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During sex, should I put up with the pain to please him?
Q. I'm a 16 year old girl and i recently lost my virginity to my 17 year old bf of 3 years. My problem is that i enjoyed my 1st time (and the other time after that) but i'm very tight so i experience a lot of pain during and after it. My bf luvs that ...
A. 23 October 2008: first off it is not your "duty" to have sex with your bf!!!!
I cannot believe you think that! If you don't want to have sex because it hurts you, you can say no, heck you can say no just because you don't feel like it. Or you can say no for the sake... (read in full...)
Should I walk away or should I wait? Is there any insight into my madness?
Q. i dated a girl for about 2 1/2 years and we broke up about 3 months ago. we broke up because she found out that i had cheated on her. she asked me about it one day and i confessed everything. i know you are immediately thinking that i am an assh...
A. 21 October 2008: If that was the only time you ever cheated on her, then I think maybe she will give you another chance. But everyone is different and some will allow a person to cheat on them numerous times before leaving, others it takes once and they are gone ... (read in full...)
I called my girlfriend fat, I apologized, she won't talk to me, will we get back together?
Q. My girlfriend (shes 18 and im 19) is through this phase thinking shes fat (trust me shes not). And because of it she wont let me see her naked anymore. We do make do but she lets got to the point where I cant control myself. We have been fighting a ...
A. 20 October 2008: Well that was stupid! the girl is clearly having issues about her weight, and you go and call her fat! Good one!
You did the right thing by appologizing, but I think you need to make more of an effort to help her realize that she is not fat, and... (read in full...)
How can I spice things up in the bedroom?
Q. Hey all. Just looking for some advice. basically I need some help on spicing up my sex life! I can't believe I am asking this at 20 years old!!! We have been together 3 years, he is 30. Recently we have gone through a rocky time, I just lost someone ...
A. 20 October 2008: Now I'm not the expert here on sex at all, but I can give you some ideas.
1. change the place you have sex in, for example if it's always in the bedroom, have sex in the shower? outside? go to a hotel and do the deed in someone else's bed!
2... (read in full...)
I don't know how to make him appreciate me and put more effort into our relationship!
Q. So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. He is the first guy I've ever had sex with. He told me he loved me pretty soon after we started dating. And we both sort of agree on not saying it often because we want it to be special. But the ...
A. 20 October 2008: Firstly, If you aren`t getting satisfied physically DO NOT satisfy him anymore! If he doesn`t want to hang out and is not calling you, stop calling him, I know it seems hard but call up your girlfriends/ guyfriends and go out with them. I understand ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has terrible mood swings and has just broken up with me by text, I'm so hurt, what do you think?
Q. dear cupid readers, ive posted on here about 5 months ago about my ex and son all that is sorted out!! now this may seem strange but even after having a son with my ex i have never felt this love that im feeling for my girlfriend!!we have a wanderfu...
A. 20 October 2008: Aww! I hope you're feeling better! :( It sounds to me like your girlfriend is immature. She has a problem and takes it out on other people. She needs to stop pointing fingers and resolve the problem which is her. Calling you 33 times and hanging ... (read in full...)
She asked me to hangout then blew me off?
Q. I met a girl at work about a month ago and we flirted, A few days later SHE brought up hanging out with me and when I brought up I might be quitting for a better job (pay) and she said dont leave because she'll miss me :O. Well I got her home pho...
A. 20 October 2008: Hmmm? This is weird. My thoughts are you maybe hurt her when she asked to hang out and you responded with "I might be quiting for a better job"
1. You might have offended her, if she has the same job.
2. She asked to hang out and you made it ... (read in full...)
Am I losing my mind?
Q. Am I losing my mind? I'm in a long distance relationship, and recently my boyfriend and I had an "air clearing" session so to speak. He's told me how he really doesn't like it when he can't get through to my phone and it really pisses him off when...
A. 19 October 2008: I don't think you are losing your mind, and I don't think he was actually getting food, or if he was that wasn't the reason why he didn't answer the phone. You said you sometimes don't answer the phone, or you forget about him when you two are on ... (read in full...)
I feel as if I don't get a lot of his attention any more...
Q. This is kinda long, but I feel as though I need to explain. I have been with my boyfriend since december 2007. He is now 24, I am now 19. We became really close really fast. Everything has always been great. My dad loves him, my mom loves him, his ...
A. 18 October 2008: That is horrible what happend, I'm so sorry to hear something like that. I understand that he is going through a hard time, and it looks to me like you are doing a lot for him. He may not want to talk about it, so maybe stop asking him to, just hold ... (read in full...)
I do love her but I don't want to marry or commit to one woman all the time.
Q. Have been with my girlfriend for 7 years. She is very pretty, sexy, funny, loving the list goes on. But I know she wants more. I don't want to lose her. Every time she gets tired of dealing with my issues and tries to move on I beg her back making ...
A. 16 October 2008: I think you are being selfish. If you want this girl then have her and if you can't give her what she wants then let her go. Don't keep making her promises you know you can't keep, you are only breaking her heart. If she is as beautiful and amazing ... (read in full...)
Is he being honest or am I just wasting my time?
Q. Hi, I am in a very difficult situation. It all started 5 months ago when I met a guy and one thing led to another, and i figured it would be a one night stand, but he told me that night he didn't want to sleep around and I was the girl of his ...
A. 16 October 2008: I just wanted to add that the entire 5 months we acted like we were a couple whenever we were together.... (read in full...)
How do I get him to need me and be with me always?
Q. i always call my boyfriend and he knew that i dont want to say bye,i feel that he doesnt need me,but i know that he loves me,plz tell me what can i do to make him want to call me always and need me so much?? [added from same user] why dont i feel my ...
A. 1 August 2008: You can't make someone want you... Do you give him space? time to think about you on his own? Just because you think of him doesn't mean you need to call him and tell him every single time... All I can suggest is back off a little bit don't call him ... (read in full...)
Phone calls to another girl in secret, deleted inbox. Can I trust him?
Q. I don't know what to do about my boyfriend as he acts really suspiciously. He gets lots of texts from some girl he knows who apparantly 'lives in london'. He tells me that they're nothing but friends, but I find this really hard to believe as I have ...
A. 28 July 2008: One thing I believe is if you can't trust someone you shouldn't be in a relationship with them. I have said it to so many friends on many occasions and they hardly ever listen and usually it ends the same way... with a broken heart. You remind me a ... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: haha last time i checked this was a website for advice, and daniel looks like you are not giving advice at all... second if someone asked for advice on murdering a significant other i would give advice, not in the regard of how to do it but to get ... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good hand job? I don't want to give oral.
Q. How do you give a fantastic mind blowing hand job? Or is it even possible? It use to take me like 2 minutes to get my bf finish now it takes upwards of 15 minutes...if it even happens. No oral involved in this....and there won't be so don't suggest ...
A. 28 July 2008: Hey try looking at sites on the internet, such as www.sexinfo101.com or even just searching up techniques, just a tip guys can tell if you don't want to do it and it doesn't turn them on so if you really don't want to be doing this or blowjobs don't ... (read in full...)
Her parents don't accept me! I haven't been rude or offensive. Thank you for any comments.
Q. Hello Me and my girlfriend have been seeing each other for almost a year. We both love each other but her parents don't accept me. I come from a "well off" family. Not breaking the bank money but enough. She comes from a horrible council es...
A. 25 July 2008: I'm thinking maybe the problem isn't your manners. You seem to be polite, but maybe they don't think you are sincere? This may be kind of rough but the way you say you come from a "well off" family may be the problem. Money doesn't make a person, ... (read in full...)
How do I comfort a friend who's so distressed about her break up?
Q. ( Kinda long) Im 14 years old and so far my life is going okay. Well that was until today anyway. My best friend *Sara got dumped by her boyfriend and thats where things took a turn for the worst. My friend * Jay was there when she was on the p...
A. 25 July 2008: That sounds awful, she is definitly in a lot of pain from the breakup... how long was the relationship because if it was long it will probably take her a while before she's happy again. Instead of trying to get information out of her and asking her ... (read in full...)
Is a quiet girl more likely to dump you than a loud one?
Q. Is quietness a sign of boredom? My gal is really quiet so I cant tell what shes feeling like... my question.... is a quiet girl more likely to dump you than a loud one? ...
A. 22 July 2008: It can be but seeing as you're pretty young (no offence) I'd say she is just shy, and doesn't want to look bad infront of you so she keeps her thoughts to herself. Are you quiet also? maybe you two need to get more comfortable with eachother plan a ... (read in full...)
Should I use his sweater as an excuse to contact him?
Q. hello everyone, i'm really in need for some help here. i made out with this guy at a party. it was great... and when we said goodbye he said "see you soon". i got his sweater and wanna use that as an excuse but don't know how tbh... any advice? ...
A. 20 July 2008: If he hasn't contacted you about the sweater, he probably doesn't care. I had the same situation and the guy wanted to sweater back so he contacted me, he also wanted to see me again so it worked out. Just wait it out and if you don't hear anything, ... (read in full...)
Should I let my parents meet him and show him my baby photos?
Q. My boyfriend lives two hours away from me, for my birthday this year (december, a long way away i know but still) I want to see him with all my other friends. He must be there, that's the only way I'll be happy. My mum doesn't know him because she ...
A. 20 July 2008: Hi,
Just wondering is there an age difference or something keeping you from taking him home? I know that is that case with me, either way since your birthday is so far away why not ask your parents if they will go out for dinner with you and your... (read in full...)
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