Why would there be a condom wrapper under his bed? We haven't used them in months!
Q. Okay I am seeing a guy, for quite a while now, almost half a year... he doesn't want a relationship, I'm having trouble coping. Either way my question is I found a condom wrapper under his bed, with HIS boxers. We don't use condoms, and I have been ...
A. 17 October 2008: Thank you for the update; it is much appreciated! I thought I would add that my gf (19 years old) and I recently broke up. We had often talked about our different expectations and ultimately I could not give her what she needed; she was not the ... (read in full...)
Why would there be a condom wrapper under his bed? We haven't used them in months!
Q. Okay I am seeing a guy, for quite a while now, almost half a year... he doesn't want a relationship, I'm having trouble coping. Either way my question is I found a condom wrapper under his bed, with HIS boxers. We don't use condoms, and I have been ...
A. 17 October 2008: Guys point of view:
Some guys whack off in condoms. Seems like a uselessly expensive habit to me but it is common. It's weird that he didn't mention that. Maybe he's not comfortable sharing that. If you guys have never talked about masturba... (read in full...)
Do all guys get grossed out by kissing their partner after she gives you head?
Q. okay i have a question for all of you guys out there (girls feel free to answer if youve been in this situation). okay do all guys get grossed out by kissing thier partner after she gives you head? my boy friend doesnt want to kiss me after ive ...
A. 22 May 2008: You're not over-reacting at all. He's getting head for god's sake! "You know X, I've thought about what you said and agree that kissing your penis would be gross which is why I don't think we shouldn't do it anymore." He might be a little more... (read in full...)
I started dating a player, broke up with him, now cant get him out of my head, help me!
Q. A couple months ago, I was dating a guy that went well for the first 2 weeks (infatuation phase), and then we got physical (kissing, hj, fingering. no sex). I enjoyed it and felt that he sincerely liked me (although he seemed like the player type, ...
A. 14 May 2008: I know you THOUGHT that’s all he wanted, but that IS all he wanted: The Conquest. Things are over between the two of you. He’s moved on and now it’s your turn. Dwelling on this guy is simply not fair to your future bf who would quite frankly like ... (read in full...)
I got a sore throat from giving a blowjob. Is it a problem?
Q. i recently gave my boyfriend a blowjob for quite a long time. the following day i had a sore throat and put it down to the night of fun before. but when i checked, the top of mouth looked like my blood vessles had burst (like a lovebite but inside ...
A. 13 May 2008: It sounds like you have a bruise.
Bruises can happen anywhere on our skin. The “plumbing” (blood vessels) in our body are wrapped in “sponge like insulation” (tissue). When we rupture a pipe through physical trauma like getting hit with a baseba... (read in full...)
Can you get pregnant from foreplay?
Q. I no this seem a bit unusual but can you pregant from having fore play?...
A. 13 May 2008: To answer that, it would be important to define what « foreplay » is.
A) How do you get pregnant?
A woman gets pregnant when a man’s sperm (which are cells swimming in a man’s sexual fluids) makes its way from his testicles to her egg.
So... (read in full...)
Is commitment really so different for men than for women?
Q. This is a question for the men around! I have read info basically saying that commitment is different for men and women. Apparently - women are looking for the RIGHT man to come along before they get married, whereas men are waiting for the ...
A. 13 May 2008: Q1 Are women looking for the right mate whereas men are looking for the right time? I do not agree. I think that by large most men, like women, ultimately want and desire to be in a meaningful and romantic relationship in their life. I don’t t... (read in full...)
What are the signs a guy is pretending to like being close with you even though they don't?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this guy friend who I really like and I like to hang out with him. We dont talk very much as we are both really busy premed college students. I went out with him once and he seemed interested in me cause he asked me out. Wh...
A. 29 March 2008: In short, I think he likes you.
Sometimes guys like girls and skirt around the line without crossing it. Sometimes they are scared of commitment and the inevitable escalation that comes with every step towards a relationship. This is compound... (read in full...)
Is He Blowing Me Off Or Generally Busy?
Q. Hey, I've Just Started Seeing This Boy And We Spent Some Time Together On A School Trip. Now We're Back At School We See Eachother At Break And Dinner. Well Anyway The Problem Is I've Asked Him If He's Wanted To Go To The Cinema 2 Weekends In A Row...
A. 18 July 2007: Reading signs is never easy and all the more difficult when emotions are on the line making it hard to see things clearly as you run the risk of being overly pessimistic or optimistic. While both scenarios are possible, try to take all the details ... (read in full...)
Any tips to make this a date to remember for her?
Q. i really like this girl who i thought was impossible to get. she's in my year but we've only spoken a few words face to face as she is very very shy. she is never seen talking to a boy so it's really hard for me however on msn i've talked to her a ...
A. 25 June 2007: Hello, I got your private message but unfortunately I was unable to reply to it. I supposed it's because it was sent anonymously but the system suggested the following: # User does not exist? # User does not accept incoming mail? # User m... (read in full...)
I’m a guy in a pool of older, success-driven women and romance is far from blossoming. Am I looking in the wrong place?
Q. I feel like a small fish in a big bowl. Category: Age Differences I’m a male university student and I’ve always looked older than my age. Due to advance placement in school I’ve often found myself in an older crowd. Recently, I’ve begun my ...
A. 21 March 2007: Thanks AskEve. I do need to reexamine my mentality. I appreciate your advice.... (read in full...)
I’m a guy in a pool of older, success-driven women and romance is far from blossoming. Am I looking in the wrong place?
Q. I feel like a small fish in a big bowl. Category: Age Differences I’m a male university student and I’ve always looked older than my age. Due to advance placement in school I’ve often found myself in an older crowd. Recently, I’ve begun my ...
A. 21 March 2007: Thank you for your input!... (read in full...)
Any tips to make this a date to remember for her?
Q. i really like this girl who i thought was impossible to get. she's in my year but we've only spoken a few words face to face as she is very very shy. she is never seen talking to a boy so it's really hard for me however on msn i've talked to her a ...
A. 24 February 2007: Tough question. I'm not really sure what you can achieve if you don't think she has feelings for her but you asked specifically how you can make the day memorable.
There a few basic theories on emotions in psychology. One of the main ones is ... (read in full...)
I don't want to date this guy and he asked for my number from my best friend! What can I do?
Q. i have this kind of awkward problem. my mate's older brother (Jake) is friends with this guy (Brandon), and Brandon told Jake he liked me. Jake then went to tell my mate, (Alison). So Alison thinks it would be great if him and i went out, but i dont ...
A. 20 January 2007: Hi,
No one can force you to do anything you don't want to. You are always free to say no. Understandably it's not always easy to say no.
The following are not my words but those of Mr. Manners (http://manners.... (read in full...)
What should my boyfriends priority be? Work or me?
Q. is it reasonable to expect to be my bf's #1 priority (or at least up there after his parents/siblings)? during a "discussion" i said that i felt like i was last on his list of priorities, i said it in the middle of the sentence and he addresse...
A. 18 May 2006: Excellent question.
Unfortunately, I can't advise you on what one should prioritize in one’s life. It’s a personal choice, and a freedom we all have. It’s not easy to do, but decentering (empathising) is an important part of being in a relation... (read in full...)
She seems interested, should i ask for her number?
Q. publish this as knowone replied last time. this girl shows me pictures of her pet horse and wont let anone else see the pictures. she glances at me at often smiles when she sees me. i get on well with hre friends and they appear to like me. at the ...
A. 18 May 2006: She sounds interested buddy! Asking her in person would be more flattering :) Asking a girl is going out on a limb. It's that's simple. Simple is one word, easy is another.
If you need something to think of when your feet are frozen before t... (read in full...)
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