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What Qualifies Me To Help Others?

nofthing really i'm 24 live with my mom only ever had 2 sexual partner went throw hell & back with my ex girlfriend. miscarriage & family fight's getting beaten up 4 her so in my eyes i'm just an average guy trying to get along

What do u live?

i live in the uk in a small town called bolton. it's so small where not even on the map unless u look hard enought

what make me tick?

lier's they do my head so much i can't stand them.

What my r-ship status?

wow good question

i'm 24 just started dateing a nice 20 year old girl and i dont c any future with her but u know the best part? its going like my old r-ship with my ex who i was with 15 months. and i've not felt this way about anyone since then

if u think i can help you just send me a message anytime i will get back to you anytime.

thanks for reading hope 4 u 2 help me if i have any problem's and i'm hopeing 2 help you if u have any

take care

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My gf suddenly decided to make the trip, without me! I thought that was mean. Does she care?

Q.   Am i being silly or is there something wrong? i've been dateing my girlfriend 3 months shes 20 nearly 21 i've just turned 25 since i turned 25 on the 6th of june my girl as been acting werld towards me like the day of my birthday she was totta...

A.   9 June 2007: her family i've met her mom once (not on a good note) her brother twice hes a ok chap 1 of her nephews twice her mom and dad are not together, her mom lives here and her dad lives 1 hour away in blackpool i think shes trying to push me a... (read in full...)

How do I hint to my ex's dad that I'm not interested?

Q.   I am abit worried my ex's Dad fancies me and I am not sure what to do. My ex and I split nearly 6 months ago and contact with him has petered out; my ex wanted to stay in contact but I didn't since I don't think he treated me at all well. Anyway, ...

A.   27 May 2007: i think hes trying to say if my marriage falls hes gonna try 4 u i think ya right. i think u could give him the brush of by sayin " im going of men till i find a real man who will like me 4 me " and then he will say something like " maybe im ... (read in full...)

He's younger than me and my friends say I shouldn't date a schoolboy! Should I listen to them?

Q.   Hi There. I'm in urgent need of help. Im 21 and I'm seeing a 16 year old. He acts much older and is such a nice guy. I really love him and want this to last. We made love and it felt amazing. I though I might be pregnant and he told me he'd stan...

A.   14 May 2007: why listen 2 ya mates half of them will give u bad advice this is y i hate when girls get 2gether u slag of us guys of and give us bad names not all girls but i think its 65% of girls do this ya mates r wrong y sould it matter if ya dateing a ... (read in full...)

Is it unfair of me to want him to get rid of pictures of his ex?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five months and are very committed to one another. We are even planning to move in together this summer. Everything is great between us but one thing keeps bothering me. He was with his last ...

A.   14 May 2007: wow sorry 2 hear about ya boyfriend passed but we all been there. after 5months the pictures sould of gone i think unless he still as a thing 4 is ex. r they friend i've been with my new girlfriend 2 months and i still have a picture of my ex on... (read in full...)

My girlfriend told me she hadn't done anything "naughty" but I just found out today she has!

Q.   hi.. right .. my GF told me that she hadnt dun anything 'naughty' lol... with another boy and it made me happy .. but i just found out today that she has .. not sex just other stuff and i was just wondering what you would do.. i know she didnt do ...

A.   14 May 2007: u cant do nofthing about your girlfriends passed unless u invent a time machine and go bak and i dnt think u will anytime soon if i was in ya shoes i would comfront ya girlfriend and tell her what u heard maybe she will be nice and tell ya... (read in full...)

I'm a 19 year old male and I've never had sex.

Q.   Hi, I'm a 19 year old male and I've never had sex. i've went to do it twice now but both times i had troubles finding places and am very embarrassed about it. i don't know if it is because i have a lanky shape or if it's just nerves but i'm scared ...

A.   14 May 2007: dnt feel embarrased ya 19 and havent had sex i waited till i was 23 before i found my perfect partner she went on top and when it was my turn 2 go on top she put it in 4 me and after 2-3 go's i got it in the end. so my advice try it with someone ... (read in full...)

How does it take me so long to cum when I have sex?

Q.   on my first 3 times i have had sex i havnt been able to finish,I can go on for a good 30+ minutes, then i have to masturbate for 10 minutes afterwards to actually cum. If i masturbate when im alone i finish in about 3 minutes,just when i have sex...

A.   8 April 2007: Its Called To Much Masterbation its like me if i dnt masterbate and have sex with my girl i can cum in 5-10 min's top if i do masterbate it gives it like another 5-10 min's on top my advice is try not 2 masterbate between sex hope this helps... (read in full...)

We are going to be trying for a baby, any tips to help us succeed ?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend will start trying for a baby in a few weeks and i've got a few questions 1) if i have sex with no comdoms will that work? 2) sould i say 2 her she sould take pills or anything i've tried for a kid with another girl an...

A.   1 April 2007: Nope never gonna marry this girl ever!!! nope dont have a job ... but i'm doing my driveing lessions and when i pass in 2-3 months time i wanna be a van driver and 1 day maybe a HGV driver thats y i wanna try for a family now because in 3-5 yrs ... (read in full...)

We are going to be trying for a baby, any tips to help us succeed ?

Q.   Me and my girlfriend will start trying for a baby in a few weeks and i've got a few questions 1) if i have sex with no comdoms will that work? 2) sould i say 2 her she sould take pills or anything i've tried for a kid with another girl an...

A.   1 April 2007: The Girl is 20 nearly 21 in September i'm 24 nearly 25 In June i kind of pushed my new bird into haveing this baby not because i'm an ass or anything because i'm getting on a bit and wanna be 1 day playing football with my kid not an old man w... (read in full...)

After only 3 months, he is going out with someone else.

Q.   I started dating my bestfriend 3 years ago. Now he has broken up with me and is now after only 3 months being apart is going out with someone else. But he still wants to hang out and he knows that it hurts me for him to be dating someone else. Im ...

A.   7 February 2007: wow your ex dating someone else 3 months after you split. babe sorry 2 say but he moved on time for u to do the same. i know u was 2gether 3 years and it seems like longer but you now have to look at the bigger picture. i think your ex boyfr... (read in full...)

My boyfriend says I'm boring in bed!

Q.   My boyfriend says he works too hard to try to get an orgasm when we have sex. Basically, he thinks I'm boring in bed. What can I do to keep his interest?...

A.   7 February 2007: can i be honest? i used to think my ex was boring in bed because we did it miss style over and over and over again. i told her the day she lefted me it was like shaggin a bag of spuds because that how i used 2 look at it. i think you sou... (read in full...)

Do I love her like I loved my ex?

Q.   4 Days Into Our R-Ship and i dont know what 2 buy her for v-day i'm 24 i'm dateing a 16 year old girl that goes to collage (i know 16 is young but who cares in the united kingdom u can sleep with a 16 year old girl) i really like her so much...

A.   7 February 2007: i'm not with this girl for sex. i'm well over my ex. how long did i know her? .... we kind of met sunday so no time at all. i did buy her a teddy with a pink bow. that says " love u " in a heart and i bought her a card that says " 2 ... (read in full...)

Should I meet this 16 year old girl who says I am a stunner, even though I know I'm not! What should I do?

Q.   i'm very worried about the girl i'm about to meet. i'm 24 year old i've just come out of a 15 months r-ship and now i'm bored and want a new r-ship. i went on this website called " faceparty " and this girl aged 16 has gotten my msn and is now ...

A.   3 February 2007: i went this morning and i saw her standing outside the cinema. and when i parked my car these 2 lads was stood with her. and when i txt 2 say i arrived these lads was looking for me with her. and when i txt her 2 say i had 2 go and i said so... (read in full...)

Everyone says I'm not over my ex...how can I tell if I am or not?

Q.   Valentine's Day is nearly ere. my ex girlfriend and myself r getting so close on our friendship, she wants me to buy her a Valentine's Day card and gift. and she wants to spend Valentine's Day with me. 5 week's apart and today at the trafford ...

A.   17 January 2007: thanks for your advice but i'm not going to brake anything i want a kid i'm nearly 25 years old and only had 1 serious girlfriend and my ex is it. i want a kid my ex told me the other week before we started sleeping 2gether she was 2 young blah blah ... (read in full...)

Everyone says I'm not over my ex...how can I tell if I am or not?

Q.   Valentine's Day is nearly ere. my ex girlfriend and myself r getting so close on our friendship, she wants me to buy her a Valentine's Day card and gift. and she wants to spend Valentine's Day with me. 5 week's apart and today at the trafford ...

A.   17 January 2007: do i still feel like kissing and wanting her everytime i'm around her? sometimes not all the time it depends if i'm horny or not. does it hurt to be around her = no!! when she stays over the house all i wanna do is shag. but sometimes ... (read in full...)

He wants to give me oral... I'm worried about how I look "down below"!

Q.   my boyfriend wants to have oral sex with me, but i am scared about how i look below even though we have sex often? shud i b confident about what i look like down below? xxxxxxxxx-xxxxxxxxx...

A.   15 January 2007: my advice stop worrying enjoy it. and ask for lots more. take care... (read in full...)

He was falsely accused of rape! Will he be able to find good jobs after having this happen to him?

Q.   My friend was falsely accused of rape. He was cleared as the women had lied about it. However since then he still hasn't been himself as he's worried that his name has been stained and can't get another job (he was a chemical engineer before he got ...

A.   13 January 2007: Is You Friend from the state's? because here in the uk we have law that mean's u can't get sacked for crap like that. i think it's stupid that in the uk there's a law saying if u take a drunk girl home u got 2 ask her 2 say yes 2 sex. before u can ... (read in full...)

We were friends, then slept together. I liked him, but he didn't want a r-ship. Now we hardly talk and I feel so bad.

Q.   does his guy really like me? Ok...here is the story, its a long one! i just am so confused, i wish i could read guys minds! We met at college about 5 years ago, and for about 2 years we were the best of friends. We used to go to the ci...

A.   11 January 2007: Sorry to say this but to this so called friend, u was a easy f**k in is eyes. after u stoped the f**king he stopped talking to you so if he liked u one bit he would of said from the start lets give a go. to me i don't think he liked u in the w... (read in full...)

My ex is sleeping w/ me...and others! What if they're not using protection?! And how can I get her back w/ just me?

Q.   My Ex Girlfriend and myself r doing great everything going great no problem's where best friends who sleep with each over and it's never werld 1 bit. last night she came up we had something to eat we made love. and everything was going great. ...

A.   11 January 2007: i'm 24 james is dunno she didn't say akie is = 22 maybe 23 .. he's my ex ex he cheated on her whilie they was 2gehter. ryan is = 19 she told me he said some bad things about her and she doesn't talk 2 him anymore. but she txt him sayi... (read in full...)

I think he may be meeting "internet ladies"... !

Q.   my boyfriend has alot of female friends on the internet and it kind of bugs me.. i also think he is meeting new women on the internet? we have been together for 4 months... what should i do???...

A.   10 January 2007: People r allowed to have friend's over the internet. you have been 2gether 4 month's. and it's already bugging you he talks to friend's or girl over the net what's your r-ship with this lad like? do u talk offen or does he put is head in the scre... (read in full...)

He needs time to think-is this just leading up to being dumped?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months. He spent the first few months trying to get back together with his ex who has moved overseas. He then told me he was falling in love with me and things were going great. We see each other al...

A.   10 January 2007: hey Angelgirl77 good question and i hope i helped u out. if not sorry it's all good 4 u 2 be the way u r and i will look out for any future problems u may have if i can i will help u take care... (read in full...)

New year means new things! What is the scariest thing you have ever done in your life?

Q.   Just a general question really to all you guys and gals out there; what is the scariest thing/s you have ever done? See I read this question in a magazine recently and couldn't think of anything scary I had done so I thought I'd put this questio...

A.   10 January 2007: Scaried Thing i've ever done. was last year september time me & my ex had agreed to look after her mom & dad's house whilie they was on holiday as we walked from my mom's 2 her mom's we saw a old friend of my ex's she's not seen her in 4 ye... (read in full...)

My ex and I are more than sex buddies, but now she's kissing another guy! I don't know what to do.

Q.   Hey there everyone, just wondering if anyone can shed some light, or give advice on the situation i am in. I was seeing a girl for just over 2 years, everything was perfect as it usually is, best years of our life, and now i dont know what the hell...

A.   10 January 2007: the same thing is happening to me at the present time. girlfriend spilit with me a month ago. i begged her the day she dumped me for sex she said no. last weekend she told me the sex part was wearing off and she misses sex. she told me about th... (read in full...)

He said he was going out and then never came back! I heard he's now w/ someone else, but we had plans for the future!!

Q.   i was going out with a lad we was together for 6months and i had a misscarage and 3 weeks after he said he was going to his mates and he never came back i have heard the he is with someoe else and i love him i have never loved anyone like i love him ...

A.   8 January 2007: wow you want your boyfriend back y? he's an asshole sorry 2 say that but he lefted u 3 week's after you had a miscarriage. my ex had a miscarrage last year and i will not lie 2 u 1 bit. girls take it like a train wreck. my ex was depressed fo... (read in full...)

My gf gets drunk and says she wants to split and texts her friends that she doesn't want a "real" relationship. She tells me there are no problems! Help!

Q.   Hello, I am seeing a very lovely girl, and the majority of the time we get on great. However, she can be very hot and cold with me, and I need some advice. She has, on many occasions, told me that she did not want to see me anymore (usually when she ...

A.   8 January 2007: hey mate wow your girlfriend is lieing from the start that's a good start. she's tellin her mates she not doesnt want a real r-ship is her mate male or female? how do u know she could be sleeping with someone else and saying 2 him it's not a r-... (read in full...)

He needs time to think-is this just leading up to being dumped?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months. He spent the first few months trying to get back together with his ex who has moved overseas. He then told me he was falling in love with me and things were going great. We see each other al...

A.   8 January 2007: wow sound's like your guy wanted is ex. tried and is now confused more than ever. my advice 2 u is. step back look at you r-ship ask yourself is he worth it. i don't know about the breaking up part. because he could just of saw is ex and fell rig... (read in full...)

He keeps wanting to see me even though we have broken up. What should I do?

Q.   first of all, i want to thank those who answered my question coz i could assure u i took all ur opinions into consideration!!xx now i hav another prob!(surprisingly enough)...i told my bf how i feel about wanting to be single and he didnt take it ...

A.   7 January 2007: friendship after a r-ship can be hard but only if u make it hard. me & my ex get on like an house on fire we laff joke. and we r like best mates 3 week's i've been apart from my ex now and u know what? i'm happy she's my friend. help's me get over ... (read in full...)

He keeps wanting to see me even though we have broken up. What should I do?

Q.   first of all, i want to thank those who answered my question coz i could assure u i took all ur opinions into consideration!!xx now i hav another prob!(surprisingly enough)...i told my bf how i feel about wanting to be single and he didnt take it ...

A.   7 January 2007: wow your ex seem's a bit full on. it's like me when my ex dumped me i wanted to see her everyday. but i got the idea soon enought that if i see her it's gonna be hard. u need to say - listen we can be friend's (yes it's ok 2 be friends) but ... (read in full...)

I just want to be happy with the girl I love, but am struggling. Can I achieve that?

Q.   I've been living with my gf for a few years now and her behaviour has changed rapidly.She has 2 children from a previous who i have a good relationship with. she recently stated she wants no more children now but did when i didn't!Instead she treats ...

A.   7 January 2007: I know where your comeing from here because my ex girlfriend was the shame as your girlfriend. my ex was never happy unless she was out drinking with her mate's when she was in she moaned she was bored out of her head all the time. she moaned i... (read in full...)

I don't want her back, but is there is a way of putting it so she will still sleep with me?

Q.   Ok Got a Problem. my Ex girfiend txt's me yeserday and ask's me if i'm really over and she think's i don't love her anymore. i told her i still care and love her. but i'm well over her. she tell's me she's horny like mad now. so i offer n...

A.   6 January 2007: Just so u all know. i had sex with my ex girlfriend last night she came over we had sex twice was the best sex in a long time. where still agreeing that it's all fun. and no string's or anything is 2 be touched. she told me if any of us get... (read in full...)

I don't want her back, but is there is a way of putting it so she will still sleep with me?

Q.   Ok Got a Problem. my Ex girfiend txt's me yeserday and ask's me if i'm really over and she think's i don't love her anymore. i told her i still care and love her. but i'm well over her. she tell's me she's horny like mad now. so i offer n...

A.   6 January 2007: Last Night i txted her asking her if she wanted to cum 2 the house she did in her pj's i made a joke " don't worry your not going to be in them long " we went into the bedroom (i live with my mom & family) and we was toy fighting on the bed. ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend appeared on an adult video site age 19... and I can't get over it!

Q.   So my girlfriend confessed to me that when she was 19 she appeared on an adult website to earn some extra cash for school. She is 24 now and realizes it was the worst thing she could ever do and regrets the whole thing. We want to get married but I ...

A.   5 January 2007: look at it like this what happened in the past happaned what u doing 2 do? build a time machine and stop her from doing it? u sould look at this in a good way think about it all them guys had 2 pay and watch her do thing's u get 2 fuck her f... (read in full...)

She said she'll forver love me but needs this split to find herself! Is there nay hope we'll get back together?

Q.   After 6 years my GF decided to call it quits 3 days ago......Very hard during the holidays. We have talked tons every day since and tonite we got all our cards on the table. She has lost sight of who she is and what she wants. She needs to focus on ...

A.   26 December 2006: Wow Sorry For You'r Lost. she's saying she losed sight of who she is. she want's to be closest of friend's that's good. that mean's there hope but not 100% and that's the problem. take me been with my girl 15 month's. and we had a miscarriag... (read in full...)

Is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?

Q.   This may be a stupid question, but is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?...

A.   20 December 2006: yep it's normal. i love to know why but it is. take me my ex girlfriend wouldn't give it up every night (stupid reason) but i jerked myself to help her. the girl's always think's it's wrong for a guy to jerk or look at porn whilie in a r-ship b... (read in full...)

My husband said he loves me even though I've got a small chest - then he compared my chest to my cousin's! That really hurt my feelings!

Q.   Ever since I can remember I've wanted bigger size breasts (I'm a small 34B). I know that my husband has a thing for women with large breasts, though (like most guys). Then tonight he says to me "I love you more than I would even love anyone with ...

A.   16 December 2006: why do women always say " tit's size " is mega important to us guy's ... most guy's like myself couldn't give a fuck if u was flat chested. big boobed. show us love and it doesn't matter if u have no tit's. we will love you. your husband sound's ... (read in full...)

Is cyber sex, online with different men considered cheating on my husband?

Q.   is it cheating if you are going onto chat sites and chat to guys and talk to them in a sexual way. Sex with my husband is non existent and i feel its the only way i can get rid of my frustration. Yes i have tried to approach my husband to do ...

A.   6 December 2006: Cyber Sex is cheating my girl did it to me and i will admit to you all it put this nasty feeling in my belly she said it was all fun. it's never fun because it's cheating. i'm sorry u don't have sex like other's say " talk 2 him about it " or le... (read in full...)

My BF has never come while we have been having sex! What am I doing wrong?

Q.   hi i am going out with my boyfriend over a year we have had sex 6 times but i dont enjoy that much as i am worrying about if i am doing it right. I'm not sure on what to do and just lie there could any1 give me tips please? I feel awful and just ...

A.   8 November 2006: xXxNikixXx it's a shame to hear about your problem's but i why not try some other postion's. try biting him during sex. make him pull your hair just keep it simple. don't listen to the person saying break up because it sound's like he doesn't have a ... (read in full...)

I want to know about my partner's past, but she refuses to tell me! Am I being unfair?

Q.   My girlfriend is 6 years older than me (29). She is a very decent,church-going girl, she has even been a virgin till we met (2 years ago). Thing is she told me recently that she hasnt always been like this, that in her younger age (19-25) she ...

A.   8 November 2006: cetateanu very good question. i met my girl a year ago. i will not lie to you she had a very colourful past. drug's, sex. and he told me everything in the first few month's. after the first few month's she started telling me thing's she forgot like ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks anything but FULL SEX isn't cheating. I disagree... please help us out!

Q.   What constitutes cheating? Is going to a strip club cheating? Is being very friendly with the opposite sex cheating? Is being flirtatious cheating? Is touching someone else cheating? Is having a secret crush cheating? Is having sinful thoughts of ...

A.   8 November 2006: Going To A Strip Club is not cheating haveing a lap dance maybe classed in some way as cheating as i do but most men don't think it is. being friendly with the other sex is not cheating. being flirtatious as you say with the other sex would class in ... (read in full...)

I'm 22 and like a guy but I've never had a relationship before and I'm so nervous!

Q.   im a 22 year old girl, and i know a 23 year old guy who i've had a "thing" with for awhile. Well, recently i found out that he likes me, likes me....and everyone else thinks so too. I am anxious to talk to him again, but when i think about him ...

A.   7 November 2006: i'm a 24 year old lad i met my girl when i was 23 my last girlfriend was when i was 15 year's old i was mega bricking it. when i started talking to my girl but she knew i was nervous and i could tell she was a lil and everything went well. you have ... (read in full...)

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