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I like 2 different girls who might like me too, but they are both in relationships!

Q.   So... I'm interested in two different women at the same time, and I think they think I'm funny and might consider a relationship with me, except that they're both in one two, though both of theirs is bad... Any ideas? And I'd like to remain friends ...

A.   18 July 2011: Don't do anything. They are both in relationships. ... (read in full...)

If we are just "friends", why did she get all dressed up to go out with me?

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I know this girl and I like her, but she said she just wants to be friends. I was heartbroken at first but then said to myself, I like her enough so why not just be friends. So we made an arrangement last week to see a movie...

A.   18 July 2011: For me the "friends" word is the death-knell. It means thanks but no thanks. And many people will cut contact and move on immediately. There are others that stick around in the hope she will "kinda change" her mind. From my experience anything ... (read in full...)

Is he reducing contact because he is losing interest?

Q.   I have been dating a guy for nearly five months and up until the last few days all has been going really well. He has always been really good at initiating contact and texts me loads of times in the day. He will regularly text me to tell me what he'...

A.   18 July 2011: Well, there has certainly been a change in the last 5 days. That is obvious. You have asked him and he says all fine. Something might be happening in his life that needs his attention? That's a possibilty. Have you noticed anything going on prio... (read in full...)

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