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writes:hi, iv split up with my bf recently and im not taking it very well...i have no interest in any physical contact and think just going on dates would help...with no contact and i dont want it to go any where so is it wrong if i become an escort? on a non-sexual site? where u literally go on dates?No way would i ever have men pay me for sex or anything like that, im nothing like that but dates i think, dates and get paid for it?..
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2010): What paintmynails said......you may find such an agency if you are lucky. But most of the time you will be expected to have sex as part of your job.
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reader, Starmonster888 +, writes (11 April 2010):
 You do realize non-sexual/escort is an oxymoron right?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Honestly sweetheart I don't think such a thing exists.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 When I was 17 I lived with an escort (I moved out of home young) and whilst I will say that over half the time she did not actually have sex with her 'date', .. it was expected as part of her job that she did have to if the client wanted to.
I think about 25% of the time she engaged in sex, 25 % was indulging kinks like golden showers, strip tease, dirty talk, that sort of thing but without actual sex, the rest she just had a nice dinner, drinks, etc.
That said, she could hold her alcohol really well and would deliberately keep the drinks flowing knowing the men would try to keep up with her and then not be able to perform - so that is how she got out of the sex most of the time.
Don't tho think sex is not something on the menu to be ordered if desired no matter what the initial representation looks like. Go to the interviews and I betcha it will be clarified that is part of the job. These agencies want return clients, and they are not gunna get that if all options are not open to the client to decide upon as the evening progresses.
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reader, paintmynails +, writes (11 April 2010):
Hi.
I think I'm qualified to answer this, because I had similar ideas as you.
And I can tell you, there are no agencies which do this. This sort of thing is a myth. It doesn't exist.
I know this because I have been to agency escort interviews.
Any agency which has a website which seems as though this is what they provide, that is simply a front to cover the fact they are selling sex.
Sorry to burst a bubble :(
But also, even if that wasn't the case. I really don't think that would be the way to get over your ex. I think you need to just go out, enjoy being young, have fun with your friends, and not worry about men. If you really want some light-hearted male interaction you and a friend could go speed dating or something for a laugh!
Hope this helps.
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reader, hpoco  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Or maybe you can just go on actual dates, if you like going on them? There are plenty of non-escort dating sites, and if you would do well as an escort, I am guessing you can get a few non-paid dates as well. Why do you want to get paid for it? I don't think it sounds like a great way to deal with the pain of a failed relationship.
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