what church she goes to? imagine how pissed u'd be if she didnt go to any.....
i'd suggest asking her something like:"i don't feel we're spending enough time together, maybe u fancy go... (read in full...)
Do I tell my fiance about this? Accident while Doctor attended to me. Does this mean I'm not a virgin?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm a 24 year old virgin. I've never done anything more than kiss heavily. I'm perfectly fine and happy about that. I'm engaged to a wonderful girl who is just like me; needless to say we are insanely eager to get married and ...
A. 23 October 2011: no worries, u are a virgin untill u have proper sexuall intercourse, not untill your first ejaculation.
by the way.....what kind of check up was it????... (read in full...)
He won't let me see his facebook page because I snooped when we were broken up!
Q. I snooped in my boyfriends facebook account months ago when we were broken up.we're back together now but he wont add me back on his friend list.he said i dont deserve it because of when i snooped.he said he will put that he is in a relationship as ...
A. 22 October 2011: you have been with him for over 5 years and your biggest concern is that you're not allowed on his facebook page?!?
please, get a life.
take care!
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I don't want my father at my wedding. But he's said "i had better be invited".
Q. Im gettin married next year and while everything is perfect in the sence that im marrying the love of my life, I hav a huge problem concerning my father. Its a long story so i'll explain best i can my father suffers from a mental illness and also...
A. 22 October 2011: he cant just invite himself to your own wedding! dont invite him, for your own good. take care!... (read in full...)
Are we FWB or something more? So confused!
Q. Hi everyone here is my problem its a bit complicated. I met this man in march this year, we started having sex. I went out one night, he got jealous he thought I'd met someone else which I hadn't I told him I only wanted to be with him cos I thought ...
A. 20 October 2011: no, he only needs u for sex, believe me. even if he is having sex with just ju at the moment you are not his girlfriend.
and to be fair to him, he has told u that the first time you asked. he's not plaing games, he's being completely honest.
if yo... (read in full...)
Why are some people so two faced?
Q. There's a woman at work who I thought I got along with quite well. She's always been nice to my face but yesterday after she'd just been talking to me (she doesn't know) I heard her being really mean and bitchy about me. It really as upset me ...
A. 2 October 2011: what a very nice lady, isn't she?! i think shes probably jealous, i always explain behaviour like that with envy!
keep your distance, speak to her only if necessary, avoid any other contact.and most important: DON'T EVER LET HER THINK UR AFFR... (read in full...)
How to deal with post sex mess?
Q. So this isn't really a question more a query!! I've just started having un-protected sex with partner (all checks done and accounted for!) I just wondered, how do other people deal with that post-sex-mess - lol I find it funny it goes f...
A. 27 September 2011: never had problems with that, u simply jump into tha shower together :-)... (read in full...)
Should you stay in a relationship if the one you love, only likes you?
Q. Hi.Need some answers to this please, Should you stay in a relationship if the one you love only likes you.Even though you have been together for yrs. There's no fighting or bickering just a lack of love on one's part.when you say I love you, and ...
A. 24 September 2011: hi!
i'd rather try to ask a straight question: "do u love me?".
u'll get a straight answer.
... (read in full...)
What would make a guy start to ignore a woman like this?
Q. ok, here is the problem, so i have been talking to this guy for a while and everything was goin really great, i felt like i had known him forever and when we hung out , our connection felt like it became stronger, even he said so himself. So all of ...
A. 19 September 2011: it's only been a week. ppl have different issues, and i' sure he has some stuff to do apart from texting and chatting, i would wait a couple of days more. next thing is, how much u know about him. what he does?any school, job ect?if so, u can... (read in full...)
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