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I got a sore throat from giving a blowjob. Is it a problem?

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Question - (13 May 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 3 March 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

i recently gave my boyfriend a blowjob for quite a long time. the following day i had a sore throat and put it down to the night of fun before. but when i checked, the top of mouth looked like my blood vessles had burst (like a lovebite but inside my mouth) can anybody tell me please what this is?

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A female reader, MissMmm Canada +, writes (3 March 2012):

I know this is old, but I figured other people could benefit from it.

Sounds like you may have been working it against the back of your throat too hard. It's possible it's just a hickey too, because of the suction. Personally I love giving head, especially deep throat. It's just so satisfying to see their eyes roll back in their head (:P). Anyways, I know sometimes when I do it for too long, my throat starts to get sore, because of the repeated rubbing and bumping against it. Could be suction, could be a bruise. Either way, hope it went away eventually for you.

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A female reader, xLovex United Kingdom +, writes (23 August 2008):

It may not be serious but you should get checked out by a doctor. In class we learned about STI's/STD's and the symptoms. I can't remember for sure which STI it was, it could of been syphilis. I strongly advise you to get checked out by a doctor even if it isn't serious. If it is an STD then you are very lucky to get symptoms

GD luck xxx

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A male reader, Sttt India +, writes (21 August 2008):

girl i dont know what you people enjoy..but..I am a man..and i have never thought about such a thing whatever happens nicely and softly with my Gf is alright..I did get to know women who can last for more than 5 hours getting hard super rough face spitting gags..slaps pissing crap knows what..and they liked each and every minutes and believe me these girls didnt get it any where else except the mouth amazingly how can some women give something like that.. and like it..can any one comment on this??did you ever hear a guy get a girl for 3 months five hours a day of hard humiliating gag??i know some man who did..and a women addmitted.. Offf..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2008):

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ahhh right.

thanks for the imformation lol

to be honest im glad someone has told me about it realy.

and yes ive got to admit

i enjoy giving oral sex too.

x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008):

Cum itself tastes...well, there's nothing to compare it to, actually. lol.

It smells like bleach, if you ask me. It's very salty (sometimes even very bitter), and each man's semen varies in taste. You may find that your boyfriend's cum tastes different every once in a while.

This is because what a man eats causes effects the taste of his semen. I hear this is the same for girls. But I also hear that the more plain celery he eats it will sweeten his semen and make it less bitter.

However, once you get used to actually having him cum in your mouth, the taste may become more pleasant. I enjoy performing oral sex with my boyfriend (it's very intimate and personal), and enjoy the taste somewhat.

Still cant get over the smell (I sometimes gag).

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

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i did act apon those techniques on giving a blowjob as thats why i think my boyfriend enoyed it so much as he used the term 'mmmm that was sooo goood' and when i giving it to him he was groaning and moaning in a good way. so i gavered i preformed it quite well.

also without sounding vulger i am very intregeued to know what the taste of cum is so i would of let him finsih in my mouth but we both had a misunderstanding as we both thort we each had enough although both of us wanted to carry on but anyways i know what do to about that situation so its okay.

thank you for your advise x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008):

That's great that your boyfriend enjoyed it. I'm guessing that you don't let him finish in your mouth? No problem. Sometimes I don't, or I just spit it out. Not always. Cum is a pretty personal thing.

I recommend expirimenting with your tongue (flicking it against his head, under his shaft), massaging his testicles (basically, his sack), licking and GENTLY grazing your teeth along his penis.

It takes a lot of practice. Let me know how it all goes!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

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Heyyy, Thank you for your response to my question. All of your answers i fully understand and have taken it into account. To the female reader ':):):)' i thort that was the problem but i wanted to ask for someone elses opinion without having to go to the doctors explaining myself or even worst asking my parents!

An update: The brusing on the top of my mouth has gone down alot.

Can i ask also, my boyfriend enjoyed the blowjob very much to the extent that he almost cummed and to be honest i enjoyed giving it to him too so thats why i got into it so much, can anybody give me some pointers about giving a good blowjob for me and him to enjoy but so that next time my mouth doesnt get bruised?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2008):

I have had that problem before. It will go away in a few days. It's like a hickey because of the suction and pressure due to making a vacuum with your mouth. Next time try not to pull so hard using the back of your mouth.

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A male reader, Undisclosed Canada +, writes (13 May 2008):

Undisclosed agony auntIt sounds like you have a bruise.

Bruises can happen anywhere on our skin. The “plumbing” (blood vessels) in our body are wrapped in “sponge like insulation” (tissue). When we rupture a pipe through physical trauma like getting hit with a baseball, sucking an area hard (a lovebite) or hitting it with a blunt object (as in your case), the contents of the pipe spill out into the sponge making it very red at first and then fading to blue. As the pipes repair themselves and the body cleans up the spill, the bruise will disappear with time.

It is always best to consult a doctor if you are worried about your health. Nothing can compare with the opinion of a professional examining the area first hand. They can check for things like infections if the trauma was serious enough to invite a bacterium or virus.

If it’s just a bruise, it’s just a bruise. You decide if it’s a problem in that case and it never hurts to talk to your bf about it so you’re enjoying it to. The head of the man’s penis is the most sensitive; especially under the crown. Personal preferences differ but it’s not necessary to repeatedly and quickly gulp down the entire length of his penis to make the experience enjoyable for him. You might want to try other techniques that don’t leave you all bruised up for the weeks to come.

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A female reader, :):):) United Kingdom +, writes (13 May 2008):

Without sounding disgusting, when sucking excessively does cause blood vessels to burst, so this is probably the reason in your case for the sore throat. It shouldnt be any problem and will go away in a few weeks. In the meantime don't try so hard!

xxx

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