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2 January 2011: I was revising physics when an epiphany struck me that made me realize something potentially significant about the high rates of failure in cross-gender relationships, that is male and female companionship( and if you're wondering what the ...
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Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 16 April 2010: Wait, you're telling me we weren't friends this whole time!!!
Lol,
I'm all for the internet based group hug!... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 15 April 2010: Celtic Tiger...ahh let me get my mega-clarification cap on:
When seeing things from a teenage mom's perspective, I described the opposition negatively and labeled the young mom as innocent. Afterwards, I looked at it from the tax payer's point of... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 15 April 2010: That's a pretty positive attitude you possess. That 888 in my name, everyone always misses it out...maybe it's because Starmonster888 is too long, you can all 888 for short :)... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 15 April 2010: Wait, don't take the cold happy hating thing seriously, it was just supposed to symbolise how one side of the argument might view the other, I didn't men to offend...I should have used the flawless "no offense" technique...sorry. I should watch my ... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 15 April 2010: Can I input a little more, question just got awesomer over night!
I thought is was nice to have a teenage mom come here and give us a good story for once, then all of a sudden it was Star Wars: The Taxpayer Strikes Back!
There is more than eno... (read in full...)
Could I be pregnant from oral sex?
Q. I recently gave my boyfriend oral sex and he did the same for me, but since then I've been feeling strange. Could I be pregnant?...
A. 14 April 2010: Wouldn't it be cool though, if by some miracle reproductive cells managed to survive the digestive system? Past the large intestines, through the small intestines, swim through the stomach after wearing anti-acid gear and some how take a detour and ... (read in full...)
Is it fair to say that if she won't do it for me, I won't do it for her?
Q. my girlfriend had a lot of sex before she got with me. She was well known for giving blow jobs. We have been together a year and she won't give me one. When I asked her to do it she refused. She said that when she was younger she did it ...
A. 14 April 2010: She has a legitimate reason why she's chosen not to whereas you want to get her back. Kind of hard to justify that one. I definitely see where you are coming from, but I also see where you're going if you doing this and that's down the "ruin ... (read in full...)
Isaac and Me
Q. hi guys i had just turned 13 when i found out i was 6 weeks pregnant i didnt know what to do i didnt tell my mum i went straigt to my boyfriend and told him we were going to have a baby he sayed thats great but i didnt hear from him again so i ...
A. 13 April 2010: Hey, congrats! I mean guys, I co-sign the punctuation thing and the studying thing, but at least comment on the actual article as well. Wait let me say that again with emphasis: ARTICLE first poster, not question, ARTICLE. Jumpoutandshou... (read in full...)
Are we destined to have bad relationships depending on how we were raised?
Q. Dear cupid, I've been wondering this for a while now and maybe it's true maybe it's not but I have watched it happen to alot of people, heard famous songs about it, even watched it in movies and those movie ideas had to of come from someone....
A. 13 April 2010: I think it's possible for upbringing to influence everything about us, but ultimately, everything we do, see and experience throughout our entire lifespan has the same impact. As a result, I'd like to believe that how we are raised is just one of ... (read in full...)
How do I show how much more I like her than her boyfriend does?
Q. Okay, so my friend calls me the other night around midnight. She's drunk and crying hysterically because she'd recently split with her boyfriend, who she's been on and off with for months now (it's ridiculous, but that's besides the point). I ...
A. 13 April 2010: Much like UniMan said, you are being very nice. The problem is, being nice to someone doesn't automatically indicate romantic interest, ESPECIALLY when you are nice to them after they've broken up with someone else. That just portrays you as a ... (read in full...)
I feel used and cheap
Q. So my boyfriend and I had an argument. And I'm extremely pissed right now. We have been dating for 3 months. Off and on. We have not had sex since wednesday night, well we had sex on sunday (but that doesnt count he says). We got into an argument ...
A. 13 April 2010: Using sex as a form of blackmail is low, you shouldn't feel like you HAVE to have sex because when that happens, it stops being pleasurable and it becomes a duty. A guy who finds it difficult to hold out sex for 6 days for his partner isn't ... (read in full...)
Friend has an abusive boyfriend
Q. hi, my best friend has an abusive bf and i dont know what to do to help her. she has bruises up her arm, down her leg, on the stomch and boob because of him. though she says its not his fault, its his ADHD thats doing it and the fact that she 'winds ...
A. 13 April 2010: This IS your business. At the moment, your friend is probably in such a vulnerable state that she doesn't realize just how wrong him striking her is. Scarily enough, abusive relationships usually make the victim feel like the culprit which makes ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that my boyfriend likes to look in my eyes all the time?
Q. my boyfriend always looks at me..every time i turn around hes looking at me..not creepy but in a cute way..i don't know to say to him. hes always looking to my eyes.. he can look into my eyes for Long. ike he want to say something but he doesn't...
A. 12 April 2010: He sounds like the mythical "good man"! Legend has it that every 500yrs, an emotionally attached man gets involved with a lucky woman(in this case, star-strukk here and yourself). Sounds like he likes you. Its only weird if you feel it is.... (read in full...)
How can I show my boss a hot kinky time?
Q. I posted on here a few days ago regarding my casual sex relationship with my 33 year old boss. Today, she expressed an interest to visit me one night. So far we have only been having sex around hers but she wanted to spice it up a little. My parents ...
A. 12 April 2010: Washing machine.It's not really kinky, just sounds cool. ... (read in full...)
I feel cheap because I've done so much more than my b/f
Q. I just started a relationship with a very close friend of mine. We just had our second date and he kissed me. Last night we were doing 20 questions. He asked me how far I had gone with my last boyfriend who I had a year and a half relationship with. ...
A. 12 April 2010: Initially, before actually reading the question, I thought you were going to tell us you've had sex with like 40 guys in a month or something! You are far from a slut. It's quite admirable that you're a virgin and, the fact that you even feel ba... (read in full...)
Are there love spells you can cast that actually work?
Q. hi there are many webistes online claming to cast spells that would really work.there is this spell casting women named ashra she is the us top most american cast speller of 2009 do u think he can really cast a love spell that will work? Please...
A. 12 April 2010: You never know unless you try. Oh wait sorry i mean't you never know until you blow $900 trying to find out...no, seriously, check this out:
http://www.egyptian-witchcraft.com/truelovespell.htm
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Is an emotional affair more meaningful than a sexual one?
Q. One mainly for the guys but if any of you ladies have comments................... When you have an emotional affair which does not get physical is that more meaningful to a guy than a relationship which is mainly sex orientated??...
A. 12 April 2010: For me, a pure emotional relationship is more meaningful than a physical relationship. Problem is, if its purely emotional with no physical, it "MEANS" i'm leaving...cheating.Personally that it.... (read in full...)
World of warcraft is ruining my marriage!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 14 years this year. It mostly feels to me that we do nothing but argue most of the time, and over the past few years I have lost all respect for him. We have a 9 year old daughter, and I've decided in the p...
A. 12 April 2010: No,I don't think so. This is a marriage, not a play date. Not to mention there is an 8 year old kid involved. I also don't think she's made up her mind because, well, she's asking for advice.
It's not fair that you need to work this hard to ... (read in full...)
I am considering being a non sexual escort
Q. hi, iv split up with my bf recently and im not taking it very well...i have no interest in any physical contact and think just going on dates would help...with no contact and i dont want it to go any where so is it wrong if i become an escort? on a ...
A. 11 April 2010: You do realize non-sexual/escort is an oxymoron right?... (read in full...)
World of warcraft is ruining my marriage!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 14 years this year. It mostly feels to me that we do nothing but argue most of the time, and over the past few years I have lost all respect for him. We have a 9 year old daughter, and I've decided in the p...
A. 11 April 2010: That game is worse than cocaine. I don't even know why people like it. It has lousy graphics. Anyway, build a half-way house for him because a straight "stop doing what you love" won't help him detox. Understandably, you feel it's wrong for him to ... (read in full...)
Dating one girl but feel the "playboy" urge in me becoming stronger and stronger
Q. Greetings everybody! I've been having some (what I perceive to be) "bad signs" lately when it comes to my commitment to my relationship. I'm wondering what kind of advice people have for me. A little background information: A few years ago,...
A. 11 April 2010: This is the best question ever. Okay, you are a stupid testosterone-driven male, but that's good, embrace you inner self, but consider you inner femininity too because it acts as a separate conscious that's exclusive to relationships with ... (read in full...)
I think he will leave me if I don't have sex with him.
Q. hi my name is xoxoxoxo and i am a virgin and i really want to have sex i have a boyfriend and i really love him hes not a virgin but i am i tried to let him do it but it hurts when he tries to go in so i make him stop is it me what should i do i ...
A. 11 April 2010: Well xoxoxoxo, the first thing you need to do is remember punctuation for future questions. Seriously, it make reading it bearable. Now, for you answer, I suggest you work at a pace that you feel comfortable with. I'm sure if you explain to him t... (read in full...)
Having casual sex with my boss..should it go on?
Q. I started working for a well known Supermarket chain about 6 months ago. Since then, I have grown attracted to one of my department bosses. She's blonde, 33 (which without giving my ag, and the other week me and her had hot and raunchy sex together. ...
A. 11 April 2010: Damn straight what you do in you time is your buisness! Hell, you guys don't even need role play do you! God when I'm older I ant to be in your shoes!Don't stop.As long as she knows what it is and you know what it is, continue. You're grown folk.... (read in full...)
My family thinks I'm a bad parent!
Q. I have 3 sisters, all of us moms. I have 1 son who is 19 and still lives at home. Ever since the time he was born my family has criticized my parenting skills. My family all live in a small canadian town, my husband and I move to california before ...
A. 11 April 2010: I think you live u to your username. You have a morden and unorthadox perspective on, not only parenting, but life. Whilst other parents decide to omitt the fact that kids have sex ,amongst other things, you choose to comprimise with a sitution that ... (read in full...)
Why do men turn to protitutes?
Q. this may sound like a random question, but why do alot of men visit prostitutes? most of them are dirty crack addicts who are really ugly and are tramps, and why would men want to do that if they have a pretty girl at home who is willing to do ...
A. 11 April 2010: We should have a "Rhetorical Questions" section on this site. Sometimes a man, or boy depending on the country's laws(and if such as country exists I might visit...joke) needs sex without strings. Maybe they want something their significant other ... (read in full...)
How do I stand out from the crowd and attract boys?
Q. Well im nearly 14 but everyone says im so mature for my age. At the moment, all the boys in my year seem like idiots and i wouldn't be seen dead with any of them... all the girls seem really prettier than me and get all the boys attention. But then ...
A. 10 April 2010: Men are visual creatures! WELL THAT'S JUST true.
Looking attractive to guys seems harder than it actually is...not that I've tried. Whilst I agree with marieclaire's self confessed cliche but true "be yourself" comment, Laura1318's make over advi... (read in full...)
I'm about to get caught out for lying to my girlfriend.
Q. I'm going to make this short, Recently I told my girlfriend I've been going to Painting class when I have really been drinking with my friends and just doing guy stuff, Anyhow She wants too see some of my work, Well I cant paint at all, I See this ...
A. 9 April 2010: Dude, your are FAR from from screwed. Thing about art is that it takes the whole "beauty is in the eyes of the beholder thing literally". Just do something vaguely nice and label it abstract.Simple.Not that i'm encouraging you to lie...just ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?
Q. me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with ...
A. 9 April 2010: The only relationship question worse than that is "am I your biggest".
But no, you're not wrong to be taken back, 36 is a huge number, especially considering she's woman.
Dave: Starmonster! What a sexist thing to say!
Starmonster888: First... (read in full...)
Does porn improve bj technique
Q. Ok this one is mostly for the guys.. I was wondering if watching people in porn (i don't just mean pornstars but "amateurs" too) give oral is a good place to pick up tips. What do you think? Would you encourage your gf to copy some of the more por...
A. 9 April 2010: Yes! I mean, what better place to learn maths than in a maths class? ... (read in full...)
Are men just 'wired' to want to sleep around?
Q. Sandra Bullock. Elin Woods. Shania Twain. Jennifer Aniston. Sienna Miller (both the cheater and the cheatee). Today's news brings information on Gabrielle Beauvouis (can't spell her name) also being cheated upon for 5 years. Kate fucking Gosselin. ...
A. 9 April 2010: It's not wiring, its just temptation that every individual has to endure and, depending on their relationship, some people have more reasons to resist it than others. People differ. Some guys, and girls, can have a strong emotional relationship with ... (read in full...)
Do we all find happiness and true love?
Q. do we all find happiness and true love?xxx...
A. 9 April 2010: The way I see it, we don't find happiness,we make it. A student forms his happiness when he passes, a priest when he preaches etc. Only by recognizing what we want, identifying the means to acquire it and finally having it in our grasp can we trully ... (read in full...)
Bunny Boiler trapped my husband in a 5 year affair!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 16 years, we have two children ages 9 and 10, I caught him at this girls house 5 years ago, and he said he was helping her thru issues and they were friends- dumb me right- I believed him. I ask him to not talk ...
A. 9 April 2010: You should ask him to write a book and split the profits because with creativity like that, you could make millions! Any man who claims he had sex with another woman over a 5yr period as a sacrifice for he's kids is directly insulting your ... (read in full...)
Should I keep my relationship with my boyfriend who cheated?
Q. My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend and I don't know what to do because he asked me to forgive him and he said that he won't do this anymore.Should I trust him? Are men worth of trust?...
A. 9 April 2010: Are men trust worthy? That depends on the man and,with that in mind,the only person who can decide whether what he is saying is heart-felt or just an illusion he's creating to regain your favour is you. What type of person is he? If you can answer ... (read in full...)
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