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What can I say, I am 21 years and I live in Nova Scotia.

please don't let my age scare ya off the advice I give, I have seen and been in almost all types of realationships, (except: gay or bi) so I hope I can help in anyway possible from the shit that I have went through, my way of looking at things is a bit different then some of the other people I see on here. If you don't like my advice then please don't hesitate to let me know what I did wrong in your opinion, and if you like what I have to say then that's great drop me a line and give me an update I am always glad to hear from someone I may have helped at all.

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I sent a text that read I didnt want him, but it wasnt finished!! I do want him, now hes hurt and doesnt want to know!! Help!!!

Q.   I really need help on this, I have been recently seeing this guy, for about two weeks now, but we have known each other for almost ten years, now the other night we slept together for the first time and things were amazing, but i was talking ...

A.   3 May 2007: he added me back to his list, but he hasn't talked to me yet and i am scared to talk to him first just incase he he gets pissed again... (read in full...)

I sent a text that read I didnt want him, but it wasnt finished!! I do want him, now hes hurt and doesnt want to know!! Help!!!

Q.   I really need help on this, I have been recently seeing this guy, for about two weeks now, but we have known each other for almost ten years, now the other night we slept together for the first time and things were amazing, but i was talking ...

A.   3 May 2007: well i worte him an email last night explaining what i was tring to say, and now i just have to wait and see if he come around to forgiving me. or if he even reads it at all. ... (read in full...)

After three years, he said "I love you" and I said it back and laughed. But I really meant it! What shall I do?

Q.   Right. so my best friend 'vicky' was guy coin out with this guy called 'jonny' and jonny had a housemate called 'rob'.. as general introductions go.. i met rob and thought he was cool. we all went out to a club together and we ended up back at ...

A.   18 January 2007: What would you rather a best friend or a boyfriend, see the risks as you know included breaking up and maybe losing a bestfriend. Or you could find that one true love. He told you he loved you, now see what i think is that he might have told you ... (read in full...)

I don't get any attention from him when his 3-year old daughter comes to stay!

Q.   My bf has a 3 year old daughter and has joint custody. When we have her it is like I am not even there. I don't want him to get upset because I know how much he loves and misses her when she is gone. But it is putting a strain on my relationship ...

A.   17 January 2007: his daughter seems like she is the most important person to him, and there is nothing wrong with that, now i know that's not what you want to hear but if he only gets to see his daughter once in awhile then of course he is going to pay alot attenion ... (read in full...)

What's a stellar smooch?

Q.   What is a Stellar Smooch?, and how to you give/do one?...

A.   16 January 2007: put your hands around her waist and gently rub the small of her back with your hand almost hardly touching her or with your fingers moving slowly or with your hand pressed to her back but not real hard..(she'll get chills ) and kinda play with her ... (read in full...)

I'm not sure I should still be with my fiance after our rocky past...

Q.   I don't know if I should continue seeing my fiance. We have been together 3 months. I've known him for a year, but I broke up with him last year after we had been dating for about a month because I wasn't ready to get into another relationship. He ...

A.   15 January 2007: ok sounds like a abusive guy and the best thing would be to get out for your own safty, i was in one before and things got bad he uset to grab my arm and yell at me and when i started to cry he would back hand me. So i don't want to see anyone else ... (read in full...)

I asked my ex if she still cared about me and she said she didn't want to answer that question! Why?

Q.   Hi, well am a little confused here i broke up with my girlfriend about 5mnths ago and we've had ups and downs since but like we have sorted out our differences now and tonight i casually asked her do you still care about me or miss me and she sa...

A.   15 January 2007: Maybe she still cares about you but doesn't want to go down that road again, if you guys had your up's and downs then she might be just tring to get over you and move on as friends. just respect her wishes and just continue being friends with her, ... (read in full...)

How do I tactfully tell my girlfriend... "please don't dress like such a slut"

Q.   This is driving me nuts! My girlfriend dresses like a complete slut! I like a girl dressing confidently and showing some skin but this is over the top. Even her own friends make comments! I find it totally unattractive and its making me doubt ...

A.   14 January 2007: You can't say anything to her about the way she dresses, it's her fasion and it's one of the only ways she can express herself. But really things could be alot worse, does she ingore you, or doesn't act like a g/f to you or does she pay alot of ... (read in full...)

How long should a guy last on his first time?

Q.   Hi i was wodering how long men norally last on there first time...

A.   14 January 2007: it all depends on the guy, some last longer then others, don't worry if you only lasted five mintues then it's ok it's your first time, you'll get uset to it after awhile and you won't cumm as quickly. But it's normal for a first time to last only a ... (read in full...)

We had sex twice and it wasn't great-now he doesn't want to do it...what should I do?

Q.   Hello I'm having a bit of a problem. I'm 24 and at christmas i lost my virginity to my boyfriend. We have only had sex twice and it wasn't that great. It was without condoms (long story, and yes i know about safe sex etc) The problem is, sinc...

A.   14 January 2007: You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders and yes your b/f should be understanding of what you want, plus there are other methods for safe sex, ask your doctor they'll know more about that. But if you don't want to go on the pill just ... (read in full...)

Guys...I need oral sex tips!

Q.   Hi there, I have a question I’m hoping the guys and girls of this site might be able to help me with. First off let me say that I am 17 years old and my girlfriend is soon to turn 18. Me and my girlfriend have been dating for nearly a year (our ...

A.   14 January 2007: tell her to be vocal on what she wants you do, like " faster slower, move up or down " she knows her body and she'll tell you what feels right. the best thing is communication. If all else fails lick your ABC's it sounds bad but it works if you g... (read in full...)

Do all women want a 'bad boy?"

Q.   A question for the ladies. Is there actually some sort of infatuation (hope i spelled that right) with "The Bad Boy"? I am 28, and I feel I am a pretty decent guy. Although almost every relationship I've had the woman seems to get bored or find so...

A.   14 January 2007: Women only find a BAD BOY appeeling for the first little while, and no you should never change who you are alot of women want the nice sweet guy, but you should never let a female walk all over you. Women want a guy who can take control but at the ... (read in full...)

How should I ask him to the dance? Any ideas or tips?

Q.   So i'm a fifteen year old girl and there's this guy in my grade, Dylan, and i've liked him since 6th grade. well, we're really good friends and we talk alot. the sweethears dance is coming up and i really want to go with him. but how do i go about ...

A.   14 January 2007: Just ask him if he has a date yet and if he says no then ask him if he would like to go, prepare for if he says no ( which i hope he doesn't say ) say ok that's cool, i was just wondering so it would save us both time on trying to find a date, or ... (read in full...)

What are the symptoms of pregnancy?

Q.   Can any one tell me the symtoms of prenancy i dont think im pregnanty i would just like to know!! Thankyou very much xx...

A.   14 January 2007: symptoms vary by person and come at different stages. There could be morning sickness, tenderness of the breat area, but that could also be cause by puberty as well. tiredness, your sence of smell increases, having to pee alot more then normal, your ... (read in full...)

Is there anything I can do to speed up an orgasm, during sexual play?

Q.   The other night i was talking to my boyfriend about our sex life (virgin, but im talking about fingering and oral ect) and things we like that we do (we're very open) when he casually pointed out that i take quite abit longer than most women to ...

A.   14 January 2007: commuacation is a hugh key to sexually forplay, tell your b/f what you like be it "slower or faster or move to the left" you know your body better then anyone so only you know what pleases you. If your into try masterbating yourself showing your b/f ... (read in full...)

After 2 years of dating, he said everything between us was a big joke and that I was a whore! I deeply hurt and I can't trust other boys now! Any advice?

Q.   hi, ive bin goin out with a boy for 2 years and we were really serious, he always made me happy and feel special. but last month he insulted me and sed everything between us was a joke, he was jus playing about with me, cos it made him feel good ...

A.   14 January 2007: Hold your head up high and forget him, I know that, that sounds hard to do right now, but you need to remember that you know what you are a beauitful smart and funny girl, and that he is just a jerk that will realize what he missed out on sooner or ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if he fancies me, without asking him?

Q.   hey i have a crush on this boy who i have nown scince i was 4. all mi friends say that he fancies me but im not sure! how can i find this out with out asking him?...

A.   14 January 2007: Ask a friend that knows you both, and that you trust. maybe they can find out for you by asking him without making it obvious that you want to know. it's short but it should hopefully work for you. Hope that helps... (read in full...)

How can I make the first move without it being really obvious?

Q.   How can i make the first move with out it being to obviouse?...

A.   14 January 2007: When you go to hug each other, hold on for a little longer then you normally would and look up or down at him and smile at him and lean in for a kiss. it's one of the easiest ways i can think of with out being akward. or if you don't use that idea... (read in full...)

He told me we could have a baby but he avoids having sex with me! What's up with him?

Q.   Ive been with my fiance 7 years. When i was 19 i had an abortion as he said it wasnt the right time. 6 years on the time is right. We talked and he said he was ready. We started trying but i feel dirty having to ask for sex. I cant even get him to ...

A.   14 January 2007: your boyfriend might be just worried about becoming a father, sure it's alright to talk about it, but when you start to actually try and have one it's a totally different story, he might be afraid that he might not be a good father, just sit him ... (read in full...)

My parents found out I am having sex-now they won't speak to me! What should I do?

Q.   My mom and dad found out about me havin sex, now they are not talkin to me, when i try to, they ignore me..i just cant cope with it no more, i thought that they wud understand..but i guess not=(.. help me plz!! xxxxxxxxxxxxxx...

A.   13 January 2007: Your parents are just surprised that's all, they might be a bit disapointed that you never came to them first, when my mom found out about me I was 14 and she walked in on me. so if that didn't happen to you your lucky. i was ready to die. But after ... (read in full...)

A past 'kissing' indiscretion" is threatening my good relationship with the girl I love! What should I do?

Q.   Hi! I am a bit confused as what to do.. I have been with my girlfriend about 1 1/2 years and it's been the best time of my life! About 6 months ago a "friend" of hers kissed me. (not a close friend as you can imagine) Anyway, after she kisse...

A.   13 January 2007: Ok of your girlfriend loves you and all that happened was the two kisses that you admited to her already then you don't have anything to worry about you have nothing to hide. This girl has something to say then don't worry about it, if she tries to ... (read in full...)

I'm 16 - why hasn't anyone wanted to be my boyfriend yet?

Q.   i am 16 yrs old and i haven't had any boyfriend so far neither have i been asked out or to be someone's gf.i have been only asked once to go out with a guy by his friends but i think they werepulling a trick on me/him. and i know i am beautiful many ...

A.   13 January 2007: If you haven't had a boyfriend yet then that's their problem, they are missing out on a beauitful girl. Your not doing anything wrong, maybe the guys are shy and don't know how to approch you. Just talk to a guy in your class that you might have a ... (read in full...)

My bf, his brother and I all live together. How do we tell his bro we want our own place w/out sounding like jerks??

Q.   Hi guys I need abit of help well my boyfriend does not me My boyfriend (23) I (21) live together with his brother (20) but after talk to wach other, we are decided on getting our own place, but the big problem is we don't know how to tell his...

A.   13 January 2007: We got things all strightened away and we found a place, we are moving at the end of january. we are helping his brother find a place too, and so far he thinks he found one. so everyone is happy. thanks to everyone that helped me out with this it ... (read in full...)

My bf, his brother and I all live together. How do we tell his bro we want our own place w/out sounding like jerks??

Q.   Hi guys I need abit of help well my boyfriend does not me My boyfriend (23) I (21) live together with his brother (20) but after talk to wach other, we are decided on getting our own place, but the big problem is we don't know how to tell his...

A.   11 January 2007: Thanks everyone for the great advice (except rythemandblues) my b/f came out and told his brother that we are planning on moving out but if we can't find a place by the end of Jan then we are leaving at the end of Feb, he toldhim that we can't leave ... (read in full...)

My bf, his brother and I all live together. How do we tell his bro we want our own place w/out sounding like jerks??

Q.   Hi guys I need abit of help well my boyfriend does not me My boyfriend (23) I (21) live together with his brother (20) but after talk to wach other, we are decided on getting our own place, but the big problem is we don't know how to tell his...

A.   8 January 2007: Thanks to amethyst and irish for the great advice i will try the things that you suggested and i will get back to you both with the outcome of this so thanks again to the both of you sweetie... (read in full...)

My bf, his brother and I all live together. How do we tell his bro we want our own place w/out sounding like jerks??

Q.   Hi guys I need abit of help well my boyfriend does not me My boyfriend (23) I (21) live together with his brother (20) but after talk to wach other, we are decided on getting our own place, but the big problem is we don't know how to tell his...

A.   7 January 2007: Hi sorry I forgot a part in that plea for help brother aka Mark had a g/f (ex now) that he lived with and she kicked him out for being lazy and not helping out around there, and he's doing the same thing now at this place, he has a baby with thi... (read in full...)

She broke up with me, but still frequents all the bars I go to. My heart's broken, I don't know what to do.

Q.   I (21) was with the girl (24) for the last three months, she chased after me all summer n finally when i caught on we got together n were really good together.. we ended up starting a relationship and we did fall in love, she told me she loved me ...

A.   7 January 2007: Just relax you sound like your heads going to explode lol lol sorry about the break up it's harder everytime it happens, this is just my opinion but if i were you i would find something to fill your time up try a hobby or just hanging with... (read in full...)

I want to let him down easy when breaking up. How do I o this?

Q.   I'm 14 and i've been dating this guy for a few weeks now, and when we first started going out i thought i realli liked him and i thought it was going to last, but i've started liking other boys and flirting with them behind is back (not doing ...

A.   7 January 2007: ok hunny i hope this works for ya just talk to him and tell him that you thinks he's a sweetheart and a really nice guy, but you think that you two would be better off friends, it's nothing against him, he did nothing wrong, you just think it... (read in full...)

I want revenge on my ex gf and best friend. Advice please before I do something dumb?

Q.   My girlfriend cheated on me with my best-friend 3 days after she told me she was pregnant. Now they are living together. I want revenge, but i'm not going to jail. I don't know how to deal with it without getting my own back somehow. Please advise ...

A.   6 January 2007: you need to realize NO-ONE is worth doing anything that would get you in any trouble. You just need to stop and think you will get over this and life will continue. you may think that doing something now is going to settle how you feel, but it will ... (read in full...)

Is he just using me or does he really like me?

Q.   Is he just using me or does he really like me? I have been friends with a lad for 6 years and we were best friends. I got a boyfriend and he got a girlfriend, we still did talk but we weren't as close. He split up with is girlfriend about a year ago ...

A.   5 January 2007: omg this sounds like my ex right to a tee wow. ok this is how i put a stop to that, don't give him what he wants anymore, if he only wants sex then don't give it to him, if he's your friend then he'll stay your friend no matter what, put aside your... (read in full...)

Really unhappy because he likes doing it the "un-natural" way... can I fix this problem?

Q.   My boyfriend is really into anal sex and I am fed-up with it. We've been going out for over a year now so it is not as if I haven't tried. I am prepared to do it to please him on occasion but do not want to accept this as a function of our everyday ...

A.   5 January 2007: if it doesn't feel right to you then tell him that. just sit him down before any sexual acts happens and say hunny look i love you but i really don't like having anal sex it really hurts, and it's very unpleasure for me, don't be mean about it and ... (read in full...)

We've dated a few times and he's telling me to change my hair! Should I be wary and do I need to change for him?

Q.   Iv been seeing this man a few times and we get on really well,he told me that he found me very attractive and intelligent.Now my problem is this,a couple of times he has said that i would look better without my fringe and to cut my hair shorter and ...

A.   5 January 2007: ok this is odd but see how this sounds to you next time he says anything about your hair ask him why he thinks you should do it, give him time to answer then say to him that your happy with the way you look and you don't want to change it. if he ... (read in full...)

Why do they always shoot their load so soon? Is it me?

Q.   Why is it that everytime i have sex with a man they always ejaculate too quickly? Is it me or what? Im getting rather frustrated over this....

A.   5 January 2007: you never know you might be just to sexy for them, but to get a little more in depth it could be just moving to fast if you now what I mean, try slowing down the motion control what they are doing, try you on top it's a sexy posistion and it's take... (read in full...)

My girlfriend gets in a mood if I don't act super excited about what she's talking about! It's annoying putting on an act, though. Advice?

Q.   I feel most of the time when im with my girlfriend (of 1 year) I have too put on an act. Im not a loud hyperactive speaking person and just say it as it is. But my girlfriend is the opposite and when im not jumping up and down over somthing she is ...

A.   5 January 2007: people look not every relationship is a fairy tail there are somedays when even ,e and my boyfriend don't even talk to each other very much but it doesn't mean that we don't love each other, it's just that we see each everyday and we talk all the ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend gets in a mood if I don't act super excited about what she's talking about! It's annoying putting on an act, though. Advice?

Q.   I feel most of the time when im with my girlfriend (of 1 year) I have too put on an act. Im not a loud hyperactive speaking person and just say it as it is. But my girlfriend is the opposite and when im not jumping up and down over somthing she is ...

A.   5 January 2007: Sit her down and talk to her one night right after she says "are you alright" and tell her that you love hearing her voice and love knowing what she has to say and how her day went, but you are not the type of person who just as you said it jumps up ... (read in full...)

How do I become friends with a guy who finds single women a threat? I think it may be from being abused as a child.

Q.   I know a man who I beleive was abused as a child. I don't know him awfully well, and can only guess about this. Some of the effects seem to 'tie' in with his behaviour. (I have read a little about it) Mind you I could be well off the mark here, ...

A.   5 January 2007: He may or may not have been abused as a child, I was abused when I was young by my uncle right up untill I turned 13. I never had problem being around married or single people when I grew up. Out of all honesty I found it easier to point out in ... (read in full...)

She says her brief fling meant nothing but I can't get past it! What can I do?

Q.   This is a bit of a complicated one. I had been dating this girl on and off since i was 14 (making it 5 years). We'd been dating solidly and intensely for two years until about 3 months ago. We've always known that we're madly in love but i became ...

A.   2 January 2007: Ok it's human nature to be inquiztive so yeah, you just need to stop and realize that asking all these questions is starting to really bother her and could possibly end the realationship and you sound like you love her alot. think to yourself when... (read in full...)

does sex hurt the uncircumsized male?

Q.   does sex hurt when you are not circumcised?...

A.   2 January 2007: My boyfriend is not circumcised and he said that sex feels amazing for him and he couldn't image sex feeling as good as it does when the skin is not moving with the thrusting motion. but when you use a condon and please do. becareful not to pull the ... (read in full...)

I cheated on him and didn't regret it...should we just break up?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been going out for 4 months and we both lost our virginity, to each other, about one month in. i'd known him for a year so i was comfortable with it. now its like sex is all he thinks about. i wonder whether i should break up ...

A.   2 January 2007: I have one question for you Do you want to stay with this guys and do you want to make it last ? cause it sounds to me like you don't want to be with him anymore, sex changes alot of things in a realationship and he may have been your first,... (read in full...)

My friend moved in on a girl I liked. He says he didn't know about us.

Q.   hi guys im not sure how i put this question but here goes.i started talkin to this girl ages ago we got to be pretty good freinds then after a while we got more serious . then a m8 of myn that didnt know about me an her started asking questions ...

A.   30 December 2006: Wow that is a hard one, think of it this way your best friend, was drunk and pulled a really stupid move, and said he was sorry about it. and it sounds like she changed her story by saying that it didn't mean anything which means she allowed it to ... (read in full...)

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